TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[tootsiegb]

Oh you poor thing. I started to miscarry and then had a scan to confirm that it was complete. I think i was 6 weeks too. It is a horrible feeling knowing that you are carrying a dead baby & there is nothing you can do. I dont think i could have done it for that long. It was only a few days with my first before they induced me, and that was bad enough.

I am tempted to chart too, just to give me some reassurance that i am ovulating, what are we like! xx

 

[poppy666]

Well we'll chart togethor lol i too want to know if i ovulate after MC... plus i will have to use OPKs to get the timing right noticed i squeezed something else in, i'll have a list by end of today x

 

[emilyrose.x]

My goodness, i don't know where you ladies get the energy from, i'm tired just reading your posts, but at least i had a wee giggle 1st thing at the office!

i am still feeling positive today, maybe cause it's getting closer to the weekend and when i know i will ov, i have a long cycle so it's usually CD 18/19 for me. i have promised hubbie that i will not buy tests till we have been trying for 3 months, but i may have to nip to asda today, would make me feel better knowing i def ov or not.

as for ovulation after miscarriage, i just wanted to say that i got pregnant straight away after my 1st miscarriage in 2007, i got my BFP exactly 6 weeks after my ERPC, so i imagine i ovulated after 3/4 weeks, everyone is different.

has anyone had an ectopic before? i have it in my head that i should only try every other month as i know one of my tubes is damaged and don't want to risk another ectopic, but how would you ever know which is which?

as for people becoming pregnant, it always seems to be loads of people just after you have a loss, after my 1st miscarriage and immediate ectopic, my best mate told me she was pregnant, she felt terrible and it was hard for me to see her, but she was really supportive and patient with me and after a few weeks i missed her, so put aside my hurt and went round, she was in tears by the time i arrived and i felt so bad, turned out she had been bleeding on a off and needed my support, but i wasn't there for her, we went straight up to the epu and they did a scan, her baby was 11 weeks with a strong heartbeat and although it was hard, i am glad i was able to be there for her. you will find the strength to be arround pregnant people and i was humbled by her feelings of grief for my baby too.

there is about 6 months between our girls, and if i hadn't of been there for her, i am sure they would not be so close.

take your time and just let people know you are happy for them, but you are grieving and they should understand. ( and it's ok to get angry too, it's all part of the process)

have a great thursday girls x

Hey hun! Sorry for your loss
haha i had too much caffine before bed.. oops haha was a laugh though Great words of advise hun, im struggling with my OH's cousins girlfriend being pregnant - happy for her but so upsetting because we would have gone through pregnancy together xx

Morning ladies!
Well after moaning for the last few days about wanting my natural miscarriage to happen (been waiting 5 weeks), there was blood on the tissue when I just went to the bathroom. Now I don't want it to happen! Hubbie left for work earlier, and is asking me if I want him to come home. I do, but I know that it's possible that nothing will actually happen today, and he is off tomorrow anyway as we have a scan booked at the hospital.

Guess this is the beginning of it all then. I feel like a big baby myself and could do with a great big hug! Guess my teddy bear will have to do for the time being!

Another fun day on the cards then.

xx

Arw' babes im so sorry your going through this! I really hope that you dont bleed for long and that you dont get alot of pain.. Keep us updated about what the hospital say.xxx

haha yes, yes it would lilrojo me and OH just had abit of fun but no damnitt hehee I will let you know when iv taken a test and let you know the result my sweet nighty nights time for me sugar Poppy got to update us on her dream tomorrow so im looking forward to that haha! night babes xx

LOL Actually i had a bad dream that woke me up... no dildo's or pregnant with puppies

I dreamt the goverment had planned a mass depopulation of the world and started a deadly disease to wipe out 90% of the population and i was on a ship with my family trying to escape it So there you go Emily i shit myself and woke up sweating lol x

LMFAO better than having dream about puppie doodles aye babe .. i couldnt sleep last night damnitt xxx

Hi Girls,

Could i joing this group please. I started ttc in October 2009. I had a mmc in August at 20 weeks, and miscarried on the 18th December at between 6-8 weeks.
I am waiting one cycle & will then be trying again as i feel ready to start again quite soon. It was hard over xmas as my due date with the first baby was 2nd jan.
Hope all you girls are doing ok. I have had a good laugh at the conversations going on last nite!!!
Love to you all Tootsie xx

Hey sweety!
Im sorry about your loss we are all here for you Haha, we was all abit horney by sounds of it pahaha!

