trying before af

[Tmb0047]

Bug - Your first little man was TINY! Did he arrive early? My smallest was 8lbs1oz and my biggest was a 9 pounder!

 

[Bug222]

He was born at 38weeks He was a planned c-section as I have a spinal issue that basically left me unable to walk/move without a lot of pain from 25 weeks onward. They think it is likely that he was somewhat growth restricted as instead of stretching/moving to accomodate baby my pelvis just twisted. I also had PIH- and was showing signs of pre-e by the day of my c-section so they also thought he may not have been getting the sufficient nutrients due to my high BP. When they announced his weight I thought they were kidding... i fully expected 7-8lbs!!

 

[Tmb0047]

My appointment went okay....not exactly as I was hoping, but not bad I guess. She will not refer me to a FS until we try for another 6 months. Apparently the fast that I have been on meds for past pregnancies is not reason enough to put me on the fast track. She is a new, young doctor and is very "by the book". They are requesting my records from my old province so that they can see my history and then she may send the request sooner. I explained to her how I track ovulation and am very aware of my body and how often it ovulates on its own....I told her the whole 6 months could be a waste of time if I only ovulate once (or possibly not at all).

I guess the only real good thing about the appointment is that she has agreed to give me provera at my next appointment if AF has not arrived. I see her again on July 14 which will be nearly 6 weeks post D&C. So at least I'll get to start a fresh cycle shortly after that and will be able to give the soy ISO a go.

I've actually starting popping the soy this cycle (I know its a little later in my cycle, but I figure it might kick start my ovaries). If I O, great - if not, then I'll be getting the provera in a months time and then I'll take the soy at the proper time.

I am going to try to remain positive as I know stressing is not going to help the issue at all! Send me positive ovulation thoughts please ladies

 

[Bug222]

thats incredibly frustrating!! If you already have had a referral in the past you shouldn't need to "prove" your need to go again just because you moved!! Sending you lots of strong ov vibes!!!

 

[Tmb0047]

Good morning ladies....how are you all today? We've all been quiet this weekend!

I took a test this morning and all I got on the internet cheapie was a squinted of a line! I am out of tests now....might order a few more, maybe not though. Other then that my cycle is still in the boring stage. No signs of O yet...

 

[Bug222]

AF got me this morning

 

[Tmb0047]

Boo! But on a positive note - your cycle was somewhat regular, right? Onwards and upwards....new cycle means a new chance!

 

[Bug222]

lol- no my cycle was 34 days.. normal for me is 25.. I had an 11 day LP which is just a day longer than my usual so I hope I get to keep that part of it! but hopefully this cycle will be back to normal! Do you have a journal??

 

[Tmb0047]

34 days still isn't that bad....could have been longer. 25 day cycles?! That seems so short! I've never had one that short....the earliest I've ever O'd was CD18 and I have a 14 day lp.

No, no journal. I've read through a bit of yours (both of them). I just post on to forums. I'm in one that has a great group of ladies....there's only 5 of us in it and we've all been chatting for quite a few months....it's wonderful to have that support

 

[Bug222]

yeah- it is ridiculously short!!! Horrible when I am not TTC.. makes the wait a little shorter when I am.. more of a "week and a half wait" instead of a TWW lol.

Yeah the first time around I met some great ladies on here that I still talk to on FB and in here regularly- its so nice when you can find that kind of support!

 

[gemgem77]

Hey ladies how are you doing?

I finally stopped bleeding Sunday night and have been feeling like I might be about to ovulate? Dtd ob Sunday night just in case lol hpt still faintly pos so might be my imagination lol x

 

[Tmb0047]

gem - Glad your HCG seems to be getting low. I am 21 days post MMC and my test the other day was still faintly positive. Its crazy how long it stays in your system even though the pregnancy has ended. I expect mine to be stark white negatives by weeks end. I had bloods drawn last Friday which showed my levels at 61.

I have no clue when I will O. Doesn't seem like my body is even gearing up at all.....just kind of sitting in limbo here on CD21. I've signed some forms with my current doctors office to have my medical forms send over from my old province. My new doctor wont refer me to the specialist for another 6 months....I'm hoping that once she gets my fertility records that maybe she will refer me sooner. Fx for me

 

[mcwhmm]

Well technically I am not before first af anymore, but I'm awaiting O after my first af and hoping that I O this cycle and we catch that egg!

 

[gemgem77]

It's so hard after a mc waiting to see if you ovulate, waiting for af, never knowing if it's going to happen or not. :/ we'll all get there and have our rainbow babies soon I can feel it xx

 

[mcwhmm]

It seems like forever! I MC'd may 7th and bled for a week and then then got af 35 days later (31 days after I passed the sac, which was my normal length) I am due to ovulate this weekend if things are back on track, but we will see!! My boobs have been very very sore today!

 

[Tmb0047]

Mcwhmm - I hope you do O this weekend so you'll know your body is back on track. Get your BDing on! Please stick around in here even though you are no longer technically waiting for O post miscarriage. I think we've got a nice little group started

Gem - Hope you don't have to wait to long for O. Do you have to go in and see your doctor for a follow up?

Bug - How are you doing?

 

[mcwhmm]

I sure hope so! We had been doing a lot of BD'ing.. In fact, I worry too much! Lol but I'm not complaining. We had some issues right before I got af where we were both stressing out about becoming pregnant again so much that we didn't even enjoy sex at all and it was just a bad few days. I am glad to be back to our normal selves! I will stick around in this thread, I agree

Tmb- are your tests negative yet? (Isn't it so different hoping for a neg)

 

[Bug222]

im ok thanks- just frustrated. Ended up just spotting since Monday when I though AF was starting. Today started to have a little red but have gone right back to spotting. Currently on CD 36.. my previous cycles were 25 days. Its strange wanting to see AF (just like the strange wanting to see a neg).. but AF means a new chance at a rainbow...

good luck mcwhmm- glad you are back to enjoying yourselves!

very true gemgem- we will all get our rainbows!!!

so frustrating for you Tmb! I hope your records can get things moving a little quicker!!

 

[mcwhmm]

Bug- that's kind of how my first period was. I spotted for two days and then nothing at all and then the next day I got a full force af.

 

[Bug222]

good to know- thanks mcwhmm- every time I go to the bathroom I just want to yell "come on already!!!' lol