Hi girls, I am just hoping to make some new bnb friends that are close to my age and still childless too (not by choice). I'm 38 and going on my sixth year wishing for #1. I don't say ttc anymore because we've been through the ringer with ntnp, then naturally trying, then medications, surgery, IUIS, IVF-nothing ever worked and we are unexplained with no pregnancies ever for either one of us (dh is turning 40 this month). So-now we are just sort of figuring it will never happen but wistful that there could be a surprise someday or maybe will possibly pursue snowflake/embryo adoption at some point but have spent all our savings on both ttc treatments and also therapy/training/help for my recently diagnosed autistic husband (who is also out of work at the moment since the diagnosis).