Trying to conceive # 1 with male fertility issues

[swimmyj1]

yay on to the ttw!!! and you had your bd days covered fingers crossed!!!! hopefully the fertilaid gives you a hand.

Im 11dpo and stil bfn going to test tomorrow and if still negative stop the progesterone and move onto next cycle with higher clomid so hopefully more eggs I'm not too disappointed because we didn't get our timing very good.

 

[CathiiNoo]

Lost, will defiantly send you pictures. Just trying to get a good insurance. Unfortunately not allowed to take the car until I have one as it's financed through the bank. I read your update in your thread. I'm glad the day finally came and you get answers. I think the lady at the clinic was a bit harsh though. 9 miscarriages is not normal just because you have 6 healthy kids. Hugs xx


Thanks Swimmy! I'm holding thumbs for this cycle for both of us. Otherwise there's next cycle but I'm positive we will get our miracles.

Got another positive OPK around 11 but tested again just after 5 and it's negative. Surge is officially over but BDED tonight just in case.

 

[swimmyj1]

well 12dpo is also negative so just waiting for AF (hopefully not too long ... can't believe i'm saying that lol) Really hoping that the 100 of clomid gives us better results. Still waiting to get in to the darn genetic specialist .... that is driving me crazy. CathiiNoo I really hope you get a bfp this month!!!

 

[Lost7]

Thank you Cathii. I have literally been to hell and back these past few days. Battling more demons now. Getting ready for AI this cycle (as you've seen). To be honest she is 99% sure things are going to come back okay, since I have 6 beautiful children, which means no closure, no answers and no way of stopping it happening again and that's what's annoying me the most.

I am mega pleased that as soon as I do fall pregnant (and it's hopefully just a matter of when), I am being referred straight away to the EPU (Early Pregnancy Unit) and given a very early scan. I've waited years for that moment and I am so thrilled with that. Can't wait to see photos of the car. You know me - car girlie!

I think you're well covered for baby-dancing. Fingers tightly crossed for you.

 

[swimmyj1]

CathiiNoo - liking the way your chart is looking!!! fingers crossed for you this cycle

 

[CathiiNoo]

Thanks Swimmy. Almost testing time. How are you sweets? X

 

[CathiiNoo]

Tested last night at 8 DPO and no surprise, BFN. I know it's early but my chart is doing the same as it does every month and AF is due in 3 days so surely a 10 miu test would have picked up something if I was. Oh well.

How's everyone?

 

[swimmyj1]

Boo saw your chart i was really hoping for you. Im thinking next cycle i'm gonna take off ttc. I've just been crazy stressed this cycle way too focused on my weird opks. but i think for the future I'm going to see if they will put me back on metformin sorry just super frustrated

 

[Lost7]

Again, really sorry your last cycle ended in . Will you be trying anything different this cycle? When does your SO go for his SA?

 

[CathiiNoo]

What's your opks doing Swimmy? I'm sorry you're so frustrates

Nope. Won't be doing anything different. Bought OH another bottle of Fertilaid. He will probably be going in January so I can see if the Fertilaid has worked or I'm just wasting my money.

 

[Lost7]

Good luck, Interested to see the results!

 

[swimmyj1]

I hope the fertile aid has been working fingers crossed!

Went for my scan today I have 2 for sure follicles with a possible 3rd depending on how long until I ovulate. Should be in a few days but my opk's have been weird again this month so we will see. I know we were shooting for multiple eggs with the genetic issues, but it kind of freaked me out a little bit lol

 

[CathiiNoo]

That's awesome though! What's your next steps from here?

 

[swimmyj1]

Going to see the genetic specialist on the 18th and see what they say. Found out my DH hasn't been taking the fertile aid sense my last mc .... Not a happy camper. He started taking it a week before I ovulated but it probably won't be enough. Fingers crossed though. How are you doing?

 

[swimmyj1]

Sooo????? I see stuff but its so light I'm only 9-10dpo and driving myself crazy. I took one and then went to work. DH called me and asked me why I didn't tell him I had gotten a BFP. When I took them they didn't look + but he sent me pictures.

 

[Lost7]

I can't see anything on the top test, however looking at your signature it seems you've got a - so congrats.

 

[Lost7]

By the way, since this is your Journal Cathii, I hope you're doing well.

 

[swimmyj1]

blood test is 18 so my doc just wants repeats says hes happy for only being 10dpo.
Cathii how many dpo are you???

 

[CathiiNoo]

I'm well thanks Lost. How you sweets?

Congrats Swimmy!I hope it's a sticky one. I have no idea how many DPO I am. Haven't been temping but got a positive test last night so either ovulated today or yesterday.

 

[swimmyj1]

Fingers crossed this is your month!!! I forgot doesn't your DH have another SA coming up soon???