Amber - looking forward to your next test, its still early. Fingers crossed for a bfp.
Dream - temps are looking sooooo good. I fully understand not being able to resist temping. I have tried not to temp, but the tww is so much more difficult when I don't know when o was. Plus those daydreams sound great!
Tb - thx for advice re higher fat, i'll be sure to check it out. Preseed might also be a good idea, but I normally have too much cm, so dh is sometimes battling to finish since I am "too slippery". Either way, I might try it just in case...
Sunnybe - dh took 3 days 'off' before SA, so im pretty sure that didn't influence too much. We normally bd eod in my fertile window. But its good to hear its not too rare to have bad results.
Ladies, thanks so much for the support
We will just continue as normal i think. I was pregnant on cycle 8 and I had a very clear chemical preg last month, so I will just try to keep my perspective. If I was already able to get pregnant twice, then the bad SA cannot kill my dreams of becoming a mother.
At least I have some hope of getting there eventually. We are also in the process of buying a new house, but it will be at least 6 months before the building is finished - so maybe ttc taking a little bit longer is not such a bad thing...
(I'm really trying to see the silver lining).
As for dh: he is starting on new supplements today. It includes a lot of stuff (see pic), plus he is taking additional: CentrumMEN multivit, 30mg zinc, 200mg vit c, 30mg CoQ10. We will just keep on trying for now and redo the SA at the end of Feb if we don't get the bfp by then.