TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[mami2karina]

I should be O'ing Friday so we started so Fx'd that the little make us a ! LOL sorry had to play with the smilies. I'm excited but nervous to be in the game again! Good luck ladies. As of yesterday my beta is back to normal again, uterus too and cervix is closed. So...here's to a in 2011!!!

 

[pinkflamingo]

I did a hpt today which I have been avoiding and it still shows quite a strong positive. Should I expect it to be negative now? (5 weeks after baby stopped growing)

Would the fact that I have not passed anything at all be a cause of still getting a positive? I thought the hormone levels may have dropped by now and it may have been negative (which is why I have been avoiding doing one!)

I have not been to the drs to have bloods done so do not know what my levels are. I am going to the hospital this friday for a scan, so guess I can discuss this with them then.

Hope you all have a good day ladies. I'm feeling a bit BLEURGHHHH already and it's only half 8!!!

xx

 

[BellasMummy]

Hi Pinkflamingo

I had mc on 20th and also ERPC done that day, I then bled for about 2 weeks, I only tested negative 2 days ago.

I don't think you will test negative until you have actually mc.

Hope this helps xx

 

[pinkflamingo]

Thanks hun. It's what I thought too, but I was just surprised to see the hpt showing such a strong positive after all these weeks.

Roll on friday really and then I can start getting an idea of what is going on and next steps to take etc

x

 

[pip7890]

Hi Pinkflamingo

As BellasMummy says, you won't usually test negative until all the pregnancy tissue has been expelled. I didn't have the guys to test myself as I didn't want to see a when I knew I wasn't. I asked the hospital to do it for me after my scan and got a I hope it all goes well for you on Friday.

Pip x

 

[pinkflamingo]

Thanks Pip. I was more dreading to see a BFN today after the excitement of getting my BFP after trying for 14 months. I guess I will soon be wishing for a BFN so that we can get started on ttc again! It's never straightforward is it?!!

xx

 

[pip7890]

Morning ladies - I won't say good 'cos it isn't

Moan alert!

I'm so tired, feel crap and really hate my body at the moment. I feel like I'm operating in slow gear. I'm normally a real get up and go person, but it's got up and gone! I'm sick of this cough, sick of feeling weak and pathetic, sick of this stupid spotting and sanitary towels, sick of myself, sick, sick, sick!!!!

I'm finding it really hard to get to sleep and then stay asleep. I'm having really vivid dreams about this miscarriage, previous miscarriage and work.

My head aches with all the coughing, the antibiotics taste vile and I'm now waiting for all the side effects to kick in. I've got a pre-holiday to do list as long as my arm and no energy to do bugger all.

Aaaaarrrrrgggggghhhhh

Sorry for moan.

Pip x

 

[blueeyedgirl1]

Hi all, I had a MMC in December and am currently waiting for my first AF before we can TTC again. It's been three weeks since my surgery and I'm still a bit tender so we made the decision not to TTC until AF has arrived again (which is what hospital advised anyway). Very impatient for my cycle to sort itself out.

We'd been TTC for three cycles (although started too late in first cycle, so in reality only two cycles I guess) and it was our first pregnancy. I'm really hoping 2011 will bring us a healthy baby.

 

[Deethehippy]

Morning ladies - I won't say good 'cos it isn't

Moan alert!

I'm so tired, feel crap and really hate my body at the moment. I feel like I'm operating in slow gear. I'm normally a real get up and go person, but it's got up and gone! I'm sick of this cough, sick of feeling weak and pathetic, sick of this stupid spotting and sanitary towels, sick of myself, sick, sick, sick!!!!

I'm finding it really hard to get to sleep and then stay asleep. I'm having really vivid dreams about this miscarriage, previous miscarriage and work.

My head aches with all the coughing, the antibiotics taste vile and I'm now waiting for all the side effects to kick in. I've got a pre-holiday to do list as long as my arm and no energy to do bugger all.

Aaaaarrrrrgggggghhhhh

Sorry for moan.

