TTC after a loss 2012 BFP!!

[cazi77]

Hi girls 2011 hasn't been the best year for me after 3 losses. I'm hoping 2012 will be the year I get my sticky BFP! Is there anyone else who would like to join me on the journey? Happy new year xxx

 

[Madrid98]

I'm with you cazi!!! 2011 started with a mc on the very 2nd day and another in August. Yesterday it ended with af again so I'm glad is over!

We'll get our sticky BFPs this time around!!!

 

[cazi77]

Hiya. Sorry AF got u At least u know where u are and can start the new year with a new cycle. I have no idea where I am had my m/c nearly 3 weeks ago. We have been NTNP but expecting AF in the next week/10 days.

The girls in TTCAL 2011 have been an amazing support this year but a huge number have BFP's or babies so though i'd start a 2012 thread. Thanks for joining me xx

 

[Madrid98]

With my last mc it took a long time to get af back. I don't know yet how much damage it did to my cycles but I've noticed my LP reduced by 2 days since.
Just be patient and you'll get there eventually hun. It's so hard to go through this again and again. Have you had any tests before? Do you know why this is happening at all? Is it progesterone or something like that?
Sorry about all the questions, don't answer if you think is too much.

 

[cazi77]

Had every test under the sun done and both me and D/H are fine??? Waiting for are referal to liverpool as that is the reginal specialist hospital. They have told me to TTC again as there is no reason why next time it wont be fine.Have u had any tests done?

 

[tryingfaith]

Hello ladies...I am sooo sorry for your losses...I have suffered 2 losses. One was in 2007 and my second was in November 2011. I started AF on Dec. 24 and so the next step comes....I have an u/s to check Follies and lining...then depending on what that looks like IUI in the first week of Jan.
GL to all of us...Heres to hoping the new year belongs to us!!!!!

 

[Madrid98]

No, they won't do any tests until I have 3 mc's in a row. I also have 2 children already so they just think is a question of bad luck.

I'm going to follow AMU method with the supplements and vitamin B6 and I'll see how I get on.

If you had tests and they came back fine at least you know there's nothing wrong with you both. To a certain extend that may make it even more frustrating.

 

[Madrid98]

Hi faith!! Thanks hun and sorry for your losses too. Good luck with the scan!!

 

[Madrid98]

Hi ladies!! How are you? I managed to get the vitamin b6 today and also the fish oil capsules. I'll get the others tomorrow after work if I can.

Feeling ok today. Just waiting for af to leave the building. Btw, my af isn't as it use to be either. It feels as if it isn't long or heavy enough. Don't know...

 

[cazi77]

I have the same issue. My af only lasts 3days and isnt that heavy. When I went for my last u/s the lining was thickened to 14mm. They said they like to see it in the teens for pregnancy so I guess its fine. I have no sore bb's or any other post ovulation symptoms. Hope everyone is weill xx

 

[Madrid98]

Could you be pregnant again without af in between?

 

[cazi77]

I could be but really don't think i've ovulated since my m/c. Been a bit crampy today so af might be on the way x

 

[Madrid98]

I guess you have to wait and see. Many people get pregnant straight away. Particularly because it's a time when you may not be concentrating on ttc so it just happens.

Have you got any plans for the cycle if and when it starts?

I bought today the Wheatgerm oil. Only waiting for AMU to send me the other thing and I'm ready. Feeling relaxed about this month. Maybe because I know I have to wait another 2 until anything happens.

 

[cazi77]

It will be interesting to see how you get on with the things AMU recommended. I have tried various things inc soy and EPO and have never got pregnany with them. I have a CBFM and conceive plus and take pregnancy vit so just going to stick with that!! What cycle day r u?

 

[Madrid98]

The first time I tried soy and EPO I got my bfp and my 2nd mc 6 wks later. I won't try them ever again. EPO kept my temps fluctuating for a long time and only when I stopped it I O. It doesn't work with me for some reason.

I'm cd4 today. I had to count now as I'm not keeping an eye on numbers so much any more. I'm getting uneasy about my af. It's just not normal. Sorry tmi coming up, it's very brown now. Went from red and not much to brown for 2 days now. Maybe that's the reason i don't get pregnant. My body doesn't clean itself properly.

 

[cazi77]

Your AF sounds very like mine I get brown spotting for a day red for a day 1/2 followed by 2 days of brown. Everyone is so different I'm sure its normal.

 

[Madrid98]

Thanks. I'm glad you said that!! At least I can stop obsessing with it not being "normal".

I can't remember when I used to have a normal period any more. I was always on the pill and then the coil so it's kind of weird trying to find the right balance.

How are you feeling now? Are the cramps still around?

 

[Duffy]

Hi ladies.

I keep searching for the perfect group to join on there but I always seem to pick ones where it's full/over talked where I can't keep up. Or I write on a old one no ones writes on heehee.

I am a mommy of a 2 year old she took almost 2/half year to concieve. I had two miscarriage in 2011 one when she was 9 months old and I got pregnant a few months later but miscarried on her first birthday ): Anyway I'm hoping 2012 brings a healthy full term pregnancy, happy late news years everyone.

 

[Future Mama]

I'm so sorry for all of your losses. I would love to join you girls. I had 2 losses in 2011, one in Sept and then a d&c 2 days before Christmas. I'm still waiting to test negative on a pregnancy test so we can start trying again. Really hoping 2012 brings all of us healthy pregnancies and babies.

 

[Madrid98]

Welcome future and Duffy!! Sorry about your losses too! I hope this year will bring all we wish.

I'm ttc#3 myself. Have boy & girl already.