TTC #1 at 35+

[Lisa1]

Hi everyone. Sorry I've been MIA for a while. I've been extremely busy and trying not to obsess. Congrats to the BFP's - wow!! You give us all hope!

Just started TWW. We had good BD timing, although that's been my pattern for months. Here's hoping it works this time around.

fx hun and welcome back

 

[Tigger_lass]

Hi Guys

Sorry the hag got you Lisa...get set for your March BD marathon

Spacegirl - Sam is right...she told us about her pink CM and look what happened to her! Never out until the painters are in full flow!

Marie and Sam - glad you are both well and incubating those beans xxx

Ella - how was the doctors appt?

Leilani - is your shoulder any better yet?

It's my Friday night today (don't ask lol) so going to enjoy a day off tomorrow but have a course on Thursday morning ...really don't want to do it but no way out of it. GRRRRR. Looks like I will miss going to see Johnny Depp in 3D too. My employer is screening the new Alice in Wonderland film on Thursday night simultaneously with the world premiere in London but my OH has a curling match that night so boooooo!!!!!

Txxx

 

[EllaMom2B]

A non-TTC/BFP question?

Should I be upset/worried that my OH (we're not married and don't have plans to be) Googles his ex-wife?

Dr's appt was fine, btw. Saw baby and heartbeat, and "everything looks right," she said.

Thanks -- you lot really are lovely,
Ella

 

[Leilani]

A non-TTC/BFP question?

Should I be upset/worried that my OH (we're not married and don't have plans to be) Googles his ex-wife?

Dr's appt was fine, btw. Saw baby and heartbeat, and "everything looks right," she said.

Thanks -- you lot really are lovely,
Ella

I often Google a few of my ex's - not sure why, probably cause I want to check that my life is better than theirs!

Glad your appointment went well, what happens next?

AFM - finished our BD marathon - which meant I also got to finish my book, however the second to last 4 pages were missing, so I had to guess what happenned in the dramatic finale of 900 pages! My arm is feeling much better, going to get a few more physio sessions, basically the pain stems from my spine, and radiates down my arm.

Have to go and supervise some kids on the water now (a lot of people's worst nightmare, but the kids are all 17/18 and there's a rescue boat if they fall in - and they have all signed a waiver!!).

More later

Lx

 

[spacegirl]

Hey Hope4BFP

Not full flow yet but i've got the usual dull aches etc...she's definately here. I will take your advice and drown my sorrows in wine and chocolate (someone needs to make a chocolate smiley)!

CXxx

Hi C

I'm really hoping it's just implantation. I had AF type cramps and pink/brown cm for a week. You are not out until it's a proper flow.

Enjoy your and chocolate anyway.

Sam x

oooh if only you were right!

My temp dropped by 0.2C today which is a sign AF coming today. If pregnant I think it would have stayed high To top it all fertility friend changed my interpretation when I added my low temp today and said it could no longer detect ovulation. So odd as before this temp it said it had.

I think my chart is clearly biphasic...hmmmm

Lisa, hope4BFP,Tigger-lass, leilani, zero 7, Lola, adamanteve, deb111

 

[spacegirl]

A non-TTC/BFP question?

Should I be upset/worried that my OH (we're not married and don't have plans to be) Googles his ex-wife?

Dr's appt was fine, btw. Saw baby and heartbeat, and "everything looks right," she said.

Thanks -- you lot really are lovely,
Ella

I have looked at my exes before on facebook it's curiosity more than anything else if anything they've made me realise I was lucky to not end up with them. Have you spoken to OH and asked him why he has looked her up?

Glad everything is ok with baby

 

[Tigger_lass]

A non-TTC/BFP question?

Should I be upset/worried that my OH (we're not married and don't have plans to be) Googles his ex-wife?

Dr's appt was fine, btw. Saw baby and heartbeat, and "everything looks right," she said.

Thanks -- you lot really are lovely,
Ella

I have looked at my exes before on facebook it's curiosity more than anything else if anything they've made me realise I was lucky to not end up with them. Have you spoken to OH and asked him why he has looked her up?

Glad everything is ok with baby

Ella, I think we've all done it at some point...the fact is that she is an ex for a reason. Would you feel different about it if you were not pregnant? Hun, I think you should ask him....but don't interrogate him lol...I am sure it's all nothing.

