mrsstrezy
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My son will be 3 in two months. I have baby #2 on the way(due in May) and itd be nice to have my son trained by then. My pediatrician told me that if at any time I meet resistance in the potty training process, to give up, wait two months, and then try again.
I tried training him a few months after he turned 2 using the 3-day potty training method. It was a complete disaster and I gave up after two days. He was completely unwilling to sit on the potty and had zero interest. I tried again a couple months later using the same method. He did much better and started using the potty on his own, but only if naked from the waist down. He then discovered he liked to pee on things, so stopped using the potty and completely regressed. I gave up because we bought a house and we were moving and it was a hectic time, so I figured it wasnt a good time to continue training.
I now just started training him again. This time I thought I would just have him wear underwear and let him pee in them to make him uncomfortable, and take him to the potty at regular intervals. I have offered him many different kinds of rewards and incentives. The first half day went great...he even said multiple times I love potty training. Now its back to flat out refusal to go on the potty. I asked him if he wanted to wear diapers forever and he said yes. Im at a loss. Do I just suck at potty training? Should I be forcing him more? My friend(who had both boys totally trained by 2.5 yrs) said that she would just force them to sit on the potty, even if they were crying. My son has always been stubborn with EVERYTHING and had trouble listening in general. How do I know if hes not ready vs. just being a normal toddler??
I tried training him a few months after he turned 2 using the 3-day potty training method. It was a complete disaster and I gave up after two days. He was completely unwilling to sit on the potty and had zero interest. I tried again a couple months later using the same method. He did much better and started using the potty on his own, but only if naked from the waist down. He then discovered he liked to pee on things, so stopped using the potty and completely regressed. I gave up because we bought a house and we were moving and it was a hectic time, so I figured it wasnt a good time to continue training.
I now just started training him again. This time I thought I would just have him wear underwear and let him pee in them to make him uncomfortable, and take him to the potty at regular intervals. I have offered him many different kinds of rewards and incentives. The first half day went great...he even said multiple times I love potty training. Now its back to flat out refusal to go on the potty. I asked him if he wanted to wear diapers forever and he said yes. Im at a loss. Do I just suck at potty training? Should I be forcing him more? My friend(who had both boys totally trained by 2.5 yrs) said that she would just force them to sit on the potty, even if they were crying. My son has always been stubborn with EVERYTHING and had trouble listening in general. How do I know if hes not ready vs. just being a normal toddler??