Totally Talkative, Crazy 1st-timers (NTNP/TTC #1!) - [22+ BFP's & 18 babies born!]

How are you finding pumping Alex? Are you using a manual or an electric? I'm just asking because it's I've of my biggest fears (probably more than the giving birth!) It looks so painful & the thought of it makes me squirm, had a bit of a melt down about it the other week! X
 
I use a double electric. My mum picked it up for 100 bucks. It hurts for a few seconds then you don't feel it. The nurse got me to pump every time she ate in hospital at first, but she would only latch for a couple seconds. It's a good thing I was pumping because I had a little supply saved up when I got home and then she outright refused to latch. I'm definitely glad the nurse thought of that.
 
Does it hurt for a few second every time or just the first few times? Has it helped with your supply? If I can't get baby to latch then I definitely want to express. Well done for sticking with it xxx
 
Hi everyone :wave: I'm really poorly with tummy bug, DH had it first & we thought was food poisoning but 4 days later it struck me down too. Luckily he's better now and I was q good lil nursey to him so I know he'll return the favour when he gets back from work, plus he was great in the night & this morn. Axle I feel terrible :sick:

Plus I have a fever so totally gonna mess with my chart, I'm 8dpo & was hoping for a temp rise but not this way! Guess this fever & all the sick/runs (soz TMI) would burn out / shake out any bean that might be thinking about nestling anyway. Sucky McSuckerson.

Hope everyone is ok xxx
 
Good luck hun!!

It's been every time so far, but less and less so. Hurts way less when you use the Lasinoh cream every time. Right now I'm pumping about 30oz / day and she drinks anywhere from 25-30 so I'm getting ahead little by little. I'm getting some fenugreek and blessed thistle tomorrow, it's supposed to seriously amp up your supply. Going to take that for a couple months so that I can get ahead of her even more. I'm still trying to get her to latch but have been doing this until then. I had to supplement with formula for two nights. It sucked because no one told me that high iron for combi feeding is reeeally bad. She's been off it for a week and it's still messing with her system. So if you combi feed get the "sensitive" one from similac with low iron. Expressing is sooo much more demanding then it seems.
I set it up so that I can sleep a bit more at night, but our "routine" is
up at seven, feed/change her, pump for twenty minutes, wash bottles, take a nap,

up at ten am, feed/change, pump for twenty minutes, eat breakfast, sanitize bottles,

up at noon, feed/change, wash bottles, she stays up for an hour, tryyyy to pump again before she's up.

Up at four, same, try to pump twice, get dressed lol.
Up at 7, same, pump twice.
Up at ten, same, go to timmies mmm, pump twice.
Bed, up at one, pump, dishes, bed.
Up at four, same.

Basically changing, feeding and bottles take up an hour and a half every time. Pumping is twenty minutes each time so about 20-40 minutes. Then trying to squeeze in other stuff. The pumping takes like 3-4 hours of "me" time every day, but at least I can go on BnB during it hahaha. So when I finally get her to latch and I don't have the dishes and pumping to do, it'll be soooo nice. I don't se why people choose to FF when it.s so much more work lol! I wanna BF from cost and labour reasons only. Easier, cheaper.
 
Aurora, I've actually read that you are more likely to conceive when you are run down because your immune system doesn't fight off the 'foreign bodies' that are spermies so well!

Saying that I know you are post O and I hope you feel much better very soon xoxo
 
Thanks for the tips Alex. Wow Lara is keeping you on your toes hehe xx

Aurora sorry you are sick bleurch! That was so nice of your hubby for sharing, what's his is yours and all that! I hope you start to feel better soon lovely xx
 
Thanks ladies, I think your luck has done the trick as I am feeling better already, even though hubs was down with it for four days. Even managed some fruit and mashed potato (not together though, ick!). So thanks everyone! xxx
 
Hmmm goes to show how strong the female of the species is (although I am actually a super dooper wimp when I'm ill).
 
Still nothing for me! No sore BBs, no AF, no BFP (as of this morning with an IC and FMU). :shrug: Looks like I'm in for another 40+ day cycle for some reason...????

I. Hate. Female. Bodiesssss. :growlmad:
 
Annie, I'm going with your schedule too I guess! I took my pos OPK out and with my temps looks like I O'd a week later than I'm supposed to and my cycles have never been this long! I'm on CD34 right now. With my O date changing i'm now at 8dpo. I'm having a lot of lower back pain, bb's still a tiny bit sore, just had a little bit of cramping on my left abdomen this afternoon but nothing major. Waiting for next week to see if I get a bfp or AF.
 
Can I join ladies? Me and DP are a lesbian couple TTC #1 since jan 2012 with sperm donor
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Welcome! I'm Alex. Are you doing at home or in a clinic or? And how did you choose your donor?
 
Hey :-)
At home. We found him on another forum. We're looking for blonde hair and blue eyes like DP and he matched :-)
Can't imagine doing it at a clinic - so expensive!
 
Haha definitely. Does he know you're a lesbian couple then? I love when they don't judge based on that!
 
Aurora I so hope u feel better soon my sweet xxx

Alex uve a nice lil routine set th3re..... I'm demand feeding now and not so much pumping more so just for relief .... I only find it hurts if ur pumping but noe ral milk is coming any more .... The pic is half my stock the freezer is conpletly full including the door .... I was pumping so.much in hosp ....I would be there 7-7 bf every 3-4hrs then pump straight after ..... Have soo much milk now I seriously feel like a cow .... Now she demands and I.feed its good coz she's got great latch and she sucjs really well
Yahoooo

Not sure of the pump u have Alex but the hospital grade pumps are really good if u can hire one to.build up good supply wen starting out..... Then move into.the at home ones .... I used medela symphony at hosp....now using medela swing .....

Hope everyone is great xxx

Ps the milk goes 6rows deep ...so much milk
 

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