TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[emilyrose.x]

probs be about a dildo shop after tonight haha!!

 

[poppy666]

and on that note i better go get some sleep lol be a laugh tonight Emily sleep well and advice your OH to sleep in spare room or he's in danger tonight of being pounced on

Night ladies

 

[poppy666]

probs be about a dildo shop after tonight haha!!

Or me pregnant with puppies lmfao eww noooooooooooo ive lost the plot x

 

[lilrojo]

I once tried Dildo on OH, tell ya he's never bucked so hard or moved so quick out of bed said " now you know what it feels like if you dont give me enough foreplay beforehand and Rodger Ramjet it up there

Needless to say he wont let me use it on him anymore

LMAO!! my OH got a really toned bottom so when iv tried to edge something in he tenses up and i swear ya need a crow bar to get inbetween his cheeks then! il just have to try catch him off guard hehe xx

Ahhhh i dont have that problem he's pretty slack that end bet he's had my Dildo on the sly probably why he said he's hidden it out my way pmsl

haha... you ladies are too much...

 

[emilyrose.x]

and on that note i better go get some sleep lol be a laugh tonight Emily sleep well and advice your OH to sleep in spare room or he's in danger tonight of being pounced on

Night ladies

Hahaa il tell him to sleep in a lock and chain around his boxers (for his own good) Night night sweety, yea been a right good laugh xx

probs be about a dildo shop after tonight haha!!

Or me pregnant with puppies lmfao eww noooooooooooo ive lost the plot x

LMFAO Poppy!! Hahaha!! or worse.. you OH coming in room with dildo stuck in bottom.. Now you've got me thinking Poppy! haha xx

 

[emilyrose.x]

haha... you ladies are too much...

Haha! think i need to stop having so much caffine before bed lol

 

[lilrojo]

haha... you ladies are too much...

Haha! think i need to stop having so much caffine before bed lol

but that would ruin all the fun!!!
Keep us posted on your scan, let us know how it goes!!

 

[emilyrose.x]

haha yes, yes it would lilrojo me and OH just had abit of fun but no damnitt hehee I will let you know when iv taken a test and let you know the result my sweet nighty nights time for me sugar Poppy got to update us on her dream tomorrow so im looking forward to that haha! night babes xx

 

[tweedy]

My goodness, i don't know where you ladies get the energy from, i'm tired just reading your posts, but at least i had a wee giggle 1st thing at the office!

i am still feeling positive today, maybe cause it's getting closer to the weekend and when i know i will ov, i have a long cycle so it's usually CD 18/19 for me. i have promised hubbie that i will not buy tests till we have been trying for 3 months, but i may have to nip to asda today, would make me feel better knowing i def ov or not.

as for ovulation after miscarriage, i just wanted to say that i got pregnant straight away after my 1st miscarriage in 2007, i got my BFP exactly 6 weeks after my ERPC, so i imagine i ovulated after 3/4 weeks, everyone is different.

has anyone had an ectopic before? i have it in my head that i should only try every other month as i know one of my tubes is damaged and don't want to risk another ectopic, but how would you ever know which is which?

as for people becoming pregnant, it always seems to be loads of people just after you have a loss, after my 1st miscarriage and immediate ectopic, my best mate told me she was pregnant, she felt terrible and it was hard for me to see her, but she was really supportive and patient with me and after a few weeks i missed her, so put aside my hurt and went round, she was in tears by the time i arrived and i felt so bad, turned out she had been bleeding on a off and needed my support, but i wasn't there for her, we went straight up to the epu and they did a scan, her baby was 11 weeks with a strong heartbeat and although it was hard, i am glad i was able to be there for her. you will find the strength to be arround pregnant people and i was humbled by her feelings of grief for my baby too.

there is about 6 months between our girls, and if i hadn't of been there for her, i am sure they would not be so close.

take your time and just let people know you are happy for them, but you are grieving and they should understand. ( and it's ok to get angry too, it's all part of the process)

have a great thursday girls x

 

[pinkflamingo]

Morning ladies!
Well after moaning for the last few days about wanting my natural miscarriage to happen (been waiting 5 weeks), there was blood on the tissue when I just went to the bathroom. Now I don't want it to happen! Hubbie left for work earlier, and is asking me if I want him to come home. I do, but I know that it's possible that nothing will actually happen today, and he is off tomorrow anyway as we have a scan booked at the hospital.

Guess this is the beginning of it all then. I feel like a big baby myself and could do with a great big hug! Guess my teddy bear will have to do for the time being!

