TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[pip7890]

I'm not here - really (was sidetracked by Miscarriage Support) but did I mention it will be served with roast beef and homemade beef gravy? Thank the lord for Jamie Oliver's Ministry of Food. I can now cook!!!!

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

Haha Pip! DEFO save me some sounds Delicious!! x

 

[poppy666]

I cant make homemade gravy starving now xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Poppy!! me neither hun - really need to start learning so i can cook when me and OH move out Anyone know any good (easy) Cook Books let me know xx
Gota nip out to see how the builders are doing and see if they sorted out my bathroom tiling - silly boys didnt do it right because they couldnt be arsed to put abit of extra work it to get the mosaique tiles mixed with the white - pffft lol !
Speak soon lovely ladies!!
xx

 

[tweedy]

hi ladies, just wondering if i'm allowed to join you, had my 3rd loss on 13th Nov (so not technically at xmas) but 1st AF arrived Christmas day, so hoping for a BFP in early 2011.

i've just turned 30, i had a mmc on 14th Feb 2007 at 12 weeks, after 12 months of trying, then an ectopic in May 2007 and thankfully my lovely daughter was born June 2008, and after a wee accident in september i now have another angel after mmc at 8 weeks in Nov.

feeling very positive about the new year and what it will bring, plus hubbie is excited about trying, for a change, cause i've promised he can get a new car when we get to 12 weeks with baby no 2. so hoping plenty of baby and new car dust to come our way!

nice to hear all your stories, and here's to a great 2011 xx

 

[BellasMummy]

Hi Tweedy!

Welcome to the group!
Sorry for your loss
Sending you lots of baby dust xx

 

[poppy666]

Welcome Tweedy so sorry for your losses, i only joined yesterday, but the ladies are lovely... roll on 2011 BFPs

 

[Deethehippy]

We have to stay positive and you ladies are all great support
We WILL get our 2011 BFP and maybe some of us may even get twins!!

 

[BellasMummy]

Hi ladies,

So I stopped bleeding about 3 days ago and have been doing HPT's and OPK'S.
The HPTT's have been negative although as time goes by a very very very faint line seems to be there.
My friend gave me a box of her digital OPK's and they have said negative the last 2 days. Does anyone kow if the lines actually mean anything on the bit you pull out? There is the control line and then a fainter line??

Thanks

 

[laura_2010]

Hi on my opk theres a controll line thats always dark and a line that may come up if there ovualtion decteted... depending on how far ovulation is the line gets as dark or darker as the control line... but i used an opk to find out i was preg wen i was.... and it was as dark as the control line so make sure the opk are neg then you can start ttc againe!

 

[HayleyJJ]

hello ladies woow youve all been busy i just had an interview went greattttttttttttt!!!

so whats new? how do i do multiple replys pip??

im still cramping today but no more ewcm mind youi never have much

 

[HayleyJJ]

can i just give a word of warning asprin should only be taken after ov cause it thins the blood and if the lining of the uterus is too thin the egg wont implant reason saying my gyne put me on it and i was to take it after ov and i also have a blood clotting prob xx

ty for the info babes xx

Aww thanks for the hug Pip think if it been a few months down the line id of handled it a lot better than what im doing now and do feel terrible how im feeling towards her, but need to think of my emotionally health before i go visit my sister and im sure she'll understand.

back.

Also it does sound like your about to ovulate too, im not even sure why the hell i DTD last night i was so upset and adament i wasnt going to but nevermind in a way im glad because ive not done anything with my OH for 10wks in fear it would effect the pregnancy x

big hugs darling

Awww thanks Pip That made me feel better.
Sometimes i feel selfish wanting so bad when i already have 2 beautiful children but i am with a new partner now and we just wanted 1 child together you know.....i guess if it's meant to be it will be though

I'm signing off now ladies. Sitting in front of the laptop isn't helping the headache.

I'm going to be a brave little soldier and take a walk alone to the doctors to pick up my fit note, call in at the swimming baths to pay for DS's swimming lessons and maybe have a wander past the shops with sparkly things in the window. Think little matchgirl - I'm the one with the nose pressed against the window.

If I'm not back online tonight I shall catch up with you all tomorrow. I feel a Yorkshire Pudding making session coming on!

Take care.

Pip x

ty for al your hard work on here today partner get well sooon big kisses xxxxxx

hi ladies, just wondering if i'm allowed to join you, had my 3rd loss on 13th Nov (so not technically at xmas) but 1st AF arrived Christmas day, so hoping for a BFP in early 2011.

i've just turned 30, i had a mmc on 14th Feb 2007 at 12 weeks, after 12 months of trying, then an ectopic in May 2007 and thankfully my lovely daughter was born June 2008, and after a wee accident in september i now have another angel after mmc at 8 weeks in Nov.

feeling very positive about the new year and what it will bring, plus hubbie is excited about trying, for a change, cause i've promised he can get a new car when we get to 12 weeks with baby no 2. so hoping plenty of baby and new car dust to come our way!

nice to hear all your stories, and here's to a great 2011 xx

welcome darlig lovely to have you hear xxx

Hi ladies,

So I stopped bleeding about 3 days ago and have been doing HPT's and OPK'S.
The HPTT's have been negative although as time goes by a very very very faint line seems to be there.
My friend gave me a box of her digital OPK's and they have said negative the last 2 days. Does anyone kow if the lines actually mean anything on the bit you pull out? There is the control line and then a fainter line??

Thanks

its good that u got neg opks as they pick up pregnancy as well babes xx

not to sure about the pull out bit babe sorry xxxx

 

[lilrojo]

Hello everyone, hope its okay to join... I currently had my first loss, second pregnancy in Nov. 2010... here hoping 2011 will be our year!!!

