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[GoldenRatio]

I seen couple ppl here that experienced it, so lets wait for 14dpo mark then test.

Btw im 2dpo today but cervix is still open, we are not scheduled for BD but should we This cycle my cervix and vajayjay feels so weird, i cant barely fit my finger in to check it and half of the time i cant find the cervix sorry if its tmi.

 

[BabyC4Me]

I seen couple ppl here that experienced it, so lets wait for 14dpo mark then test.

Btw im 2dpo today but cervix is still open, we are not scheduled for BD but should we This cycle my cervix and vajayjay feels so weird, i cant barely fit my finger in to check it and half of the time i cant find the cervix sorry if its tmi.

BD BD BD !!!!

Live on the edge !!!!! Unscheduled BD is the best BD !

And in regards to finding your cervix. I have ZERO idea what mine feels like. I always try and find it and I can't tell if it's just vagina or what lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

BD BD BD !!!!

Live on the edge !!!!! Unscheduled BD is the best BD !

And in regards to finding your cervix. I have ZERO idea what mine feels like. I always try and find it and I can't tell if it's just vagina or what lol

We have been BDing not stop, if i tell DH that i wanna BD tonight too he will loose his mind heheh but who knows maybe i will put a lingerie in use.

I can usually tell what my cervix is doing because before ovulation it feels like tip of a nose and during ovulation it goes high (hard to find) and gets soft so blends in with vagina wall. After ovulation, it supposed to close and drop low before af. Stays up and soft if pregnant. But mine is all over the place hihihh

Puma maybe u should check ur cervix? if its low or high?

 

[puma1986]

I seen couple ppl here that experienced it, so lets wait for 14dpo mark then test.

Btw im 2dpo today but cervix is still open, we are not scheduled for BD but should we This cycle my cervix and vajayjay feels so weird, i cant barely fit my finger in to check it and half of the time i cant find the cervix sorry if its tmi.

BD BD BD !!!!

Live on the edge !!!!! Unscheduled BD is the best BD !

And in regards to finding your cervix. I have ZERO idea what mine feels like. I always try and find it and I can't tell if it's just vagina or what lol

Dude I was the same way!!!! You have to squat down and then reach!

 

[puma1986]

BD BD BD !!!!

Live on the edge !!!!! Unscheduled BD is the best BD !

And in regards to finding your cervix. I have ZERO idea what mine feels like. I always try and find it and I can't tell if it's just vagina or what lol

We have been BDing not stop, if i tell DH that i wanna BD tonight too he will loose his mind heheh but who knows maybe i will put a lingerie in use.

I can usually tell what my cervix is doing because before ovulation it feels like tip of a nose and during ovulation it goes high (hard to find) and gets soft so blends in with vagina wall. After ovulation, it supposed to close and drop low before af. Stays up and soft if pregnant. But mine is all over the place hihihh

Puma maybe u should check ur cervix? if its low or high?

My cervix is super duper high! And my heartburn is killing me. I've had it for 3 days straight! If I'm not pregnant this month I'm going to have to scold the hormones in my body for this!

 

[OhHappyZ]

I still remember when I first found my cervix haha. I thought I was feeling it, but then one day I went a little higher and around the bump and was like OMG THERE IT IS!!! Most of the month I can't feel it, and it is always hard to get a finger up there, but I squat and shove em up, working two fingers in there gently and trying my damdest to do this awkward yoga pose I call the "Round Backed Cervix Hunter"

 

[puma1986]

Hahahahahahahahahaha omg happy.

I think part of me just died. That was the funniest thing I've read all day.

Its true though! We are trying to locate something based on touch alone lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

Puma i really think u are pregnant! based on cervix and symptoms. Im gonna be so angry if af shows p

 

[puma1986]

Puma i really think u are pregnant! based on cervix and symptoms. Im gonna be so angry if af shows p

Tell me about it woman! This waiting is the worst! I'm having an extended two week wait! Gah!

 

[BabyC4Me]

CONFESSION


please tell me if any of you have felt this way....

I honestly think that I may......delete my Ovia app.

I am begining to think that the planning and documenting BD dates and tracking CM on the app and looking to the app for the fertile week is honestly hurting my chances because I rely too much on the access and ease of information at my finger tips.

....Maybe just BDing when you and your partner feel like it and not changing or arranging anything around your cycle, will help your chances.


Please let me know if im talking outta my ass....but I wanted to hear you girls thoughts

 

[TJ Islander]

CONFESSION


please tell me if any of you have felt this way....

I honestly think that I may......delete my Ovia app.

I am begining to think that the planning and documenting BD dates and tracking CM on the app and looking to the app for the fertile week is honestly hurting my chances because I rely too much on the access and ease of information at my finger tips.

