TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[9babiesgone]

Thanks you guys. I am so so nervous and happy at the same time. Won't be too secure till I can hear heartbeats

 

[Madrid98]

Hi ladies!! I'm so sorry I've been missing but I find it hard at times to cope with this ttc journey. On cd23 and I haven't O according to my opk's as I'm still waiting for my +. My temps are still low so I don't know what's going on.

Cazi so sorry to hear about your loss!! How frustrating to go through this pain over and over! I hope you can find peace in your dh and try to look to the future with a positive outlook. You'll get your baby too sooner or later. ((((Hugs)))

9babies congrats on the scan and the two sacs! Can't wait for the next update with your little beans!

Random I can understand very well how you feel! At times it's very hard even to be happy for other people.

Puppy how are you? Did you get a pic too?

Dee you are 2 dpo so no long before you can start ttc again. Are you looking forward to it? Or a bit scared?

I can't remember all the names, please forgive me, but hello to all and hope you are well!

 

[puppycat]

Hey Madrid

I didn't get a pic, she took 3 pics but put them in my 'file' - miserable woman. She said 'there's no baby to see so no pictures' - I don't care if you can see a baby it's my sac your photoing!! lol.

She took pics of my ovaries too? Dunno why!

 

[Madrid98]

Hey Madrid

I didn't get a pic, she took 3 pics but put them in my 'file' - miserable woman. She said 'there's no baby to see so no pictures' - I don't care if you can see a baby it's my sac your photoing!! lol.

She took pics of my ovaries too? Dunno why!

Nice to hear everything is ok!

 

[Deethehippy]

Hey Madrid
I probably wont be able to TTC until feb now due to having to wait for some test results that could affect TTC (go read my journal if you want) but i would be trying tonight if i could! As soon as i can i will be like a rabbit!

How are you doing hun? I hope you O soon.

 

[allmuddledup]

Hi Madrid! Good to see you here! I'm so sorry to hear you are still waiting to ovulate. I know how frustrating that is. I conceived on a 40 day cycle once so don't give up hope!! It could happen for you too! I've been known to have cycles from 30-45 days long. Super pain in the ass. Sending you hugs and O dust!

 

[Madrid98]

My cycles have only changed since the first mc. They used to be 30-31 days but now I have to expect 36 minimum. This cycle for example if I manage to O tomorrow my cycle would be 38 days. I'm hoping the cycle won't end this time though

Thanks for your support!!

 

[pip7890]

Evening ladies

So much going on. Sending you all big

Pip x

 

[poppy666]

Samantha he's gorgeous and so much hair lol

 

[blueeyedgirl1]

My cycles have only changed since the first mc. They used to be 30-31 days but now I have to expect 36 minimum. This cycle for example if I manage to O tomorrow my cycle would be 38 days. I'm hoping the cycle won't end this time though

Thanks for your support!!

My cycles changed too, and haven't returned to normal 12 months on. Cycle length can can anywhere from 27-36 days, LP varies every cycle, hormonal symptoms are different every cycle, too. Prelim blood tests look like my hormone levels are fluctuating from month to month, I'm sure the FS will do lots more tests to see why.

I've not really found much literature about women whose cycles changed permanently after MC, only for a few months. It's so frustrating.

 

[Madrid98]

Yes blueeyed, it's very frustrating!! The weird thing is that after the 2nd mc the cycles are even longer, 40 days, and nothing helps to reduce them. Any suggestions?

 

[Kaede351]

Puppy - glad your scan went well!!!

9babies - wow, twins! I'm jealous haha. I wanted twins XD

Everyone else - hope yous are all doing well!!!

to the lovely ladies who are still TTC.

XxX

 

[9babiesgone]

Thanks kaede I am still an unbeliever about it lol.

 

[lilrojo]

Hey ladies..

Havent been on in awhile.. so much to do with christmas coming.. I just read through though..

Welcome back blueeyed.. praying 2012 is your year.. this is a great place for support and hoping its lucky for you as it seems to have been for all of us..

Madrid-my cycles changed after my first mc as well.. I didnt have a clue really as to when i would ovulate.. after a few months of for sure timing things right.. at least using the clearblue opks (smiley ones) I bought the cbfm.. first cycle preg. mc and second cycle preg. no mc.. I know they are expensive though.. Praying things work out for you this cycle.. Mine were anywhere from 29-34 days..

Wow Shana congrats on the twins.. cant wait to hear that they have strong hbs and see some pics.. hope all goes well for you hun..

Puppy happy that all is going well for you hun..

Poppy-hope the meds help serenity feel better.. and you too.. would be tough..

Sam that picture is so cute.. def a lifetime keeper ( maybe even frame it) he is just such a handsome little guy..

Pip-hope all is well with you and baby andrew..

AMU hope your doing well too

Kaede how are you doing.. hope your well

AFM-not much new.. just been getting things ready for christmas.. wrapping baking all the fun that goes with it.. cleaned and organzied my bedroom.. i guess we can say nesting has started.. lol cleaned the kitchen.. been buying some things for hospital stay etc.. so getting things done..

 

[Kaede351]

Omg, had a scary moment there! Was sat in the baby's room sorting some stuff out and I sneezed... All of a sudden I was wet! rushed to the loo in a panic, half expecting to see blood or something... Turns out I peed myself XD I DIDN'T EVEN NEED TO PEE!!! I feel like a scud now lmao :/ maybe time to get some panty liners! (or some adult nappies in this case lmao -.-).

XxX

 

[Kaede351]

I'm very good thanks lilrojo hun

XxX

 

[lilrojo]

Haha welcome to pregnancy world Kaede.. and for some even after pregnancy..

 

[Kaede351]

Lol, I have no idea where it came from though! I had literally been to the loo like 5 mins before hand XD I was starting to wonder how long it would be before it happened though... Guess I got my answer! I'm just SO glad it didn't happen at work!

Pregnancy rocks

XxX

 

[blueeyedgirl1]

Yes blueeyed, it's very frustrating!! The weird thing is that after the 2nd mc the cycles are even longer, 40 days, and nothing helps to reduce them. Any suggestions?

No suggestions here, I'm just at the mercy of my irregular cycles. I'll definitely be asking the fertility specialist at our first appointment, though.

 

[allmuddledup]

Hey blueeyedgirl and Madrid. :wave: Some women use Soy Isoflavones to shorten their cycles and bring on ovulation (it's been called "natures Clomid"). Poppy is the resident soy expert here. I'm sure she could give you some advice if you wanted to try it. I'm afraid it had the opposite effect on me when I tried it. gave me a super long cycle and no BFP so I didn't try it again. Don't know why it had that effect on me when it seems to help most women.

Kaede, I can totally relate to your sneezy-wee. I always seem to leak when I cough. I have an even better wee story in my journal but it's a bit embarrassing.

Hey everyone else. I hope you are all well.