trying not be down but so so hard :(

[joannep]

I am not doing too bad this month overall but at times I am getting so down at the moment.

So many girls seem to be getting a BFP so quickly on here and I just wish that it could happen to me.

I miss chatting to the girls that I got alot of advice from as they have their BFPs now so starting to get a little lonely.

10 months TTC and 2 MCs down the line its all so hard.

Any body else feel the same?


Sorry to be a bit negative (just having one of those days) x

 

[hoppinforbabe]

I feel the same way all together been trying a year with one miscarriage at 8 weeks. I caught myself crying yesterday evening because af has yet again to arrive and with avengance arrrggghhh.. The best thing is to have fun with the trying thats the way Im going to look at it. And hey save a little more each month for the time I do get pregnant again!!. whenever that might be but best of luck to you!!

 

[Kaede351]

I feel for you babe. Dh and I have been trying for 15 months and I've had 1 mc

So many girls on here get their bfp first cycle... Makes me feel a bit sick tbh, why can't it be that easy for all of us?

We will get there though chick, eventually we'll get there.

XxX

 

[hch]

hugs hun x 15 months and one mc and i think im out this month aswell! sending us all baby dust xxxxx

 

[Kaede351]

you and me are around the same time hch When is AF due? I was due yesterday but nothing yet, but my temps have gone down so I'm not hopeful

XxX

 

[slb80]

I am also feeling so down at the moment we have been using OPK for 3 months and going all out but have been NTNP for over a year and having cycles like clock work I knew when I was ov and the OPK have confirmed it for me, I just feel like why has it not happened yet, I feel like the only + I will ever see is on my OPK. All my friends seem to have got there + within 3 months

 

[hch]

you and me are around the same time hch When is AF due? I was due yesterday but nothing yet, but my temps have gone down so I'm not hopeful

XxX

AF due on wednesday but last month she showed up 2 days early! so im on AF watch as of 2moro! just ordered more opks , as i really think im out! have you done a test yet hun x

 

[Kaede351]

I did one 2 days ago at 11dpo, and bfn. My temps are waydown ATM so I'm expecting AF very soon.

Have you tested yet?

XxX

 

[hch]

yes and BFN boooooooooooo!

 

[Kaede351]

Aww we'll get it... Soon or later... We'll get it!

Hmmm, sooner rather than later though please!!! Haha

XxX

 

[judy79]

Have you guys thought of Clomid? I have been unable to have a baby for 10 years, finally got my surgery that opened doors for me, but TR ladies usually don't get pregnant fast, higher chance of etopic, miscarriage (already had one). And tubes sometimes close back up after surgery. I might lean near Clomid if something don't happen in 6 months. Good luck ladies.

 

[hch]

im not sure if i need clomid as i already have 2 children, and can get pregnant its just it takes me a while! with each of my pregnancys its taken over 16 months and i found out with my last baby that i had a tilted womb but i have no idea weather that affects my chances of getting pregnant! but also each time i ttc i have come off the BCP and i think this is what upsets my system! in the first 12 months of coming off it i was having irregular cycles one month it would be 30 days the next 45 and it carried on like that for a year. i got pregnant in june and then i mc and my cycles went back to normal! i have been to the doctors about my cycles but they put it down to the BCP! sorry i waffled there! LOL!

 

[hch]

ps hope you get your BFP soon hun x

 

[Kaede351]

Don't think I need clomid, I seem to ovulate fine, just sometimes I ovulated later and sometimes earlier.

XxX

 

[joannep]

Thanks ladies hopefully itwill happen soon! x