TTC#1- just beginning this journey.. Looking for buddy who is just beginning process

[Ella10]

Smyleegrl our cycles are very similar. According to ff I Ov either thurs or Friday. Hoping for thurs as I'm away friday & sat. Hope I don't miss it.

 

[smyleegrl324]

Yea we are very close, I think I ovulated yesterday but was hoping for today but oh well be last night and on Sunday and will again tonight for safe keeping hoping we got that egg haha I get so discouraged when thinking of the odds of actually getting pregnant, so discouraging, but trying to stay positive! All odd can be defied hehe

 

[swimmyj1]

AF came early for me this month It's so frustrating I was so sure this month we had it. ugh! But on a happy note I called my doctors office and got an appointment this next week to see the PA and I'm going to try and get on clomid. I'm already going to be ovulating on my honeymoon why not try and give it a little boost? Hope you guys get BFP this month!

 

[Ella10]

We're in it together. We can be positive together. But I agree it's such a small window for it to work. I'm away all weekend. Ff says I ov tomorrow and I leave tomorrow night. Going to be in the morning. I'm scared I'll miss it and will actually ovulate Friday or something.

 

[smyleegrl324]

Ella I hear yea.the best hours r the egg are minimal I am afraid that I missed it too.. we cant bd in the a.m bc my dh goes to work so early.. poor guy is exhausted but we r in this togethef..I hate how opposite our work schedules are

Hoping you o early then you can bd enough to get that egg!!!

 

[Ella10]

AF came early for me this month It's so frustrating I was so sure this month we had it. ugh! But on a happy note I called my doctors office and got an appointment this next week to see the PA and I'm going to try and get on clomid. I'm already going to be ovulating on my honeymoon why not try and give it a little boost? Hope you guys get BFP this month!

Sorry to hear Swimmy. But now you can enjoy your honeymoon. Have a drink or 2 (not sure if you drink at all hah). Enjoy yourselves. Make a baby on the trip

Smylee I'm hoping Tomorrow is o day. Cm was kind of watery today (tmi) sorry sorry hahah thank God we all don't now each other and would never recognize the other if we ever ran into or met the other hahaha

 

[swimmyj1]

Ella idk I would love to run into some of the women on this site go out for coffee and just vent hahaha. But i'm a nurse so it takes a lot for something to be tmi for me
And ur right now that I know i can i will defiantly be having a few drinks on my trip hehe.
I'm kinda nervous about taking clomid, i feel like i'm giving up trying on my own too early. And then I'm even more worried it wont work

 

[Ella10]

Ella idk I would love to run into some of the women on this site go out for coffee and just vent hahaha. But i'm a nurse so it takes a lot for something to be tmi for me
And ur right now that I know i can i will defiantly be having a few drinks on my trip hehe.
I'm kinda nervous about taking clomid, i feel like i'm giving up trying on my own too early. And then I'm even more worried it wont work

Very true a face to face coffe date would be fun with some of the women. Support group and baby group (once we get there hahah).

 

[smyleegrl324]

I agree I would love to be able to meet and have coffee, can you imagine the conversation we would have haha
Yea there isn't anything that tmi for me lol we are all experiencing the same things, it's natural hehe just glad we can discuss it together, imagine discussing this with the dh haha that would def be awkward discussing cm and position of Eric haha haha he would be like um haha they have no clue what we all do to try and get that baby hehe

Still waiting on those cross hairs ..not ff is saying that I may ga e o yesterday which makes me feel a little bit better bc we bd the night before and yesterday ��

 

[Ella10]

I agree I would love to be able to meet and have coffee, can you imagine the conversation we would have haha
Yea there isn't anything that tmi for me lol we are all experiencing the same things, it's natural hehe just glad we can discuss it together, imagine discussing this with the dh haha that would def be awkward discussing cm and position of Eric haha haha he would be like um haha they have no clue what we all do to try and get that baby hehe

Still waiting on those cross hairs ..not ff is saying that I may ga e o yesterday which makes me feel a little bit better bc we bd the night before and yesterday ��

Fingers crossed for you
It is saying I'm in my most fertile stage but not saying I O'd. My temp has remained consistent (but I just started temping Monday morning) but I had watery cm yesterday. We BD tues night and this morning. I read you shouldn't every day. So I don't know hahah

 

[smyleegrl324]