 

[Tigger_lass]

On a totally different note......where did all the snow come from?

Woke up at 7.30 and we already had 2-3inches already! Not stopped all morning....glad i'm not working today

Hope you are all well, wherever you are and whatever the weather.

Txxx

 

[Lisa1]

Hi Guys

Sorry the hag got you Lisa...get set for your March BD marathon

Spacegirl - Sam is right...she told us about her pink CM and look what happened to her! Never out until the painters are in full flow!

Marie and Sam - glad you are both well and incubating those beans xxx

Ella - how was the doctors appt?

Leilani - is your shoulder any better yet?

It's my Friday night today (don't ask lol) so going to enjoy a day off tomorrow but have a course on Thursday morning ...really don't want to do it but no way out of it. GRRRRR. Looks like I will miss going to see Johnny Depp in 3D too. My employer is screening the new Alice in Wonderland film on Thursday night simultaneously with the world premiere in London but my OH has a curling match that night so boooooo!!!!!

Txxx

Hi huni I just seen a clip of the new Alice in Wonderland movie it looks awsome

Why is your employer screening it? what do you work at?

 

[Lisa1]

A non-TTC/BFP question?

Should I be upset/worried that my OH (we're not married and don't have plans to be) Googles his ex-wife?

Dr's appt was fine, btw. Saw baby and heartbeat, and "everything looks right," she said.

Thanks -- you lot really are lovely,
Ella

Glad everything went well huni xx

On the other thing about googling exs no big deal everyone is just curious about past exes doesn't mean a thing.

although I would ask him why he wanted to know.

 

[Tigger_lass]

[/QUOTE]

Hi huni I just seen a clip of the new Alice in Wonderland movie it looks awsome

Why is your employer screening it? what do you work at?[/QUOTE]

I work for Sky and they are screening the film in London and Edinburgh for staff at the same time as the world premiere....they tend to do a lot of perks like that.

Txxx

 

[Lisa1]

Hi huni I just seen a clip of the new Alice in Wonderland movie it looks awsome

Why is your employer screening it? what do you work at?[/QUOTE]

I work for Sky and they are screening the film in London and Edinburgh for staff at the same time as the world premiere....they tend to do a lot of perks like that.

Txxx[/QUOTE]

OMG thats awesome are you having to watch OH curling? or do you get to watch Alice in wonderland?

I am sooo jealous

 

[Lisa1]

A non-TTC/BFP question?

Should I be upset/worried that my OH (we're not married and don't have plans to be) Googles his ex-wife?

Dr's appt was fine, btw. Saw baby and heartbeat, and "everything looks right," she said.

Thanks -- you lot really are lovely,
Ella

I often Google a few of my ex's - not sure why, probably cause I want to check that my life is better than theirs!

Glad your appointment went well, what happens next?

AFM - finished our BD marathon - which meant I also got to finish my book, however the second to last 4 pages were missing, so I had to guess what happenned in the dramatic finale of 900 pages! My arm is feeling much better, going to get a few more physio sessions, basically the pain stems from my spine, and radiates down my arm.

Have to go and supervise some kids on the water now (a lot of people's worst nightmare, but the kids are all 17/18 and there's a rescue boat if they fall in - and they have all signed a waiver!!).

More later

Lx

goo girl leiliani on the BDathon fx huni Babydust and I pray it's your turn huni PMA all the way

Ps hope the arms better soon huni sounds very painful

 

[Tigger_lass]

hmmmmmm still not sure what's happening...it's an important game for him but it's johnny depp!!!

 

[Lisa1]

hahah I know what you mean OH or Johnny Depp???

 

[Hope4BFP]

Hi all, just popping in quickly with the latest: got another BFN yesterday and this morning and my temp dropped today (as it always does on 12dpo), AF will be here either this eve or tomorrow so I am out this month. Cried my eyes out last night because I already knew it was 'game over' but feeling more reflective today.

