TTC#3 in August...looking for a buddy

[Treykid3]

Wouldn't be cool if we all got our BFP's at the same time!

 

[mothercabbage]

when are we all testing? im testing (probably way too early) monday.....

 

[coral11680]

Morning ladies,

Woke up with a crappy cold Sore throat, headache too!

DTD last night but am not hopeful for this month at all. I'm been reading about how important Fertile CM is and I barely had any CM and it was milky
Oh well, I will have to invest in preseed and Robtussin(or something similar as I dont think they sell that here) I have mucinex DM but read it should only be the plain mucinex.

Jojo, thanks for the tips to help with CM. Hopefully its helping you so you can get your BFP this cycle!!

Trey, I did copy and paste the BBcode? how come mine has a ticker but your and jojos doesnt?

Caz, are you temping or doing opk's this month?

Cabbage, I dont think monday is too early although it might not come up BFP even if you are pregnant but worth a try!

I dont think I will test at all until day AF is due because I dont think its happening this month.
xxxx

 

[coral11680]

just figured out FF chart, I never added my chart to my homepage you can click on my ticker and it should work now?

 

[jojosmami]

Morning Ladies. Must...Have...It was a LONG NIGHT! My DD hasn't been sleeping well for the last week or so. She woke up a couple of nights in a row with what I think are bad dreams.And we made that horrible mistake by putting her in our bed. NOw I think she's making it a habit and was up crying on and off all night. Finally @ 2:00am my DH went and slept on the couch and I put her in my bedThe rest of the night was full of her kicking me, pushing me off the bed with her feet and me scared I'm gonna roll over on her so laying on my side so uncomfortable.Plus our bed is really tall and I was so scared she'd roll off I was constantly waking up in a panic trying to see where she was. The joy's of parenthood! But Once I get some coffee and get moving hopefully it won't be so bad.Today is CD 8 so that means I start DTD tonight with the SMEP. Start tonight then every other night till O day then that day and then each night for 3 days after that. I think I'm going to try to do it in the morning the day I O so that their in there so I don't miss it.

@Coral, I see your chart!!! Looks good! Listen, don't stress about your CM. There is always a possibility that the got to the "party". There are women who get preggo while on their AF so don't count yourself out just yet. You just may be pleasantly surprised! for you!! Did you go ahead and get the preseed?
@Caz, I'm glad to hear that your PMA is so great. Maybe you being so confident about this month being the one it will give you a little push over the edge you need to get your BFP! Did your hubby start his new hours at work? How is that working out?
@Cabbage, Monday should be ok. I can't wait to see that !!! The 1st one of our thread! Its gonna be so exciting! How do you feel?
@Trey, it would be so cool for us to all go into the 1st tri forum together at the same time!!! Wonder if that has ever happened before? Ya, know all the girls on one thread getting their BFP in the same month? How have you been doing? How are those sessions w/ your hubby working out if you don't mind me asking?
I'll probably start testing on the 25th. That will be a little early but I'm being realistic!

 

[mothercabbage]

afternoon all :wave: hope your all ok...im really nervous about monday!!! hope it comes up ...but then i worry it wont stick and the will get me anyway.. but im excited to know so i want to test asap.....am i nervous wreck!!!!! plus i dont think we DTD enough around +OPK..........

 

[Treykid3]

when are we all testing? im testing (probably way too early) monday.....

I'm testing Oct 27th

 

[mothercabbage]

is that when af is due or is that a little b4 af?

 

[coral11680]

hey girls,

Jojo, thanks for making me feel better, I guess there is a chance but I'm still doubtful No I haven't got the preseed but prob will get it next month. DTD last night and the night before, so need to again tonight then have a night off then one more night. Then have to wait until I test probably around the 20th.

Yes it would be fabulous it we all got our BFP this month wouldn't it!

Cab, dont worry hun from what I've seen on most charts most girls get pregnant the night of ovulation or before so stay positive!

It's funny but my Best friend has just started a job a couple of months ago as a nurse on a fertility ward. I was asking her lots of questions today as we met for lunch!

 

[jojosmami]

Coral, I told my hubby when he came home from lunch that today was the 1st day of our new plan and he started to giggle and said better go get some coffee on the way home then How great is it that your friend is able to give you some advice. So, what did you find out?
Cab, I can't wait for Monday now to see your BFP!

 

[mothercabbage]

well to be honest im shi***ng myself....do you think its too early? ive read on here about women getting a early then getting af as usual...id be devastated!!!

 

[Treykid3]

is that when af is due or is that a little b4 af?

When it is due

 

[Treykid3]

8pm....my kids should be in the bed but noooo...still in the tub so I figure i'll post a little msg. My hubby just told me he missed it when we were going at it every other night, so I will do my best to oblige. How do I keep him from feeling "used"?

@cabbage Don't feel too stressed about the test. You have done all u could do and i think u covered all ur bases. Monday u will be 9 DPO, rt? It's possible to get a BFP then but its still early.

