TTC after a loss 2012 BFP!!

[cazi77]

Welcome Duffy - I know what you mean about joining groups a lot are well established and move very fast. Sorry for you losses fingers crossed for 2012.

Welcome Future Mama sorry for your losses fingers crossed you get that -ve test soon so you can get back to ttc again soon.

Madrid hope AF is on the was out. Are you using OPK's this month? When do u usually ovulate?

AFM Cramps have gone? Just got creamy cm? Time will tell if I'm pregnant again of AF is gona show. It will be 4 weeks on tuesday since my m/c. I A/F isn't here bey next friday I might test. Weather awful today but I need to go into town. Got a parcel to post and an order to collect from boots!!

 

[Duffy]

Good morning ladies

Thanks for the warm welcome!

How everyone morning going? TTC?

I am getting ready for to take on two kids under 4 along with my daughter today/until noon and we are watching a 13 year old girl too. 4 toddler and one teenager what a morning this will be. Catching a moment on the computer while I can.

TTC is going good I have zero signs lol, I do want to pick up a pregnancy test this weekend to use. Because I have surgery sch on the 12 of Janurary so I need to know if I'm pregnant or not, if I am I will have to cancel it, if I'm not then I go forward with it. I so badly want to be pregnant this month too ): I just have this deep yearning for it like last year I'm just terrified of another miscarriage. There was never no reason for the two I had, they told me ohhh its just bad luck is all you already had a healthy pregnancy you will again.

I hate when they say that lol. Anyway gotta go find something for the kids to eat when they get here. My lil bundle is sound asleep still.

 

[Madrid98]

Cazi maybe those cramps were O cramps too. With my mc's I didn't get af until 6 wks later but I was also further along. Or even better, you may be pregnant again!! I hope that's the case for you.

Good luck Duffy!! You sound like you are going to have your hands full today.

Back from work. My dh has prepared dinner and here I am helping my ds with his homework while I write this. He's a bit lazy, so I need to be all the time around or he'll do nothing. I'm hoping he'll improve as he gets older.

 

[cazi77]

Hiya they could be ov cramps we DTD last night so bases covered!!! I have just made home made burgers for tea and they were yummy!!!

 

[Madrid98]

Hiya they could be ov cramps we DTD last night so bases covered!!! I have just made home made burgers for tea and they were yummy!!!

Well done you!!

Burgers sounds yummy!!

I forgot to tell you before. I used to O around cd16 but after the 1st mc it went to cd22-24 and now it's around cd25-27.

 

[cazi77]

They were good!! Im stuffed now tho so much for the new year diet. I have put on loads of weight in the last month partly comfort eating and partly christmas food! I'm scared to step on the scales lol!!!

 

[Madrid98]

I don't blame you!! I had the same issue until last October when I started a diet and managed to lose some weight. I'm sure I'm put it all back on again after the break. I should start changing my eating habits but I always find an excuse not to. Like now I'm having exams in a few weeks and that's my excuse not to stress any further. lol

 

[Duffy]

Burgers sound yummy

Well the group went home all went okay the only toddler that acted up was mine, she was so jealous ): She will always be first in mommy's eyes my lil love bug.

I hate the two week wait the wondering of am I or am I not????? My oh didn't get his check today I was going to have him pick up a test for this weekend. *groan*...... Tomorrow he most likely won't be in good condition heehee.... he getting his wisdom teeth pulled and I have a three hour meeting after.

Cheers lady this is gonna be are year for pregnant bellys and lil monkeys at the end!!!

 

[Madrid98]

Not too long before testing Duffy!!!
Glad they all behave. It's understandable she wanted to get your attention; she's used to have you all for herself.
Good luck to your dh! I hate going to the dentist.

