Thank you so much, Mama!! I'm sooo happy to see everything working out for you!! If that isn't ment to be then I don't know what is!!
Swimmy, thank you! I've missed being on here too. Just needed a break for a while and then got out of the routine for checking in here. I made a mental note to check in now though lol. I hope things get figured out with the s/a. It's hard when you're dealing with seman. I know the feeling about almost cancelling appointments. I almost cancelled mine for my ivf consultation because I was so nervous. My situation it kind of long so bear with me. Hubby and I were smoking at our cousiltatiom visit (I know, please don't judge) they told me I had to be smokefree for 2 months before I've and hubby had to be smokefree for 3 months. Well when I called and asked about scheduling me u/s the nurse asked about if we quit smoking. Well, we hadn't and I'm not going to lie so I told her no. She said she didn't know if we could proceed and she had to ask the dr and call us back. Well much to my surprise he said we can proceed because we cut back a lot and that we just had to quit ASAP. Well, I have since quit and hubby is going to quit tomorrow (prayers for him). So my concern is that we will only be smoke free for a month when we do ivf and I don't want to spend that kind of money for smoke filled eggs and sperm. Im also on summer break right now from work and would love to have my ivf done by the time I get back. If we wait, I'll have to take a bunch of time off right when I get back. People say to carry on with what the dr says but I'm afraid to spend the money and not have good quality. I don't think we would have the money to do it again for a long time. Idk why the dr would say we could proceed though. I've pcos so my AMH is through the roof and egg quantity isn't a problem and sperm is very good too. Maybe that's why he said it was ok? Idk....What would you ladies do?