TTC#3 in August...looking for a buddy

[mothercabbage]

awwww trey.. ((let me know if your going to that spa)) i may need it soon!!!
n to all xxx

 

[jojosmami]

Good morning ladies!! How is everyone doing this morning?

Well ladies, I caved and tested this morning and of course it was a . Its ok though cause it is still pretty early. Cramps are gone, bbs still sore, had bad headache last night and a little queezy but could have been from the headache, and temps went up again. GUess all these symptoms could be PMS. Last month AF came early so not counting that happening again out. My DD woke up this morning sick. Could be allergies but she's not looking good, and have a ton of laundry to do today so hopefully that will keep me busy today and away from the other tests I have!

 

[jojosmami]

How you doing Coral and Caz?

 

[coral11680]

Hi everyone, I'm feeling more doubtful today did a test yesterday afternoon and I would think it would show by now on a 20miu test? I will test again tomorrow morning if the doesn't get me before!!
I thought I had tons of symptoms but might be in my head

Jojo way too early to show positive so don't worry! It's hard when you have cheapies not to test isn't it!

Trey glad to hear things are better with DH and hope your session goes well.

Cabbage like the pics you look great!

Caz how are you feeling?

 

[mothercabbage]

Hi CORAL :wave: thanx for compliments on pics.... maybe its still too early for testing...so FXd for bfp soon...keep us updated!! n

 

[Treykid3]

DH and I touched on the baby subject last night and he admitted that he is unsure of what he wants. His reasons revolve around finances and being able to provide. I was thinking more along of the lines of waiting until we develop a stronger bond. The minds of men and women can be so different.

Ok, so my cycle update is slightly promising. I got my crosshairs today on my FF chart which means i Ov'd on Monday. We had make up BD five days before and the day of. So, there is a small possibility something stuck. I'll start SS next wk. FX. If it happens then there will be no more wondering what to do.

 

[Treykid3]

DH and I touched on the baby subject last night and he admitted that he is unsure of what he wants. His reasons revolve around finances and being able to provide. I was thinking more along of the lines of waiting until we develop a stronger bond. The minds of men and women can be so different.

Ok, so my cycle update is slightly promising. I got my crosshairs today on my FF chart which means i Ov'd on Monday. We had make up BD five days before and the day of. So, there is a small possibility something stuck. I'll start SS next wk. FX. If it happens then there will be no more wondering what to do.

 

[Treykid3]

Oops

 

[mothercabbage]

hi trey, im sure your DH will be over the moon if you told him you were preggo....and it sounds like you had O pretty much covered with BDing.... FXd for n xxxx

 

[jojosmami]

@trey, glad to hear that you at least got to break the ice about the new baby. Its sounds like he is a great man and just wants to make sure he can take care of his family. I'm sure everything will work out and by the sounds of your timing with make up you might just be well on your way!!
@Coral, I know how frustrating this 2ww is! Its killing me too. But, keep your chin up because I see on here how some women are 12-13dpo and get a neg in the morning and test again in the afternoon and get there so your not out yet! to you too.

So ladies, which week out of your month long cycle do you think is the hardest?
AF week,Ovulation Week,or the 2WW?
I feel its the AF week. During Ov week your keeping busy and at least in the progress of getting things done. 2WW is really hard but at least you have that hope to hold onto,symptom hunting and that positivty of this is gonna be our month. AF week is horrible because not only do you have to deal with the fact of dissapointment but you have to deal with your actual AF. Just wanted to see what you guys thought.
I am soooootoday. I get that way before AF comes though so not a great symptom to judge from. I have looked at the test I took today like a million times already hoping that a second line will just magically appear. I know its early but I am bummed out that I couldn't even see a hint of a line. My cramps came back earlier and felt more like AF type cramps so I'm trying to stay positive but its really hard. How's everyone else feeling?

 

[Treykid3]

The worst week for me is week 2 of the 2WW. It's hard to wonder if your symptoms are AF or pregnancy. I'm ok with AF week because the limbo of am I preggo, is over. Fertile week is fun because of BDing.

@Jojo, your symptoms are still sounding so good. Don't give up! PMA!! Thanks for all your positive words of encouragement. Now I need to start praying!!
@Coral, you don't give up either. Is still little early if your ticker is right.
@Caz...how are yoU?
@Cabbage, Do you have and OV signs yet??

 

[caz81]

hey ladies! loads to catch up on! Sorry I have been absent for the last couple of days but just been so busy!

Thank you for the lovely comments on my daughter - her name is Sapphira

Sorry coral & jojo that you got bfns but its still early - not over until the witch shows! When do you think you will test again?

Trey - glad you have ovulated & sounds like you are in with a good chance with when you dtd.

