TTC#3 in August...looking for a buddy

[jojosmami]

Yea, actually, I fell back asleep and he let me sleep until 11:00. It was nice. After beng up for countless nights with my DD I desperately needed it! Def call them. Can't wait to hear what they say.

 

[coral11680]

oh no cab, I meant on CD13 not the 13th still only 6dpo if I go by that.

Morning jojo, glad to hear you are having fun are u still doing every other day or will you do it everyday now you are getting close to O?

 

[jojosmami]

we'll to be honest I know the SMEP say every other till O day, but my head is saying do it everyday to get as much in there as I can. But, I don't to wear DH out and make it so he's not enjoying it, ya know. So I guess I'll take it day by day. I have my " We are Def DTD no matter what" days though!

 

[mothercabbage]

oh i see.....got all excited then....still, not long until you can test though! xx

 

[Treykid3]

Hi you guys!
I had a busy weekend with the family. It was my DH’s Homecoming so we went to the football game and hung out with old friends. I kept thinking that if I had a 3rd baby on my hip how hard it would have been.
I haven’t OV’d yet but it has to be coming in the next couple of days. CM is finally beginning to change and I have cramps almost everyday. Does that seem right?
@Jojo
What websites do you recommend for the best coupons? Your temp spike looks like it could be an early OV. FF won’t make crosshairs for another couple of days though. Glad you had a good time on the hay ride. I’m taking mine out sometime this week to pick out their pumpkins.
@Coral
I see that you OV’d. Is it when you thought it was? Why don’t you have a good feeling about this month? Did you time BD right?
@Cabbage
Sorry for the BFN! When will you test again?
@Caz
How are you doing?

Well my DH had a job interview today! FX’d that he gets it. It would make a world of difference for him and for all of us. I told him that I was preggo with my 2nd baby the first day of his last job. Maybe it’s meant to happen like that again this time!

 

[jojosmami]

Hey Trey! Glad to hear you had a good weekend. I go on mommy blogs in my area and the email me deals and freebies around here but also have reg printable coupons. One is MamaCheaps.com, Yes4Free, Chester County Mamas etc. if you just google free samples or cupons so many will come up. Yea, think I will O soon. Boobs hurt today but cramps slowed down. heading off to the gym in a bit but hopefully gonna be able to DTD tonight again. I know I'm suppose to be doing it every other day but I just want to make sure there are plenty of in there when its time!!
@ Cab good luck if you test in the am!!!

 

[coral11680]

morning ladies,

Jojo, you def have good determination this month doing it everyday! lol Wish I had that!

Trey, I just dont have a good feeling in general, plus I never had fertile CM which is a big factor in getting preg from what I've read. Also, I didn't BD the day before O, but did the day of but figure eggy was prob gone by the time we BD late at night I also havent felt positve after having BFN the last 2 months so just dont think its going to happen.

Cab, have you resisted testing this morning? Are you testing tomorrow? fx'd

Caz, how is everything going with you?

 

[mothercabbage]

morning ladies..:wave:
@trey glad you had a good weekend with family hope you O soon ang get back in the game, everyone says how hard the 2ww is, i find waiting in between for af to end and O the worst! xx
@jojo might try coupon websites myself now as i have finally got a printer, so i can print them off, i love freebie sites, ive had allsorts from creams perfumes to washing up liquid to shoe liners, one of my favo's recently was breathe easy nose strips!!
well i resisted the urge to test this morning, because of the bfn yesterday i thought if i did get a bfp it would be very very very feint and im not wasting a frer test to barly see the result, still think im out though! not enough and no symptoms just usual af symptoms, kinda tender (.)(.) a burning ache in tummy and lower back ache..all usual for af for me....hope your all well xxxxxx

 

[mothercabbage]

morning ladies,

Jojo, you def have good determination this month doing it everyday! lol Wish I had that!

Trey, I just dont have a good feeling in general, plus I never had fertile CM which is a big factor in getting preg from what I've read. Also, I didn't BD the day before O, but did the day of but figure eggy was prob gone by the time we BD late at night I also havent felt positve after having BFN the last 2 months so just dont think its going to happen.

Cab, have you resisted testing this morning? Are you testing tomorrow? fx'd

Caz, how is everything going with you?

morning hunni, im ok today...not tested b/c i feel af is defo on way, all usual symptoms are here not wasting a test.... see post above ^^^^

 

[coral11680]

ahh cab, I think for most women the symptoms for AF are very similar to preg symptoms so dont think your out yet. Do you usually get these symptoms this early before AF? xx

 

[mothercabbage]

ahh cab, I think for most women the symptoms for AF are very similar to preg symptoms so dont think your out yet. Do you usually get these symptoms this early before AF? xx

yea always, nevermind there is always next cycle, just been to the loo(TMI) and i had quite a bit of CM dont know what colour b/c loo paper is white, looked clear?? thats usual for af too....lots of CM....im kinda grumpy about it all this cycle OH says its ok we'll try next month! i told him that just b/c ihave next month does't make me not dissapointed this month!!! men!!!

