TTC #3 ~ ttc buddy to bump budy wanted :0) ~~

[Gemmamumof2]

I'm Gemma! i'm 25 i have 2 children already, been trying for another for 3 years now getting a little desperate lol

just would like buddies similar or total opposite to join me on my journey

 

[mom22boys]

HI! I am Lori 34 mom of 2 boys and ttc number 3 really would like for it to be a girl but either way it will be great! Always wanted a big family. My hubby set 3 as our limit. I am on CD16 I have not ovulated yet or so the OPKS have not said so. I should OV around Tuesday or later that week. We just started trying but I have been waiting
9 1/2 years to get to this point. We have a child with Down Syndrome and we wanted to make sure he was in a good place before we started ttc. I am sorry you are depressed! 3 years have you been to the Dr?

 

[Gemmamumof2]

yea, as i have 2 healthy children and complications during pregnancy they wont help me

 

[mom22boys]

I am so sorry. That just does not seem fair or right.

 

[Gemmamumof2]

i kind of understand but it isn't fair as if i'm willing to take risk then i wish to be supported.
i had group b strep with my daughter theres chance i wont get it again.

 

[mom22boys]

I had group b strep with my youngest son too. So is that the complication you mentioned?

 

[Gemmamumof2]

yea they said im risking health of unborn baby by 'trying'

 

[mom22boys]

REALLY? My friend just had her 3rd and this was her second while testing positive with GBS. They did not even keep her 2 days in the hospital. They told her they don't do that anymore. Maybe you ought to try another dr? I had it with my last and they said more children were fine.

 

[Gemmamumof2]

my son contracted meningitis from me having group be as i was unaware i had it at time so i didnt have antibiotics when was in labour and neither did he.. with my daughter she was on antibiotics for 4 days whilst being tested for gbs but all was well with her.
my doctor basically said i have 2 healthy children boy and girl thats 'most' peoples dream family and there still young and so am i.

if i feel the same in a year or 2s time then go back and discuss it more in depth. and for now let nature take its course lol.

 

[mom22boys]

Oh I see! Well I wish you lots of luck!

The doctors thought my youngest had menigits, they did a spinal tap on him when he was like 4 hours old. He did not, he was just really really sick!