Hi As title says I am 41 and TTC 1st baby. My other half is 49 and he has an 8 year old daughter. I know there are lots of people out there TTC but a lot of you seem to already have a child and I really need someone I can talk to who is in the same situation as me TTC #1. We have been trying for nearly 2 years with no success, we've seen a specialist who reckons the chances of a BFP are very slim even though I am OV normally and OH tests are great. We are considering a cycle of IVF but have to wait for our latest test results to come back first. It is all so frustrating and I do get very, very down each time AF comes along. If there is anyone like me out there who would like someone to talk to, please let me know? Maybe we can support each other.