ttc after a misscarriage

[row01]

i had a misscarriage at the end of may i was scanned and told that everything was clear and that we could start trying straight away...we started trying again this month and i ovulated on friday/saturday, for the last few days i have benn getting period type pains and my boobs are tender. i wont know if im pregnant till at least the end of nxt wk. i am going out for a friends birthday,i never really drink as i have not been out in so so long as its hard to when your a mum.. but i was wondering if i was to have a few drinks tomo would i be ok as dont want it to effect anything..
any replies would be gratefull xx

 

[holymoly]

Sorry for your loss
If i was you I'd have a few small drinks. If you have a good meal before hand it will help your liver process the alcohol better and very little blood passes between mother and baby in the early stages. I was told by the midwife that a few drinks on special occasions would do no harm.

On the cycle I got my BFP I did everything "wrong".

It ended in MC too so now I'm paranoid about pretty much everything, even though they say it's NOTHING you did (drank quite a lot as I thought I'd had my AF but hadn't), so trying to be as healthy as possible and not really drinking at all but that's just me.

Relaxing is important too, as MC is hard on anyone and sometimes you need to do what you think is right for you.

 

[ourfate]

sorry about your loss. i agree with holymoly. have a couple, dont go overboard. but have a good time. maybe going out and not stressing about TTC for the night will help you! good luck!!