 

[coral11680]

Like I said before though, most preg symptoms mimic AF symptoms so dont worry about them......PMA hun.......Men they dont get it do they!!xx

 

[mothercabbage]

Like I said before though, most preg symptoms mimic AF symptoms so dont worry about them......PMA hun.......Men they dont get it do they!!xx

no they defo dont!!! well i dont know what to do today i keep nipping on here but eveyone must be busy. might go into town and get some halloween things for the LO's..or then again might have a lazy day, connor didnt sleep too well last night so i think i may have a snooze when he has his pre-dinner nap.......xxx

 

[caz81]

Morning ladies, sorry i have been awol for so long but hubby has been off work for the last week so we have been doing loads of family bits & not really been able to get on here at all

mothercabbage - dont give up hope, I know when I was pregnant with Sapphira i constantly felt like af was going to come, i remember i used to keep doing so many tests because i thought i had miscarried and was about to bleed, it felt so much like just before my period so i dont think you are out at all....so when will you next test? You said you have a few cheapies so why not give one a go tomorrow?!

coral - how are you feeling? Any symptoms yet? do you think you will manage to wait until 13dpo to test?

Jojo & trey - sounds like you might both ovulate pretty soon so hope you have been having lots of bding!!

Im good, feeling positive this cycle as thought it would be the one, im also (very surprisingly for me!) feeling chilled about it. Im the sort of person who tends to get a bit obsesive ttc but this cyle im not. I think it was because last cycle e only dtd around ovulation time and then stopped for a couple of weeks, and i realised that was no good, i cant just focus on getting pregnant but want to enjoy being with hubby too so making more effort to bd because we want to rather than just ttc, which is very nice that said will still be going for it crazily when i do ovulate

Someone asked about agnus castus? It is good for helping ovulation & regulating cycles. I can have cycles between 28 and 35 days and so if i take agnus castus it helps. I gave up after cd6 last month as i thought that it was causing spotting after af but i carried on this month & i spotted until cd7 but then stopped. It generally makes you ovulate sooner as well which will give you a longer luteal (SP) phase so that is good in ttc as well. I have had very little ewcm in the last few months so dont know if i have been ovulating and it has changed to cd16 when used to be cd11 so im hoping it will help sort out those problems!

Im going to start doing OPKS from today i think as agnus castus might cause early ovulation

 

[mothercabbage]

going to test tomorrow i think if no af by then, ill be 11dpo, some say its still too early, idk what to do...

 

[caz81]

I would test, but thats cause I love to POAS lol!!! But just dont feel down if you dont get a BFP yet cause its still really early!

 

[mothercabbage]

ok think ill test then OH just said we can buy more if you need them, just hope af dont show! x

 

[jojosmami]

Morning ladies.
@Cab, Hunni, I know its frustrating and you can feel desperate and frustrated with this whole TTC. It is still early and every pregnancy is different. There are women who don't get a BFP till 15-16dpo. So tech you are still early. But, then again knowing that doesn't make it any easier getting a bfn either. Chin up love. We are all here going thru the same thing together so feel free to rant,rave, cry and scream. We are all here to listen. Just make sure your here in the next couple weeks for me just in case
@Caz, glad to here from you. Really hope your right about this month for you! How's your DD?
@Coral, you still have time for a BFP too! You may be pleasantly surprised!
@Trey, any closer to O ya think?
My temps dropped again this morning and not much CM this morning but its still early yet. Didn't get to DTD last night. I was sooo tired from 2 hrs at the gym and hubby wasn't in the mood. Really want to go to the gym again tonight, so maybe will only go for an hour. Allergies are really killing me today but scared to take allergy meds because I heard they dry up cm. Guess I gotta suffer a bit. Have a great day everyone!

 

[mothercabbage]

hi jojo, im up n down at the moment one minute im full of PMA and the next im down and want to cry b/c i think im out, but only time will tell..ive done lots of resaerch today on lots of af/pregnancy stuff and its all pretty contradictory, i think its b/c the symptoms are so similar, also i look at from 9dpo and could cry but then i see tests at 14dpo that are barely there....i guess i just gotta wait it out and poas now and again...soon be BD time for you again and if (and thats a big if) i do get a i am waiting around for you!!! for deffo!! you were one of my first buddies on here so i feel its only right to stick together!! xxxxxx

 

[coral11680]

cabbage, put your tests on here and show the girls!