TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[puppycat]

Just thinking...

The time DH and I BD'd and I caught (although miscarried) I actually O'd after he had come.

This is TMI and a teeny bit embarassing but I stayed lying down and made myself O... ahem... I don't usually do this so I definitely think it helped

Just FYI really

 

[poppy666]

Yeah ive also read that somewhere, i didnt when i concieved last time... i do think or believe the Soy n preseed helped me

 

[HayleyJJ]

Hi Girls,

Could i joing this group please. I started ttc in October 2009. I had a mmc in August at 20 weeks, and miscarried on the 18th December at between 6-8 weeks.
I am waiting one cycle & will then be trying again as i feel ready to start again quite soon. It was hard over xmas as my due date with the first baby was 2nd jan.
Hope all you girls are doing ok. I have had a good laugh at the conversations going on last nite!!!
Love to you all Tootsie xx

Welocome darling so sorry for ur losesss xx

Hi ladies
Can I join please? I MMC-ed at 9.5 weeks just before Christmas - had ERPC on 29th and was fine for a few days until I started to bleed like crazy a few days ago. Thankfully that's cleared up now and I've got antibiotics. Just want to get back to TTC and hopefully get a BFP soon!
It took us a good few months last time and I really hope it's quicker this time round. I ovulated on day 28 the month I got my BFP and am wondering if that caused the MC. Who knows. Looking forwards to lots of BFPs on this thread!
xxx

Welcome sweetheart xxx

I once tried Dildo on OH, tell ya he's never bucked so hard or moved so quick out of bed said " now you know what it feels like if you dont give me enough foreplay beforehand and Rodger Ramjet it up there

Needless to say he wont let me use it on him anymore

well girlies im really low today and crying lots but last nights antics did really make me smile so ty ladies

does anyone know if wen u ov u produce hormnoes which could make me feel like shit??

i need some pma right about now xxx

 

[HayleyJJ]

sorry for little posting to news girls welcome to you all and i hope you enjoy this group as much as we all do!

were a great bunch and we have lots of laughs and tears together

lots of and for us all xxx

 

[puppycat]

Hi Hayley

I wish I could pass on some PMA but I'm pretty down today too.

Bored out of my MIND but CBA to do anything so it's pretty crap this end too x

 

[poppy666]

Hayley big sorry your feeling so low

I felt like crap other day and really thought i was going down the depression route, but picked up day after.. was crying and causing arguements all day Tuesday must be hormones and our bodies trying to get back to normal x

 

[puppycat]

I actually have depression, need to change my anti-depressants before TTC so seeing Dr tomorrow hopefully.

 

[joey300187]

im the same today bit tearful and just generally feeling down af due 2morra and have been so positive all this cycle that this will be my month. now 1 day away from af and having a "wobble". no signs of af coming but just got it into my head im not gonna get my BFP this month xx

 

[tweedy]

hey ladies, sorry so many of you are feeling blue, thinking about what your body has been through in the last few weeks, it's not surprising.

i have some good news, i feel obligied to share, my midwife from when i had my daughter called me today, she had seen i had an appointment with her booked in dec, but cancelled after the mc so was checking up to see if i was ok (not bad for an NHS Practice). i was telling her we were officially trying again now and she said that i should be eating plently of ice-cream, the full fat kind, something to do with dairy encouraging ovulation! so just texted hubbie and he is going to Mauds on the way home (fantastic homemade stuff here in NI).

i don't know what i'm more excited about the BDing or the ice-cream!!!

T xx

 

[poppy666]

Oooooooooooooo stuff the bedding give me the ice-cream im gonna get some from Asda tonight then woooooooooohoooooooooooooo

 

[Sunshine31]

That's excellent news re icecream. I consider eating copious amounts of icecream to be one of my key skills so if it's going to help the TTC campaign then I'll certainly try it!