 

[cazi77]

yuck the dentist! im waiting to have my uppers out under ga they did my lowers 5 years ago wish they had taken all of them out then! 10dpo - i would have caved by now!!! good luck xx

 

[Duffy]

Madrid98, Thanks hun she does love her mommy its going to be a huge deal when I finally get pregnant again and deliver a lil bundle. She a little on the spolied side at the moment so I'm hoping it will calm her down too (side bonus)....heehee. They changed his appt to 9am tomorrow that makes are day easier although he gonna be a hurting puppy tomorrow.

Cazi77, omg (laughter) its killing me to test but our check didn't come in yet/and tomorrow I get paid at my (very part time job) so I'll be picking up a package!!! Next week I'm suppose to get a bump removed from my boob (history lol) so its important to know before then.

So whats cooking for dinner ladies? We having chicken and mac and cheese.

 

[cazi77]

Hi Duffy I had bump removed from my boob a few years ago it was a fibroadinoma ?sp

Are you testing tomorrow? Cannot wait to c pics? Are u in the usa? Its 1.30am here and the weather is so awful here its keeping me up!!

 

[Ame]

Hi Ladies,

I just had my fourth MC over the weekend and had to go in for a D&C it turned out I was further along then I thought. We have an appointment to get IVF started because I have been told my tubes are blocked and I can't get pregnant. I don't know if we will do it though because I do get pregnant they just don't stick and no one has looked into that. So I don't really know what our plan will be but hopefully 2012 is better then last year. Anyway I wish you all the best of luck in 2012!!!

 

[cazi77]

Hi Ame so sorry for your losses have you had any tests done to see why you keep m/cing? I too have had 4 m/c's and all my tests have come back normal. Hoping 2012 is a better year xx

 

[Ame]

Sorry for your losses, its nice to know I'm not alone. I thought I had pretty much every kind of test done when we first went to a specialist for IVF but I am not sure. I am not even suppose to be able to get pregnant so it makes me wonder if they know what they are doing. I have a check up next week and I will hopefully know more.

 

[Madrid98]

Welcome Ame!!! So sorry for your losses hun!! It doesn't make sense that your tubes are blocked and you've had 4 mc's. If they're blocked you couldn't get pregnant in the first place.
Good luck with your tests and check up!

 

[Duffy]

Hi Ladies,

I just had my fourth MC over the weekend and had to go in for a D&C it turned out I was further along then I thought. We have an appointment to get IVF started because I have been told my tubes are blocked and I can't get pregnant. I don't know if we will do it though because I do get pregnant they just don't stick and no one has looked into that. So I don't really know what our plan will be but hopefully 2012 is better then last year. Anyway I wish you all the best of luck in 2012!!!

I'm really sorry for your loss I would really recommend (if finically possible) to get a second opinion.

 

[Duffy]

Hi Duffy I had bump removed from my boob a few years ago it was a fibroadinoma ?sp

Are you testing tomorrow? Cannot wait to c pics? Are u in the usa? Its 1.30am here and the weather is so awful here its keeping me up!!

This will be my fourth surgery at removing bumps the very first one was a rare tumor once percent of woman get and it was in the gray stage, where it was cancerous but not active that was in my left boob, then I had to back in as a precaution and have more tissue removed. Then I started having issues with my right boob and last year I had a lump removed/two but they where benign. 8 months after the surgery to new lumps are growing quickly exactly where he removed them at!!! So I have surgery sch for the 12 of January. Also its a huge dealer because every woman in my family has got breast cancer or cervical cancer.

I am dying to test today I finally get to pick my check up so I am going to buy a tester and maybe a dollar tester to test with. I will test tomorrow or this Sunday I'm not sure which day yet. I had to hold off because last time I bought 3 clear blue digitals and kept testing to early and then right around the time so I'm trying to have a little more control over it hahaha.

Oh just left to get his wisdoms pulled out baby girl its eating oranges yogurt and eggs for breakfast. I'm stinking tired too and I have so much cleaning to do.

 

[Madrid98]

Good luck with testing tomorrow Duffy!! Can't wait to see your pics!!

 

[cazi77]

hope ur O/H has survived the dentist! Good luck with testing duffy!