I agree I would love to be able to meet and have coffee, can you imagine the conversation we would have haha
Yea there isn't anything that tmi for me lol we are all experiencing the same things, it's natural hehe just glad we can discuss it together, imagine discussing this with the dh haha that would def be awkward discussing cm and position of Eric haha haha he would be like um haha they have no clue what we all do to try and get that baby hehe

Still waiting on those cross hairs ..not ff is saying that I may ga e o yesterday which makes me feel a little bit better bc we bd the night before and yesterday ��

Fingers crossed for you
It is saying I'm in my most fertile stage but not saying I O'd. My temp has remained consistent (but I just started temping Monday morning) but I had watery cm yesterday. We BD tues night and this morning. I read you shouldn't every day. So I don't know hahah

Yea some say that u shldnt bd very day and others say during fertile time to do it every day lol I'm trying to follow the smep ...so thats every day during fertile time Nd thenoff a day then one more ....ff is aying that I possibly o'd yesterday..had huge temp drop we'd and the huge rise yesterday, not sure how to go by that quite yet bc last ,on the It said o'd the day after the huge temp rise so if
ol

 

[Ella10]

Did ff actually draw a red line for you on O day?? I just started temping. So I don't know if it has enough info to do that for me. It changed colour and said I was most fertile yesterday after inputting cm detail. But has not said I O. I wish I just knew if I ovulated. I hate the unknown. If it didn't work I may use opk next month because I don't like this unknown variable.

 

[smyleegrl324]

I haven't received my cross hairs yet but u need 3 days of high Temps b4 getting the cross hairs, it just says it thinks.. I slid get my cross hairs tomorrow

I've attached my chart so far. .Lol I think I did anyway lol

 

[Ella10]

I thought conceiving was suppose to be fun hahah

Thanks so much for attaching picture. I'm sure I'll get it eventually hah

 

[smyleegrl324]

I thought conceiving was suppose to be fun hahah

Thanks so much for attaching picture. I'm sure I'll get it eventually hah

Haha I'm having fun trying hehe but the waiting sucks, finally got my cross hairs this a.m I O'd on tues, 3dpo...the dread tww has begun...last month I felt really confident and obviously we didn't get preggo, def not feeling too confident this month.. time will tell...

 

[swimmyj1]

hey guys work has been crazy! I hate waiting to O, lol i feel like i'm either waiting to opk test or waiting to see if AF shows up hahaha. I like trying but want some results by now. I think I'm going to take okp's with me on my honeymoon just so I know if I ovulated. what do you guys think? I was really hoping to start clomid this cycle but it will be too late to take it so maybe next month I will.

Can't believe my wedding is in 6 days!!! I have so much to do still kinda going crazy. Fingers crossed this is our month and we all get BFP! cuz I'm really not sure I want to try clomid the side effects are kinda scary.

 

[smyleegrl324]

Swimmyj wow 6 days how exciting!! U said bur going on cruise for honeymoon? Where r u headed? The dreaded tww is totally killing me already lol but I'm already planning the days we should bd for next month lol help haha its a sickness, I've been on FF comparing chats. ..not a good idea lol

 

[Ella10]

hey guys work has been crazy! I hate waiting to O, lol i feel like i'm either waiting to opk test or waiting to see if AF shows up hahaha. I like trying but want some results by now. I think I'm going to take okp's with me on my honeymoon just so I know if I ovulated. what do you guys think? I was really hoping to start clomid this cycle but it will be too late to take it so maybe next month I will.

Can't believe my wedding is in 6 days!!! I have so much to do still kinda going crazy. Fingers crossed this is our month and we all get BFP! cuz I'm really not sure I want to try clomid the side effects are kinda scary.

I say enjoy your honeymoon with whatever will cause you less stress/disappointment!! If having an opk with you to know you ovulated will help relieve stress do that. But if you feel it will cause you more stress or disappointment if you don't ov then don't bring one. That's my personal opinion.

 

[swimmyj1]

We are doing a 10 day cruise through the Caribbean can't wait! I think I'm going to bring them. I know i'll be disappointed if I don't get a positive opk on my honeymoon but at least then I won't symptom watch lol the whole month.

 

[fulltimevida]

Hi all!

I'm new to all this and would love to buddy up with y'all!
I'm 26 and fiance is 28. We're getting married in July, but decided to get a headstart on babymaking! This will be month 2 of TTC, and I'm currently on CD6!