Puppycat
Hi Ladies!

Sorry I've been AWOL for a couple of days, yesterday was a busy day with the hospital, taking decs down and then a meeting regarding our local MLU closure in the evening.

So blood results - HPT is now <1 which is ACE and means we're all clear to TTC once I stop bleeding of course, and I need to Ov at some point...

Think I have figured that I Ov'd very late in my cycle in November and that is what caused the m/c, odd because I have always bee text book 28 day cycle and O'd right in the middle, lucky yes since some ladies are all over the place but maybe I won't be so lucky from now on

Anyway I hope you're all well, has been an epic task reading all your posts but I thought I'd skim straight over the pregnant with puppies and dog humping sessions you appear to have had....
Haha its a rate shame int it Yaaay happy for you babes!! ..
Il have my fingers crossed for you hun
Lmao !! hahaa!! xxx

Hope everyone is okay today

xxxx

 

[poppy666]

Well id be more happy if i could get on my damn farm on facebook my dog's gonna be dead with lack of food at this rate

Sorry you didnt get much sleep sweetie, no caffine for you tonight x

 

[puppycat]

Puppycat i ov'd late last cycle when i got my BFP.. im usually cd14 of a 28 day cycle, but was charting last time and ov'd cd18 do you think that can cause a few MC?

Well apparently the longer your body takes to Ov (than is normal for you) the poorer the quality of the egg.

I can only think of that as a reason because I didn't Ov until about CD27 last time (bizarre!!) and still started AF on CD28 and assumed it was a normal period until I got BFP a few days after AF left

 

[emilyrose.x]

Well id be more happy if i could get on my damn farm on facebook my dog's gonna be dead with lack of food at this rate

Sorry you didnt get much sleep sweetie, no caffine for you tonight x

Hahaa Farmville? "mooo!" << iv tried to re-enact it for you bbes xx

 

[Sunshine31]

Hi ladies
Can I join please? I MMC-ed at 9.5 weeks just before Christmas - had ERPC on 29th and was fine for a few days until I started to bleed like crazy a few days ago. Thankfully that's cleared up now and I've got antibiotics. Just want to get back to TTC and hopefully get a BFP soon!
It took us a good few months last time and I really hope it's quicker this time round. I ovulated on day 28 the month I got my BFP and am wondering if that caused the MC. Who knows. Looking forwards to lots of BFPs on this thread!
xxx

 

[emilyrose.x]

Hi ladies
Can I join please? I MMC-ed at 9.5 weeks just before Christmas - had ERPC on 29th and was fine for a few days until I started to bleed like crazy a few days ago. Thankfully that's cleared up now and I've got antibiotics. Just want to get back to TTC and hopefully get a BFP soon!
It took us a good few months last time and I really hope it's quicker this time round. I ovulated on day 28 the month I got my BFP and am wondering if that caused the MC. Who knows. Looking forwards to lots of BFPs on this thread!
xxx

Hey hun! sorry for your los im glad to hear that your bleedings stopped now, you are defo in the right place ladies who started this group are brill - we are all possitive about getting our BFP's this year nobody know the reason why a MC happens hun, at one point i thought it was because i drank Raspberry tea the hospital assured me it wasn't.. fingers crossed for our BFP's this year..
baby dust to us all xxx

 

[poppy666]

Well id be more happy if i could get on my damn farm on facebook my dog's gonna be dead with lack of food at this rate

Sorry you didnt get much sleep sweetie, no caffine for you tonight x

Hahaa Farmville? "mooo!" << iv tried to re-enact it for you bbes xx

Wooohoooooooooo Mooooooooooooooo ovaaaaaaaaaaa farmville there's a new cow in town Emily @>>>>>>>>>> [ Yes Farmville keeps me sane

 

[puppycat]

Actully scrap what I said, I have just googled late Ov and it apparently doesn't make a difference, it's early Ov they worry about.