 

[HayleyJJ]

welcome hun sorry for your looses and jump aboard

 

[lilrojo]

Thanks HayleyJJ, its so nice to find a forum that is current and to find other women who are going through the same thing as me right now... I only know of one other person, who is my friend, that has suffered a loss.. She has helped greatly but her journey is over with TTC, happy to find others who are in the same boat.. Not to mention a family member or mine just announced her pregnancy... makes it a bit harder.. but fingers crossed this month will be it... do you know, did your cycles and ovulation go back to normal after your losses... just have no idea what to expect.. Thanks again

 

[pickleton]

Hello everyone!

I would love to join if that's ok?

I'm 28 and I've had 2 losses at the back end of last year and am really hoping for a sticky bean soon.

I saw a specialist today cos I have PCOS and she said it could be plain old bad luck so that's given me some hope.

thanks xx

 

[HayleyJJ]

Thanks HayleyJJ, its so nice to find a forum that is current and to find other women who are going through the same thing as me right now... I only know of one other person, who is my friend, that has suffered a loss.. She has helped greatly but her journey is over with TTC, happy to find others who are in the same boat.. Not to mention a family member or mine just announced her pregnancy... makes it a bit harder.. but fingers crossed this month will be it... do you know, did your cycles and ovulation go back to normal after your losses... just have no idea what to expect.. Thanks again

i lovely when u can chat to people in the same position like we all are!

pregnancy with friends is hard but at the same time im happy for them as i would be if i feel again

very frustrating tho isnt it xx

 

[HayleyJJ]

Hello everyone!

I would love to join if that's ok?

I'm 28 and I've had 2 losses at the back end of last year and am really hoping for a sticky bean soon.

I saw a specialist today cos I have PCOS and she said it could be plain old bad luck so that's given me some hope.

thanks xx

welcome pickleton so sorry for your losses and welcome to our group hope you get lots of answers and any question you have please ask away xx

 

[pip7890]

Haha Pip! DEFO save me some sounds Delicious!! x

Not a chance Em! Two hungry males in this household, I'm lucky if there's any left for me!

I cant make homemade gravy starving now xx

Anyone can make homemade gravy if you follow Jamie Oliver's recipe. Honest Poppy! It's really easy.

Poppy!! me neither hun - really need to start learning so i can cook when me and OH move out Anyone know any good (easy) Cook Books let me know

I've never been a confident cook either Em, but my OH got me Jamie Oliver's Ministry of Food book a couple of years back and it has been a relevation. Definitely worth a look. I can't comment on his other cook books but this one is straight forward and you end up with easy to make, tasty, filling food. Highly recommended. https://www.jamieoliver.com/jamies-ministry-of-food/

Another good source of recipes, particularly if you're looking for healthy, low calorie meals is e-diets which you can get through Tesco and other similar retailers. Warning though, remember you strictly shouldn't diet whilst pregnant unless you have your doctor's permission.

hi ladies, just wondering if i'm allowed to join you, had my 3rd loss on 13th Nov (so not technically at xmas) but 1st AF arrived Christmas day, so hoping for a BFP in early 2011.

i've just turned 30, i had a mmc on 14th Feb 2007 at 12 weeks, after 12 months of trying, then an ectopic in May 2007 and thankfully my lovely daughter was born June 2008, and after a wee accident in september i now have another angel after mmc at 8 weeks in Nov.

feeling very positive about the new year and what it will bring, plus hubbie is excited about trying, for a change, cause i've promised he can get a new car when we get to 12 weeks with baby no 2. so hoping plenty of baby and new car dust to come our way!

nice to hear all your stories, and here's to a great 2011 xx

Hi Tweedy

Sorry to hear about your losses. Welcome to our group. It really is a friendly bunch of ladies. When Hayley and I set it up we were concerned that no-one would be interested. Just look at us now!

Fingers crossed that 2011 is a good year for all of us

hello ladies woow youve all been busy i just had an interview went greattttttttttttt!!!

so whats new? how do i do multiple replys pip??

im still cramping today but no more ewcm mind youi never have much

Howdy partner! What interview? Do tell.

If you select the + button next to the quote button you can do multiple replies.

Hello everyone, hope its okay to join... I currently had my first loss, second pregnancy in Nov. 2010... here hoping 2011 will be our year!!!

Hi lilrojo. Of course it is okay to join. Welcome. Sorry about your loss. 2011 is definitely going to be our year!

Thanks HayleyJJ, its so nice to find a forum that is current and to find other women who are going through the same thing as me right now... I only know of one other person, who is my friend, that has suffered a loss.. She has helped greatly but her journey is over with TTC, happy to find others who are in the same boat.. Not to mention a family member or mine just announced her pregnancy... makes it a bit harder.. but fingers crossed this month will be it... do you know, did your cycles and ovulation go back to normal after your losses... just have no idea what to expect.. Thanks again

This is a great forum lilrojo. The ladies on here have been fantastic and many of them have joined this group from Miscarriage Support. There are a few ladies who have close friends or family members who have just announced their pregnancies. It might be worth a quick read through some of the posts on here about it as there has been some very good advice given.

As to cycles and ovulation, it's too early for me to comment but I get the impression that they don't necessarily return to what they were before. However, there are much wiser women on the subject in this group so no doubt they'll share their experiences with you shortly.

Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

yeyy i noticed someone told u in our group and did it yeyyyyyyyyyyyy

job interview need a new start but not told my work yet

there not supportive or anything