Pip x

Awww Pip, i'm sorry you feel cak, give yourself some time though, your body has been through a lot and the flu/cold as well!
I woke up this morning feeling sick I hate how the hormones still mess with me even when i know its for no good reason, oh well, scan tomorrow.
Hope you feel a lot better and bouncier soon

 

[pip7890]

Hi all, I had a MMC in December and am currently waiting for my first AF before we can TTC again. It's been three weeks since my surgery and I'm still a bit tender so we made the decision not to TTC until AF has arrived again (which is what hospital advised anyway). Very impatient for my cycle to sort itself out.

We'd been TTC for three cycles (although started too late in first cycle, so in reality only two cycles I guess) and it was our first pregnancy. I'm really hoping 2011 will bring us a healthy baby.

Hello BlueEyedGirl

Welcome. I'm sorry about your loss. Fingers crossed that 2011 brings you a sticky bean.

There's lots of impatient ones here too, so you're in good company.


Pip x

 

[pip7890]

Thanks Dee. Just feeling a little sorry for myself. At least it's taking my mind off turning 40!

Right, I'm going to set myself a couple of jobs and when I get them done I'll pop back here.

TTFN

Pip x

 

[Angelface]

Hi, im Paula, i started bleeding 27/11 but mmc on the 4th dec! i already have a little girl who will be 2 in Feb! my cousin found out she was pregnant the same wee i found out, and only last week she was given her due date as the 1st july. which would have been my due date! OH and i are trying to get straight back on the pregnancy wagon asap.. x

 

[poppy666]

Morning everyone

Found out last night via facebook message that my sister is 7wks pregnant i was totally gutted and didnt know how to reply, i know i should be happy for her but cant be at the moment. We would of only been 4 weeks apart in due dates and whats more ironic i bought her the OPK sticks and helped her DTD on the right days

Feel like im living in a nightmare and want to wake up. Sorry ladies guess i sound aweful towards my sister, but dunno how else to feel xx

 

[HayleyJJ]

Hi, im Paula, i started bleeding 27/11 but mmc on the 4th dec! i already have a little girl who will be 2 in Feb! my cousin found out she was pregnant the same wee i found out, and only last week she was given her due date as the 1st july. which would have been my due date! OH and i are trying to get straight back on the pregnancy wagon asap.. x

Welcome hun sorry for your loss were all very friendly here xxx

 

[HayleyJJ]

Morning everyone

Found out last night via facebook message that my sister is 7wks pregnant i was totally gutted and didnt know how to reply, i know i should be happy for her but cant be at the moment. We would of only been 4 weeks apart in due dates and whats more ironic i bought her the OPK sticks and helped her DTD on the right days

Feel like im living in a nightmare and want to wake up. Sorry ladies guess i sound aweful towards my sister, but dunno how else to feel xx

oh babes i would be exactly the same im sorry ur feeling like that but its only natural call her and explain to her hun im sure she will understand babes xx

 

[poppy666]

Thanks Hayley, i did reply as nice as i could, but not ready to visit her yet, i cant deal with that emotionally yet I need to heal first.. it would of been so nice being bump buddies togethor but now i feel totally robbed.

I still keep saying to myself ' Id be 10 weeks now' and probably do this all the way to my due date

Arghhhhhhhhhhhhh sorry im bringing the thread down. Hope everyone's ok

 

[BellasMummy]

Ah Poppy I know how you feel!

I have a couple of friends that are pregnant and it's not that I am jealous I just feel really sad coz we would have been in it together!

Every time I even hear that a celeb is pregnant it upsets me! Which is so silly! But it just reminds me of what I have lost!

Our time will come!!

 

[Deethehippy]

I'm so worried that i have now missed the boat so to speak
I am 37 in feb and my OH is 45, statistically wise we are pretty doomed as far as genetic problems, miscarriages and not getting pregnant again ever goes.

Our clocks are not only ticking, maybe they have stopped....

 

[poppy666]

Dee i was 39 when i got pregnant with my 9mth LO.. had him at 40 and got pregnant again but obviously lost it at 9wks in December. im going to take baby asprin if im lucky this time just incase xx

Oh plus my sister is 37 and she 7wks

 

[Deethehippy]

Dee i was 39 when i got pregnant with my 9mth LO.. had him at 40 and got pregnant again but obviously lost it at 9wks in December. im going to take baby asprin if im lucky this time just incase xx

Oh plus my sister is 37 and she 7wks

But how old is your partner if you dont mind me asking?...