TTC #1 at 35+

[Lisa1]

I got faint OPK which is good as I fly to munich tomorrow with work so bd tonight and a quickie tomorrow morning I am cd12 and supposed to O on cd14 so hopefully OH spermies will be last the distance until my eggy pops out

it'smy birthday tomorrow so OH is making dinner, although he has never cooked in his life! I jokingly said last night beef wellington so that is what he is making lol wish me luck for the egg hunt and pray I don't get food poisioning lol

 

[Beanhopes]

3 days late and none of the usual pre AF symptoms, but she always arrives and just when I was starting to allow myself to get my hopes up!

Deb - hope you are wrong this time and she doesn't show. Good luck. xxxx

Thanks but she already has - don't think I have any more tears left - coping ok with it at the moment xx

Oh Deb I'm so sorry I was really hoping you'd have some good news to share with us.

I really believe every month AF arrives has to be one month closer to our s.

 

[Beanhopes]

I got faint OPK which is good as I fly to munich tomorrow with work so bd tonight and a quickie tomorrow morning I am cd12 and supposed to O on cd14 so hopefully OH spermies will be last the distance until my eggy pops out

it'smy birthday tomorrow so OH is making dinner, although he has never cooked in his life! I jokingly said last night beef wellington so that is what he is making lol wish me luck for the egg hunt and pray I don't get food poisioning lol

Happy Birthday Lisa.

I hope you get the best birthday present ever and that little eggy sticks. In fact I'm sending you a wallpaper paste birthday cake!

 

[Beanhopes]

Hi Everyone

I'd just like to send you all a bucket load of and lots of PMA.

With Ella's heartbreaking news I know I am incredibly nervous about what is around the corner. Also after watching how awful some couples, with small children, were towards each other around the poolside in Dubai I began to question myself. I mean if that is what Children do to your relationship did I really want to go down that route.

However, when we have all waited so long for our beacause of what life threw at us along the way, we have to believe we will get there eventually and tackle the lows and incredible highs that come with parenthood.

I feel particularly lucky to be able to share this very difficult journey with such lovely ladies and can't imagine doing this without you.

Thank you.
Sam xx

 

[Hope4BFP]

Ella, I'm so so sorry honey. I don't think there is anything I can say that the girls haven't already said. Take time hun, you have all the support in the world waiting for you on here when you are ready. Thinking of you, big hugs xxxx

 

[Hope4BFP]

I got faint OPK which is good as I fly to munich tomorrow with work so bd tonight and a quickie tomorrow morning I am cd12 and supposed to O on cd14 so hopefully OH spermies will be last the distance until my eggy pops out

it'smy birthday tomorrow so OH is making dinner, although he has never cooked in his life! I jokingly said last night beef wellington so that is what he is making lol wish me luck for the egg hunt and pray I don't get food poisioning lol

Happy Birthday for tomorrow Lisa!

 

[Lisa1]

Thanks girls xx all my packing done but really don't want to go gonna miss my oh like crazy he made a lovely dinner and gave me my favourite perfume and a wife card which was so sweet x

I am so lucky to have him and with your support and pma this year we will be three maybe four if we are blessed!! Babydust to all of you!!

 

[Leilani]

Happy Birthday, Lisa.

Hope your trip to Munich is productive - hopefully your hotel has free wi-fi and we'll catch you back here soon!!

 

[Deb111]

Happy birthday Lisa!

 

[Tigger_lass]

I got faint OPK which is good as I fly to munich tomorrow with work so bd tonight and a quickie tomorrow morning I am cd12 and supposed to O on cd14 so hopefully OH spermies will be last the distance until my eggy pops out

it'smy birthday tomorrow so OH is making dinner, although he has never cooked in his life! I jokingly said last night beef wellington so that is what he is making lol wish me luck for the egg hunt and pray I don't get food poisioning lol

Happy birthday Lisa . Hope you have a good one xxx

 

[EllaMom2B]

Happy Birthday Lisa! May this be your year...

 

[mazcal]

Hi all, hope it was a good weekend, I was in London for my 37th birthday!!!

Happy birthday Lisa, almost exactly a year younger than me....lucky you!
Beanhopes, thanks, I think we would all be happy whoever gets a bfp this month!
Debs sorry, its gutting whenever rides again, I am expecting her on Wednesday, but wierd stuff has been happening to me since 7dpo which is diff from last month's pill withdrawal. If af doesn't come on time, I am almost afraid to test incase another bfn
Every month so far, I spend a week thinking I am preg which makes it alot worse when af turns up. If I was 27 I would be alot more chilled out!