@coral I can finally see ur chart! It looks good. U should be getting ur crosshairs soon. Either tomorrow or sat. Then u will know exactly what day u ovulated. I have to look into the cm thing bc mine hasnt been that great either.

@caz Didn't u mention something about agus catus (sp?) ? What does that do?

@jojo Because of scheduling we haven't gone for our first session yet. Next couple of weeks hopefully. We have been doing well though. My kids have been in my bed for the last couple nights and its driving me crazy! I dont know what to do. I feel ur pain!

Time for bedtime! Check u out in the morning.

 

[coral11680]

Morning ladies,

Well I have such a stuffy nose with this cold and took my temp this morning and it had a huge dip? Do you think it could be from having my mouth open to breathe? Now I'm worried I didn't ovulate! I also didnt DTD last night as I felt too sick and hubby was sleeping! I have a bad feeling this month, dont think i stand a chance

Jojo, my friend is still learning as she just qualified as a nurse and is learning about the fertility stuff. She just told me about the tests they do and stuff.

Cabbage, how many tests do you have? if you only have a few maybe try to wait until Tues/Wed? Or just buy more! There are plenty of women on here who get BFP that early but don't panic if you dont!

Trey, what do you think about my chart dip? so confused now? If the kids dont get out of your bed, you and hubby will have to move to the couch!

Caz, how ya feeling?

 

[mothercabbage]

mornina ladies :wave:i have 4 frer and 4 cheapie tests....i think 9dpo is too early i know some women get at 9dpo but i dont want to have to squint to see the result, if its going to be i want to be able to see it....so might hang on a bit to test....so nervous!!
@coral hope your not feeling too ill, i dont think i DTD enough to cover O, so you have to get so if/when i get at least you'll get FX
@trey..i cant help but get stressed! its only my #1 cycle TTC what am i going to be like if i have to go through this month after month?
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[coral11680]

Cab, according to my ticker I ovulated yesterday so hope I didn't miss my chance! Yeah prob a good idea to wait until cd10 or 11 and use a cheapie. Save the frer until u think you might be.

 

[mothercabbage]

im going to leave it until 10 dpo, and i think it will only be a slight feint if it is on that day...(tues)...i have no pma today whatso-ever...could i know we messed up this month!! not enough around +OPK dtd that day and none since....lots before but just not going to be my month ....

 

[jojosmami]

Morning ladies! Well, my daughter was up all night again! She fell asleep w/out any fuss so I ran to the gym, came back and at down to talk to my hubby for a min and she woke up crying. I think the playpen is getting uncomfy for her so we got the mattress out for the toddler bed and put it on the floor. I laid on the floor w/ her till she fell asleep, got up, took a shower and when I got back into the room my hubby was on the floor with her. She feel asleep for 1 hr and then up the rest of the night!!!!!! I feel like a zombie! It wouldn't be so bad if she just went to sleep if I put her in my bed, but she's not. She's sticking her finger in my nose,trying to open my eys, saying mama wake up, calling my name, she doesn't want the blanket so she's pulling it off me... She feel asleep @ 4:45 am and the alarm woke her up @ 5:30am. So, obviously hubby didn't get to DTD. Tried this morning but we were so tired and her crying woke up my son so they were both up and it just took all the excitement out of it. Oh well, it's still early. Maybe tonight if I can stay up past dinner!
@coral, that dip could actually be you O'ing. Its very possible to O a little early or late and your ticker is based on the info you put it when you created it. I really think you O'd today ( or when ever the dip is) Once you get your crosshairs it will be more clear but that drop is pretty convincing.
@Cab, if you can hold out then good for you but if you have some cheapies and it won't bum you out to bad to get a bfn even knowing it early then why not test on Mon. Keep up your PMA hunni! Anything is possible and you never know when your BFP is gonna come. One of my TTC on another thread who got preggo this last month was saying the same as you saying this wasn't her month, she didn't have a ot of symptoms and completely counted herself out and boom, she got her BFP!!
@Trey, if you figure out how to keep the kids out of your bed, send your knowledge over this way!! Glad to hear you and your hubby are doing well. If your hubby is saying that he likes it when you are DTD every other day than guess he doesn't mind "being used"!
@Caz, how you feeling hunni? Excited about this next cycle?

 

[jojosmami]

im going to leave it until 10 dpo, and i think it will only be a slight feint if it is on that day...(tues)...i have no pma today whatso-ever...could i know we messed up this month!! not enough around +OPK dtd that day and none since....lots before but just not going to be my month ....

U have us hunni.I know how hard it is when you want something so bad and you feel so scared that your gonna be disappointed. But, with positive thinking, positive things will happen.

 

[coral11680]

jojo, I thought about it possibly ovulation but i got the positive opk 4 days ago, the day after opk was neg but quite a strong line, I did another opk today and very negative, I can't imagine I would ovulate 4 days after the postive??? they say 12-48 hrs dont they? Hope I ovulated 2 days ago when I dtd last!!

Cab, I know how you feel and just remember we are all in similar situations so your def not alone You bd the day you got your opk so you shuld be ok.