Sorry that some of you are having a down day. I'm feeling more positive today having felt like sh1t for most of the week. I think it's the thought of going back to checking OPKs, counting the days after ovulation, taking my temp etc that gets me down. Plus the fact that everyone I know seems to be pregnant, including my sister in law who's had a sensitvity bypass. Like do I want to see her 20week scan pix the day after she knows I had ERPC? And do I want to know that she and her husband are, in her words, one shot wonders. Jesus I was that close to telling her to f**k off!

I suppose we should count ourselves fortunate though in that we know we can conceive so hopefully it's a matter of when not if.

The late ovulation thing is interesting. I actually asked my gynae about it when I was pregnant and she said that it's nonsense but I'm not convinced. I think I may not TTC the months where I haven't ovulated by day 20. I wish I had a normal 28 day cycle like other girls.

 

[mumatmadhouse]

Massive to all you ladies feeling crappy right now. It's such a roller coaster of a road we travel! I must admit that i feel pretty crappy atm too. AF is due to arrive monday if i o'd when i think Arrggghhhhh!!!! I wish i knew for sure! Keep doing stupid hpt's the last few days, dont know why i bother coz i know they will come back negative probably even if i was lucky enough to catch. I am now giving up on being pregnant till i get my af back after mc. Cheered myself up last night though, bought an ovulation microscope and some preseed so i can give it all i've got once my body is ready again
Onwards and upwards eh girls?

 

[puppycat]

Oooooh eating ice cream you say....?

Shame it's not jaffa cakes, just had a packet of those heh heh!!

 

[poppy666]

Im still spotting its doing my head in now, if it was af it be obvious wouldnt it

 

[puppycat]

Im still spotting its doing my head in now, if it was af it be obvious wouldnt it

I spotted Saturday night and then Sunday morning it just arrived from nowhere. Might just be spotting, might be AF. More waiting

Get's frustrating doesn't it!

 

[poppy666]

Yep it sure does 'sigh' never wanted af to come so bad x

 

[lilrojo]

Yep it sure does 'sigh' never wanted af to come so bad x

I know how you feel... I wanted my af to come so badly.. then it did and it brought me instantly back to the mc.. but now its gone and i'm trying again!! Just wanted to let you know though that the first two days of my af were really light, barely there spotting.. just when i wiped.. tmi... sorry but day three it came on like normal.. so you will just have to wait it out.. I know its frustrating.. was for me too...

 

[lilrojo]

That's excellent news re icecream. I consider eating copious amounts of icecream to be one of my key skills so if it's going to help the TTC campaign then I'll certainly try it!

Sorry that some of you are having a down day. I'm feeling more positive today having felt like sh1t for most of the week. I think it's the thought of going back to checking OPKs, counting the days after ovulation, taking my temp etc that gets me down. Plus the fact that everyone I know seems to be pregnant, including my sister in law who's had a sensitvity bypass. Like do I want to see her 20week scan pix the day after she knows I had ERPC? And do I want to know that she and her husband are, in her words, one shot wonders. Jesus I was that close to telling her to f**k off!

I suppose we should count ourselves fortunate though in that we know we can conceive so hopefully it's a matter of when not if.

The late ovulation thing is interesting. I actually asked my gynae about it when I was pregnant and she said that it's nonsense but I'm not convinced. I think I may not TTC the months where I haven't ovulated by day 20. I wish I had a normal 28 day cycle like other girls.

All the testing really does bring you down.. constantly waiting for the pos.. which is where I am right now.. been testing since my first af ended and nothing yet... I did have a normal cycle before hand 28-29 days but things must have changed due to the mc cuz no pos opk yet... still hopefull

 

[poppy666]

lilrojo if that is happening to me with light spotting before af do i count the 3rd day as cd1 or today? ( if af)

 

[lilrojo]

Honeslty Poppy I dont really know a whole lot about that I believe I just counted the first day of spotting as day 1. I have always read that you should count your first day of spotting as day 1... but to be honest I dont know for sure... thats just what I have done for this month.. because my last af, first after my mc still lasted what they always did, 7 days for me... counting day 1 as the spotting.. I just waited it out, which wasnt fun, but after it ended it seemed pretty normal... If any other ladies know more about this please feel free to reply...