Trying to conceive # 1 with male fertility issues

[CathiiNoo]

We hoping to get one done in the new year. Possibly January. This month has been a total mess up wih TTC. I barely temped and ran out of CB digitals so don't know if or when I even ovulated. I took 3 OPKS. Two were positive, the IC far from positive so I'm going by the more expensive brands.. we also didn't get much chance to BD but guess we will see.

OH dad will be arriving today. We haven't seen him since last year Christmas. We are very excited to be having the whole family with us for Christmas. Most of them havent seen our new home. BUT my mom/stepdad and dad/stepmother haven't been in the same room together so I hope there's no drama lol. Oh and to add my cats knocked their water bowel onto all the presents. Now I have to put them under a fan and hope the actual items (some being clothing) don't get damaged.

Ladies.... 8 more sleeps until Christmas. Whoop whoop!

 

[swimmyj1]

That's exciting that you are going to be able to see all of your family for the holidays! That's my favorite part of the holidays. I still have shopping to do ... I always tend to put it off until its too late lol.
Stinks about your OPK's i hate when that happens!

 

[NoodleHelm]

Hi everyone.. Just popping in for a few moments to catch up on how you are all doing. Thinking of you guys, and hoping you get your BFP's soon!

Congrats Swimmy!!

 

[CathiiNoo]

Hi noodle. Thank you! How are you doing?

 

[Lost7]

Really hoping that this month you've not tempted - you've been less stressed and that this is your month!

 

[swimmyj1]

Fingers crossed!!

 

[NoodleHelm]

I'm doing Okay. I am well into my new job now, and I don't really like it. I'm miserable, actually. Once the baby is born I am going to start looking for a new job.

Other than that things are going okay. My DH will be gone for training in March for 30 days and in May for 30 days (which is the month I am due). I am praying that those days get cancelled.

Are you guys ready for the holidays? I still have shopping to do!

 

[CathiiNoo]

I'm sorry you're so miserable noodle. Are you looking for another job once baby is here? I really hope yur hubby will be there for the birth of baba x

 

[CathiiNoo]

I've done most of my shopping. Got some bits and pieces to still get. I love shopping but festive season is horrible. Aaah.

 

[Lost7]

Happy Christmas Cathii.

 

[swimmyj1]

I was bad and made DH Christmas shop lol. But I've been working like crazy. Just cant seem to get in the holiday season this year way too much working. I'm either at work or driving hours to a relatives house for a holiday party and its starting to really make me fatigued. Hope your gals holidays are great

Also forgot to update we talked with the genetic specialist and they said my DH's disorder has a low risk of miscarriage so fingers are crossed. Really hoping my 6 week scan goes ok.

 

[CathiiNoo]

Hi ladies


Bad news. Oh and I broke up. I've been putting up with a year of emotional and sometimes even physical abuse. I guess I just wanted a baby so badly that I'd put up with the abuse but thought long and hard and realized I don't want a baby with a man like that. It's not fair on me nor a child. This is all extremely embarrassing for me but it is what it is.

I will still be on this site though xxx I wish you all the best.

 

[swimmyj1]

Oh my goodness hun Im so sorry. But your right you don't want to have a child with someone if there is abuse going on. If you ever need to chat im here. I was in a very physical and emotionally abusive relationship for years. It's so hard to get out im proud of you. Do not be embarrassed ever! Hold your head high you were strong enough to think of yourself.