TTC After an Ectopic Pregnancy

[Kalia101]

Hi

I'm looking for some advice really and other peoples experiences....

In November 2009 I had an ectopic pregnancy where my right tube ruptured and I had to have an emergency operation to have the ectopic and my tube removed.

Me and my OH are now ready to start trying for a baby, I am pettrified I either wont be able to have children aswell as only having one tube I also have PCOS and also scared I will have another ectopic taking my only remaining tube.

This will be our first baby I'm 25 next month my OH is 30 I'm so scared I cant give him a baby but I'm doing my very bezt to be positive.

Will be really greatful for any advice or experiences of your own xxxx

 

[HappyLady]

Hi, I hate to read and run. I really can't offer any advice. But good luck. I am in the same boat as you as far as the ectopic pregnancy. My ectopic was in 2005. Baby dust to you

 

[Lucy529]

Kali's first so sorry for your loss

Second I have only one tube and one ovary since I was 19 about to turn 30 in June I had always though I would never be able to have babies bc of severe pcos married my hubs in 2010 thinking we would never b parents a yr and a half later I was put on metformin and other meds as am diabetic and have high blood pressure a month after starting metformin I starting bleeding and cramping horribly my dr on a whim did a test BFP sadly 2 days later they figured it was ectopic after two weeks of testing and u/s i had to have surgery to remove it and fix some scar tissue

Well a yr and a half later am pregnant again no bleeding or cramping its early still but I hope and pray this baby makes it I began my hcg testing and am waiting on results they said as long as no bleeding or cramping all is ok
So if I can get preggers with the same tube where I had my ectopic am sure you can with your good tube FX for you hun feel free to pm me if you need to

HappyLady so sorry for your loss

 

[Kalia101]

Thankyou for your reply Lucy and really sorry for your loss also but a huge congratulations and good luck on your pregnancy I really hope it all goes well for you

Thankyou for replying I'm trying to think really positive and my partner he knows how I feel and I think he don't want to get to excited to start trying incase we can't and then I will feel iv let him down he hasnt said that but that's the feeling I get I feel I'm taking the excitement away from him but also I think deep down his scared of it happening again. If any of that makes sense there's alot of success stories out there so I'm just going to think positive

Good luck again really hope it all goes well xxxx

 

[Lucy529]

Thank you, I totally understand your fear it kinda of feels like we don't work properly but you hun I have read that the chances of an other ectopic are slim mine are a little higher bc it's the same tube
The good thing is you have a partner who is there with you you just got to talk bout your fears he'll understand and we are all here for you as we'll. Good Luck and much to you