I was quoting ladies on here (BnB not this group) but it seems they have they're facts jumbled a little.

clicky

 

[puppycat]

Well id be more happy if i could get on my damn farm on facebook my dog's gonna be dead with lack of food at this rate

Sorry you didnt get much sleep sweetie, no caffine for you tonight x

Hahaa Farmville? "mooo!" << iv tried to re-enact it for you bbes xx

Wooohoooooooooo Mooooooooooooooo ovaaaaaaaaaaa farmville there's a new cow in town Emily @>>>>>>>>>> [ Yes Farmville keeps me sane

My weakness is CityVille

 

[poppy666]

Welcome Sunshine sorry for your loss sweetie

 

[poppy666]

Actully scrap what I said, I have just googled late Ov and it apparently doesn't make a difference, it's early Ov they worry about.

I was quoting ladies on here (BnB not this group) but it seems they have they're facts jumbled a little.

clicky

Phew!!! Good to know

Im deffo trying the Soy again just wish af would come early

@ Cityville never played it i can only just about manage FV

 

[puppycat]

I as reading about soy the other day and am curious.

I will see what happens this cycle and decide next month if I need any help like that. If I Ov late again I will definitely look for something to stabilise things again. Seems very odd that all of a sudden things changed x

 

[puppycat]

OK seriously I need to stop googling now!

The more I read the more guilty I feel about wasting all these eggs each cycle. I'm letting the good ones go

OK, grab a hold of yourself woman!!

 

[emilyrose.x]

Well id be more happy if i could get on my damn farm on facebook my dog's gonna be dead with lack of food at this rate

Sorry you didnt get much sleep sweetie, no caffine for you tonight x

Hahaa Farmville? "mooo!" << iv tried to re-enact it for you bbes xx

Wooohoooooooooo Mooooooooooooooo ovaaaaaaaaaaa farmville there's a new cow in town Emily @>>>>>>>>>> [ Yes Farmville keeps me sane

Set me sen up for that fcka dint a haha Mooooooooo!! suck my udder! lmaoo xx

My weakness is CityVille

Haha i never been on that one - im guessin it like buildings and shizzle instead of trees and crops ? xx

Just been laid topless on comp and OH been trying to "man-handle me" save it for later sunshine

xx

 

[poppy666]

@ puppycat get locked up for that


afm im well confused.com ive just been bathroom to test on OPK ( gone back to negative), but when i wiped ive got bright red blood so NOW i dont know if af has arrived 2wks after MC??

Anyone know if you can get af this early? Arghhhhhhhhhhhh i had a positve OPK Monday now this

 

[Deethehippy]

@ puppycat get locked up for that


afm im well confused.com ive just been bathroom to test on OPK ( gone back to negative), but when i wiped ive got bright red blood so NOW i dont know if af has arrived 2wks after MC??

Anyone know if you can get af this early? Arghhhhhhhhhhhh i had a positve OPK Monday now this

I think it can arrive 2-4 weeks approx after so it could be :/
I so wanna catch another eggie soon but i think i will wait for my first AF before TTC so i know my dates etc better.

 

[poppy666]

Well id be more happy if i could get on my damn farm on facebook my dog's gonna be dead with lack of food at this rate

Sorry you didnt get much sleep sweetie, no caffine for you tonight x

Hahaa Farmville? "mooo!" << iv tried to re-enact it for you bbes xx

Wooohoooooooooo Mooooooooooooooo ovaaaaaaaaaaa farmville there's a new cow in town Emily @>>>>>>>>>> [ Yes Farmville keeps me sane

Set me sen up for that fcka dint a haha Mooooooooo!! suck my udder! lmaoo xx

My weakness is CityVille

Haha i never been on that one - im guessin it like buildings and shizzle instead of trees and crops ? xx

Just been laid topless on comp and OH been trying to "man-handle me" save it for later sunshine

xx

Dont be flashing your on farmville ive only just got in the fecking game

 

[poppy666]

@ puppycat get locked up for that


afm im well confused.com ive just been bathroom to test on OPK ( gone back to negative), but when i wiped ive got bright red blood so NOW i dont know if af has arrived 2wks after MC??

Anyone know if you can get af this early? Arghhhhhhhhhhhh i had a positve OPK Monday now this

I think it can arrive 2-4 weeks approx after so it could be :/
I so wanna catch another eggie soon but i think i will wait for my first AF before TTC so i know my dates etc better.

Thanks Dee

I soooooooooooo thought i may of caught eggy yesterday because of positive OPK Monday, but i will have to see if i get heavier today to see if its AF