Mothercabbage - loving the pic - very sexy!!

Im doing ok, starting symptom spotting of course ive got loads of creamy cm which i dont normally have, headache off & on & having strange dreams but im guessing its too early really for any of those to be real signs

 

[mothercabbage]

morning girlies :wave: i think the worst week for me is after AF has gone, b/c if your like me i have a week from then until O...well usually (i think) yesterday i think i had O pains, quite sharp but like burning in lower tummy, mainly at right side..so just to be safe i DTD last night!!!
TREY im not too sure if those wer O signs, and im not sure what any other signs are....any hints??
CAZ thanx for the compliment on pic!!!had a great day in manchester for that photoshoot!!!
how is every one else today? hope your all wonderfully posative for the coming weeks ..
n to all xxxxx

 

[caz81]

When I ovulate I get stabbing pains on one side, they dont last that long generally, just a few mins!

Do you do OPKS?

 

[mothercabbage]

no im not going to use them this cycle, im trying the au natural approach! see if i can listen to my body!!! ((what do i sound like)) ...the O pains i got were for about 10 mins..if that...probably wind....but DTD just in case...any excuse to OH...ha ha

 

[coral11680]

Morning ladies,
Well. I'm def out this month the arrived last night

Oh well, on a bright note, it was exactly 28 days so I think my cycle is on track now. The first month off the pill (last month) it was 30 days. I was always 28days before BC so I feel like hopefully it's back to normal now!! we'll see.

Good luck everyone!! I'm trying not to come on everyday as I'm getting too obsessive and driving myself nuts!

Hope you get your BFP soon. If you dont this month dont worry we can be buddies and go through it together again!

 

[mothercabbage]

Awwwwwwwwww CORAL xx

 

[jojosmami]

AWWW coral!! Sending you lots of love!
@Cabbage, I usually get mild cramps,and bbs get tender, and increased CM but not really till the day before I ov for me! Crossing my fingers your on your way!
@Caz, glad to her your well. Your daughters name is beautiful! How did you come up with it? Is your ticker right? If it is could be symptoms.
@Trey, how you feeling today?

Well, this morning I woke up and tested and got a bfn again. I swear I see a vvvvvv faint line but think its just an evap. Had a big temp jump up,Bbs not really sore anymore just still have that weired burning/itching like feeling on the nips. This morning I woke up w/ (TMI)loads of watery cm, I thought for a sec I got my AF or my "water broke" , other than that not much. Had a wave of like a heat flash,nauseousness,and faintness this morning. Lasted about 10 mins but really thought I was gonna lose my coffee if you catch my drift. I'm suppose to go to a carnival w/ my kids where my Aunt lives about 45 mins from home tomorrow. I'm not telling anyone were TTC just yet but don't want to get on the rides just incase. My son loves the big rides but can't get on by himself and I'm the only other one that will go on with him.. My aunt is really nosey and she gonna be asking a million questions why I'm not going on with him. I'm really hoping I get my in the morning so I can tell her. If not hw do you think I should handle it? She is the typical crazy Aunt who is loud,nosey,and got a big mouth! She's the family newspaper. I love her to death though and she's like a second mom. BUt I know if I tell her were TTC not only will she blab it to the whole family and anyone else that will listen but she will be doing it in a neg way. I don't think she means it but she's not the most positive person in the world and at a time like this I just want positive vibes. Lets just hope I wake up and get my and can proudly show her the test!!

 

[Treykid3]

Coral, I'm sorry came to visit. It is a relief though to get back to a 'normal' cycle. Keep that PMA up!

Jojo, you are still showing good symptoms. I don't see why you cant ride any rides at the fair. Didn't you say your DD wasn't feeling well a couple of days ago? You can say you got a touch of what she had and you want to play it 'safe'. Your temps look good...staying above the coverline without a downward trend is a good thing. I hope you get that too!

Cabbage, au natural signs are CM! Look for EWCM (egg white in consistency and color). This should come after watery CM. Pains on one side or the other is a sign too. I usually cramp all over.

Caz, we can SS together since we are around the same DPO. According to FF I am 4 DPO today. I had cramps yesterday and none so far today. Creamy CM. Feeling good today.

 

[jojosmami]

Jojo, you are still showing good symptoms. I don't see why you cant ride any rides at the fair. Didn't you say your DD wasn't feeling well a couple of days ago? You can say you got a touch of what she had and you want to play it 'safe'. Your temps look good...staying above the coverline without a downward trend is a good thing. I hope you get that too!

I just thought getting on rides my hurt the possible pregnancy? So, with the temp thing, the temp should stay above the base temp and it just needs to stay above that right?