....Maybe just BDing when you and your partner feel like it and not changing or arranging anything around your cycle, will help your chances.


Please let me know if im talking outta my ass....but I wanted to hear you girls thoughts

U may be on to something. personally, i dont use apps or temp. i dont use opk bc they're not available where i live. the only thing i do is consult my calendar so i know my fertile week and note my cm. i normally will make note of the days we BD just to compare the OD etc.

 

[BabyC4Me]

okay so u use a calendar as an alternative.

So do you think that tracking those things on the calendar are helping you? Or making you more frustrated and "Type A" when it comes to TTC? especially about when to BD and making sure you analyze symptoms and such?

 

[BlueStar89]

Well Ive just taken delivery of 50 OPKs so I'm going with that method for a month or two - but just so I can work out when I ovulate. I don't want to get to the CM or temping tbh.

I haven't been able to locate my cervix but I may try this squatting and searching method!

 

[GoldenRatio]

BabyC, i know exactly what u mean and i hate to sound like im an old gramma that knows everything but! i have been there done that.

Everyone kept telling me to stop thinking about it and not stress. Most ppl say it happened when they gave p. So i was like maybe i should stop this craze and it happens. I deleted my ovulation app several times, stopped chatting on here, stopped temping, opks and stress never left me.

I was more stressed because i didnt have control over my cycle. I think if you can truly let go, then u will be stress free but its really hard to let go everything n live your life like u are not ttc.

When i was single and dying to find a good guy and get married, ppl kept telling me to not think about it. "It will happen when u least expect it" Classic advise ha! well back then i pretended like im not expecting but i was 24/7 looking for my husband hehehe and found him. So i dont believe this "it will happen when u stop thinking about it" bs. Its luck, if are meant to have a baby in june, no matter what u do, that baby will come hun

Anyways sorry for the long lecture

Btw i just bough flowers for $100! they will probably all die in a week heheh i suck at gardening

 

[puma1986]

BabyC, i know exactly what u mean and i hate to sound like im an old gramma that knows everything but! i have been there done that.

Everyone kept telling me to stop thinking about it and not stress. Most ppl say it happened when they gave p. So i was like maybe i should stop this craze and it happens. I deleted my ovulation app several times, stopped chatting on here, stopped temping, opks and stress never left me.

I was more stressed because i didnt have control over my cycle. I think if you can truly let go, then u will be stress free but its really hard to let go everything n live your life like u are not ttc.

When i was single and dying to find a good guy and get married, ppl kept telling me to not think about it. "It will happen when u least expect it" Classic advise ha! well back then i pretended like im not expecting but i was 24/7 looking for my husband hehehe and found him. So i dont believe this "it will happen when u stop thinking about it" bs. Its luck, if are meant to have a baby in june, no matter what u do, that baby will come hun

Anyways sorry for the long lecture

Btw i just bough flowers for $100! they will probably all die in a week heheh i suck at gardening

I feel that Golden's advice gives a really thought out and sound perspective from someone who genuinely has been through it. I agree with Golden completely. Unless you can really and truly throw both of your hands into the air and let go of the wheel, I might not be so quick to release what little control you have away. I'm worried that if you don't conceive those months, you'll be angry at yourself for not tracking. Of course, I also believe that whatever feeling gives you the biggest relief, the most confidence, and the greatest happiness should totally be the route you follow.

 

[GoldenRatio]

Girls... fob moment here

I kept googling Garden Hoes and i was so frustrated that nothing came p google didnt even say "did u mean garden hose"

 

[puma1986]

Girls... fob moment here

I kept googling Garden Hoes and i was so frustrated that nothing came p google didnt even say "did u mean garden hose"

LMAO. Oh my my. I don't even want to know what came up instead

 

[OhHappyZ]

Hahahaha ya wow that is so funny!!! This thread is a crack up haha

 

[BabyC4Me]

Garden hoes. !!!!!!

Classic! What a ice breaker lol

And yea Golden I def hear you tho. It makes sense that letting go 100% will leave you blind to what is going on and might further frustrate things.

Idk what to do if I don't get a BFP this month. I really don't ....

I look at babies and roll my eyes now. It's that ridic

 

[puma1986]

Garden hoes. !!!!!!

Classic! What a ice breaker lol

And yea Golden I def hear you tho. It makes sense that letting go 100% will leave you blind to what is going on and might further frustrate things.

Idk what to do if I don't get a BFP this month. I really don't ....

I look at babies and roll my eyes now. It's that ridic

Hey!!!!! At least your in the middle of a healthy cycle and not in purgatory like me! Lmao

I've been sent to the land of BFP'less tests and Absent Aunt Flows. Dun dun duuuuuuun.

But in a serious note! We are here for you either way! And we will love you just the same regardless!