Trying to conceive # 1 with male fertility issues

[CathiiNoo]

I'm feeling good. Not injured or anything. Just shattered about my mom's car but hopefully the guy at fault will cover the costs.

So I read on Google that coconut oil is good for lubrication and it's safe for sperm, well 90% better than normal lubes with perfumes etc. We bought some today and it's amazing! It's natural and odour free and lasts quite a long time whereas we would be applying normal lube at least 4 times during intercourse. Just thought we would try it as sperm friendly ones cost a lot.

How all you ladies doing? Xx

 

[swimmyj1]

Me and my DH are fighting. I know part of it is my hormones but he keeps telling people we are pregnant. It's way to early to tell people put I have not been able to shake this bad feeling I have that im gonna go in for the ultrasound and it's going to be bad news. I acutally asked to work tonight so I can avoid him

I hope the guy pays for the damages is that not required there? Here our insurance has to pay. I hadn't heard about coconut oil before, that sounds like I good idea though. I might try that, I hate the way regular lube feels so it would be nice to have an alternative. Epically sense lately I have not been in the mood for it. (Sorry being a total downer today, I just can't believe he's telling everyone!)

 

[CathiiNoo]

Well the person in faults insurance should pay but he doesn't have any insurance and neither does my mom. The damages are way above the car value so he would have to pay out. We reported the accident on the weekend but it doesn't mean much, the law system here is useless!!

I'm normally not in the mood either because I'm so exhausted after work but gotta bd to make that baby. OH has asked me to BD in the morning sometimes cause thas when he's the most horniest per say. Sorry that sounds so vulgar lol. I love my sleep though but we will see.

I'm sorry you're fighting with DH. Explain to him that he shouldn't be telling anyone before 12 weeks, well untI'll you are ready to anyways. I do have faith that this will be a sticky bean though. I can't wait to see pics of your miracle baby in 8 months time or so. FX sweetie xx

 

[swimmyj1]

Looks like im out my hcg only went up to 803 in 4-5 days no way it's viable. This just sucks

 

[CathiiNoo]

I'm so sorry hun are you bleeding?

 

[swimmyj1]

No not yet but I'm still on progesterone so I probably would have long ago

 

[CathiiNoo]

I still have hope for you! When are you going in for your scan?

 

[swimmyj1]

Thursday but I'm gonna cancel it, they want me to redraw Wednesday but my doctor flat out told me this is not a viable pregnancy she just wants to see if it's declining Wednesday. I cried for a while but that just was making me feel worse, better to just move past things

 

[Lost7]

I am so sorry sweetie! This is just awful news. My thoughts are with you.

 

[swimmyj1]

Doctor called again today she canceled my ultrasound and just wants to do the labs. I'm sure they have gone down all my symptoms are gone. Just hoping I can go back to ttc quickly

 

[CathiiNoo]

Hey sweetie pie! I hope you're hanging in there. I'm so sorry once again xxx

6 dpo today. Light AF cramps which are unusual for me. I don't really get cramps before or even during AF so it's new to me. I hate symptom spotting but this was just obvious so thought I'd mention it.

I was thinking of NTNP for 1 month then ttc for 1 month. Like that until I get pregnant. I don't know if I can resist temping etc. I like to know what's going on.

 

[CathiiNoo]

Do any of you ladies agree that my post O temps are on the low side? Last month they were quite high. Way above cover line.

 

[Lost7]

If your temp raises again tomorrow, I'd be inclined to say you O'd around 5DPO.. I must admit, I am struggling to see why they've given you CH at all... No EWCM, No +, No 3 temp rises.. Do you feel like you've O'd already?

 

[swimmyj1]

Yeah that does seem off to me hmmm.
I'm gonna stop the progesterone today. My level only came up to 987 from 803 in 2 days no way is it viable but this evil nurse lectured me on miracles and good prenatal care. I lost it on her, im a nurse don't give me false hope it's just rude! Hopefully the mc isn't too drawn out. I would like to start ttc again quickly.

 

[CathiiNoo]

That's horrible of her to give you false hope especially when you know what it's all about!

Are you planning on TTC straight away or waiting a month or two?

 

[CathiiNoo]

I adjusted my temp on CD12 because that day I took it at 6 20 when I normally take it at 5. It's now moved my O date to CD13 which would make sense why I missed my surge cause I only tested for the first time that evening.

 

[Lost7]

Your chart Cathinoo has even me puzzled.

 

[CathiiNoo]

Hi ladies.

So my chart is really weird. My temps post O are quite low and I'm already getting a dip at CD25 (12dpo) apparently. Never ovulated this early either. I normally have a 28-31 day cycle and quite regular. Mind is all over the place but looking forward to starting fresh my next cycle.

How's everyone? X

 

[NoodleHelm]

So.. I got my BFP this morning.

 

[CathiiNoo]

Congrats noodle! Super happy for you! How long were you ttc for?