I need to have a different approach, I want this so much that it is all I can think of and when it doesn't happen it hits hard, so I am going to try to not think too much about it (yeah right ) and get myself involved in lots of activities to take my mind off it. I have put my life on hold since starting to TTC so it all seems so empty when that BFP doesn't turn up. If I start planning/booking/ordering anything then maybe I will 'jinx' myself into a BFP! lol

Hopefully, DH's initial SA results will be back by the end of the next cycle (getting that done tomorrow) so I am gonna just try to forget about the whole TTC thing until then and just try to enjoy our marriage. I will pop in to see how you are all doing, promise

Take care you lovely lot, you are all wondeful! Lots of love and hugs xxxx

 

[EllaMom2B]

Hi all, just popping in quickly with the latest: got another BFN yesterday and this morning and my temp dropped today (as it always does on 12dpo), AF will be here either this eve or tomorrow so I am out this month. Cried my eyes out last night because I already knew it was 'game over' but feeling more reflective today.

I need to have a different approach, I want this so much that it is all I can think of and when it doesn't happen it hits hard, so I am going to try to not think too much about it (yeah right ) and get myself involved in lots of activities to take my mind off it. I have put my life on hold since starting to TTC so it all seems so empty when that BFP doesn't turn up. If I start planning/booking/ordering anything then maybe I will 'jinx' myself into a BFP! lol

Hopefully, DH's initial SA results will be back by the end of the next cycle (getting that done tomorrow) so I am gonna just try to forget about the whole TTC thing until then and just try to enjoy our marriage. I will pop in to see how you are all doing, promise

Take care you lovely lot, you are all wondeful! Lots of love and hugs xxxx

Sending you HUGE !!! Do distract yourself with other things, but don't forget about us!

How's everyone today? Where are you Sam?

to all my friends!

- Ella

P.S. Got the go-ahead from the dr. to take prenatal pilates, so will sign up for that, and for . Haven't told OH about that yet; he's out of town until Saturday. I'm not sure he's really in the mood much these days, truth be told, given all that's happened. And I'm definitely "mom" to him now, so that's an issue (a problem, really, if you're like me and am always up for some BDing). So definitely enjoy while you still can!!!!

 

[spacegirl]

Hi all, just popping in quickly with the latest: got another BFN yesterday and this morning and my temp dropped today (as it always does on 12dpo), AF will be here either this eve or tomorrow so I am out this month. Cried my eyes out last night because I already knew it was 'game over' but feeling more reflective today.

I need to have a different approach, I want this so much that it is all I can think of and when it doesn't happen it hits hard, so I am going to try to not think too much about it (yeah right ) and get myself involved in lots of activities to take my mind off it. I have put my life on hold since starting to TTC so it all seems so empty when that BFP doesn't turn up. If I start planning/booking/ordering anything then maybe I will 'jinx' myself into a BFP! lol

Hopefully, DH's initial SA results will be back by the end of the next cycle (getting that done tomorrow) so I am gonna just try to forget about the whole TTC thing until then and just try to enjoy our marriage. I will pop in to see how you are all doing, promise

Take care you lovely lot, you are all wondeful! Lots of love and hugs xxxx

I'm with you AF arrived in full force last night. I knew a week before this would be the case because of the cramps and thirst I normally get before. But because it was a day late I got my hopes up. This was our first proper month of trying so I thought t would work! Doh!

I just keep reading about our 15% chance or less each month and I just wonder with those chances how is it possible and is it ever going to happen as my clock is ticking louder!

Sorry feeling a bit low as I usually do with AF. I just want this so much and I'm being impatient. I need to get positive again but it's so so hard. I'm goimg to start running again soon which always lifts my mood.

Anyway, you're not alone in how you feel I guess this is all part of the journey. I hope evrything goes well for you this cycle.

 

[marie73]

Hi all. So sorry Hope4BFP and Spacegirl that this wasn't your month. I think you're both right in focusing on other things and enjoying your relationships. Start planning hols etc. and I bet once you take your eye off the ball (!) you'll get your bfp! Sending lots of love, luck and babydust your way. Ella - how are you? I've felt rubbish today - not helped by me wearing a new dress to work which fitted perfectly about 6 weeks ago, but has felt like a straightjacket all day, especially round the boobs! I've felt really out of sorts, bad tempered enough to fall out with myself plus general bloating, intermittent nausea and discomfort! Midwife appointment tomorrow - perhaps that will put my mind to rest! I'm exhausted too. Sorry for the moans!

 

[Lisa1]

hope4bfp and spacegirl we are gearing up for another bdathon it surely must be our month in March so lets get the PMA gathered up and fx for a successful month xxx