Another fun day on the cards then.

xx

 

[poppy666]

Awww pinkflamingo ((( huge hug)))) i know how it feels to be alone, scared and in need of a hug, i was on my own when the bleeding just started and was on here in a panic asking how long it will be.... but luckily i just spotted for a few days then my OH was home when i properly miscarried. He couldnt do much but i was more calm knowing he was in the room with me

If you need us we'll be online just shout

 

[poppy666]

haha yes, yes it would lilrojo me and OH just had abit of fun but no damnitt hehee I will let you know when iv taken a test and let you know the result my sweet nighty nights time for me sugar Poppy got to update us on her dream tomorrow so im looking forward to that haha! night babes xx

LOL Actually i had a bad dream that woke me up... no dildo's or pregnant with puppies

I dreamt the goverment had planned a mass depopulation of the world and started a deadly disease to wipe out 90% of the population and i was on a ship with my family trying to escape it So there you go Emily i shit myself and woke up sweating lol x

 

[tootsiegb]

Hi Girls,

Could i joing this group please. I started ttc in October 2009. I had a mmc in August at 20 weeks, and miscarried on the 18th December at between 6-8 weeks.
I am waiting one cycle & will then be trying again as i feel ready to start again quite soon. It was hard over xmas as my due date with the first baby was 2nd jan.
Hope all you girls are doing ok. I have had a good laugh at the conversations going on last nite!!!
Love to you all Tootsie xx

 

[poppy666]

Morning Tootsie your more than welcome to join and im so sorry for your losses, yes i cant even imagine how hard it was for your through christmas 20wks must of been so devastating

 

[tootsiegb]

Thanks Poppy,

It was so hard to go to the 20 week scan & for them to tell me there wasnt a heartbeat. So devastating. I am slowly coming to terms with it though, and they didnt find any reason for it. So fingers crossed 3rd time lucky.
I am sorry for your loss too. Its hard no matter how far along you are.

Take care x

 

[poppy666]

I think thats the hardest part to come to terms with when there is no explaination, but you sound very positive and will be rooting for you sweetie.. fx 2011 you will have a little in your arms by Christmas

Im hoping my af arrives as it should on the 19th then we can start trying again properly, im going to buy another test this evening and see if its gone to negative. Do you have a regular cycle? x

 

[puppycat]

Just choked on my drink reading that... your lucky my OH has hidden my Dildo so i want him more

!!! I asked him if i could use a dildo on him? he told me to f*ck off think its cos' he knows id be leathal being equiped with kn*b Defo Ebaying "strap on" incase he comes around to the idea , he knows id be awesome!!

Lol, I mentioned strap on to DH but he's just as against the idea as your DH, shame really lol.

Hi Ladies!

Sorry I've been AWOL for a couple of days, yesterday was a busy day with the hospital, taking decs down and then a meeting regarding our local MLU closure in the evening.

So blood results - HPT is now <1 which is ACE and means we're all clear to TTC once I stop bleeding of course, and I need to Ov at some point...

Think I have figured that I Ov'd very late in my cycle in November and that is what caused the m/c, odd because I have always bee text book 28 day cycle and O'd right in the middle, lucky yes since some ladies are all over the place but maybe I won't be so lucky from now on

Anyway I hope you're all well, has been an epic task reading all your posts but I thought I'd skim straight over the pregnant with puppies and dog humping sessions you appear to have had....

 

[tootsiegb]

Fingers crossed for your af poppy.
I have a pretty regular cycle of 35 days since coming off the pill. I tend to ov around day 24 & have an 11 day luteal phase. Not that i am a freak keep temping or anything!!!!!!!! LOL.
Hubby has taken thermometer off me. I am trying not to get so focused into it, as people who really want a baby tend to get bad luck & people who arent fussed either way seem to fly through getting pregnant etc.
How far were you when you miscarried poppy? x

 

[poppy666]

Puppycat i ov'd late last cycle when i got my BFP.. im usually cd14 of a 28 day cycle, but was charting last time and ov'd cd18 do you think that can cause a few MC?

 

[poppy666]

Fingers crossed for your af poppy.
I have a pretty regular cycle of 35 days since coming off the pill. I tend to ov around day 24 & have an 11 day luteal phase. Not that i am a freak keep temping or anything!!!!!!!! LOL.
Hubby has taken thermometer off me. I am trying not to get so focused into it, as people who really want a baby tend to get bad luck & people who arent fussed either way seem to fly through getting pregnant etc.
How far were you when you miscarried poppy? x

Yes im going to try relax once af arrives and go with the flow, but im tempted to chart

I was 9wks, but knew at 6wk scan, but they kept bringing me in for weekly scans just to double check and i found that traumatic knowing i was carrying a dead baby around n could miscarry at any minute before they booked me in for erpc.. i was on edge everyday x