Ella, nice to see you back here. I know we have all never met, but I feel like we all have a bond now, and we really do care what happens to eachother! We are all gutted!

Here is some for everyone this month.

 

[mazcal]

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[Beanhopes]

Mazcal - I hope AF stays away.

I'm approx 10dpo and was feeling so rotten yesterday I went to bed in the afternoon. I've had a runny nose since I flew home from Dubai and it won't budge. So what with that and a headache for 2 days, which is normally down to hormonal surges, has left me feeling sorry for myself.

I was walking my dogs in the park yesterday and there was a man jogging past me so I held the gate open for him so he didn't have to break his run. He thanked me as he ran past and said I'm training for a 10k run for my mate, he's got cancer. I pretty much burst into tears!

I'm on hormone overload so I reckon AF will arrive in a few days. The evil cowbag.

to you all

 

[Leilani]

I'm on knicker-watch at the mo. AF should have shown this arvo, but didn't. I should be asleep, but can't relax, so am watching the season finale of the previous season of Lost - as the next one starts here on Weds, I'm beginning to think I should have re-watched the whole season!

 

[Beanhopes]

I'm on knicker-watch at the mo. AF should have shown this arvo, but didn't. I should be asleep, but can't relax, so am watching the season finale of the previous season of Lost - as the next one starts here on Weds, I'm beginning to think I should have re-watched the whole season!

Hope you relaxed watching Lost and got some sleep. Really hoping you don't get a visit from AF.

x

 

[Hope4BFP]

Belated "Happy Birthday" Maria!

Debs, sorry AF got you hope you have suitably indulged

Leilani, Sam, Maria - hope AF stays away for you this month. Fx'd!

Tracey, LouLou - where are you two in your cycle?

Lisa - hope you are enjoying your trip and not missing your OH (and us! ) too much!

Ella, thinking of you still, lots

I am currently in that sucky place where there is nothing I can do, its too early to do opks, Ov is still 4 days away - boring!

Confession time:
(1) I think I am becoming a poasoholic between the Opks and Hpts. I am so used to peeing in a pot that peeing in the pan is becoming strange!
(2) Although I said I would not be drinking after my little hol, I had some wine on Friday (lots!), some on Saturday (two little ones), and some last night (just one teeny one)!!! I am an idiot!

for you all xx

Hope x

 

[Tigger_lass]

Happy belated birthday mazcal

Hi Guys

Just building up to those mega weeks now. This is the first month that i've temped from the start so hopefully between OPK and BBT i will spot ovulation and DEFINITELY catch that egg.

Went with my mum to a big wedding fair on Saturday - she had great fun eating sweets at all the stands lol - she even managed to blag a couple of free tickets to another show next Saturday! Lots of ideas and lots of "you have to be joking" moments too. Got a dress appointment tomorrow morning before work so am a little nervous/excited. I was getting quite annoyed at the freaked out looks some of the exhibitors were giving me when i told them i didnt have a dress yet - so i thought i better get the ball rolling.

Anyways, enuff wedding chat.

I've got FX'd that stays away from you this month Leilani, Sam, Mazcal.

Debs - sorry she got you but as Lisa and Sam say - its another month closer to getting a BFP.

Lisa - i hope that Munich is being good to you and hope to see you back soon.

Ella - glad you popped back, even briefly, and remember we are here whenever you need someone.

Take care ladies

Txxx

 

[mazcal]

Hi all, thanks!

Leilani and Sam, hope Af never comes! Hope, don't worry it will soon be time! and don't worry we all like a little drinkie sometimes, even when we shouldn't.

Tracey, hope you get lucky and have fun!
Ella, hope you ok, whatever you are doing.

All afternoon at work I been toooo tired, and decided to go home early, then I realised OH had car, couldn't get a lift from anyone and nearly burst into tears at work! Flippin hormones. And my time thingie says its 28 days but its not, its end of cycle tomoz, AF Wednesday, I am so crazy right now because of this! Could do a test but won't til AF at least two days late cos she never is. Worse and yet most exciting time of month.

 

[mazcal]

Hi all, sorry I am a bit stupid and also very confused. I made a ticker on Lilypie, last cycle started 13th Jan, due Wednesday I thought on a 28 day cycle? Why is Lilypie telling me its day 28 today, its not, I counted, its tomorrow? I am confused, did Lilypie work out the dates wrong? I have changed it to a 29 day cycle just so its correct.

During a 28 day cycle, AF should always come same day of week?