TTC after my loss in August

[Mrs. Atole]

Hello Everyone
I finally got pregnant after 2 1/2 years of being with my husband I was sooo happy and scared (i'm 28)
I didnt get to make it to my first ultra sound to hear my babys heart beat, i lost the baby a few days before ( 11 weeks) i was crushed my dream finally came true after years and i had it just for a moment, i thought it would of been easier to get pregnant after i lost the baby but .. no i'm still not pregnant ?? 7 months later ? is it going to take me another 2 years ? when should i consider science ? my baby would of been born this month 3/17 was my due date
Can anyone offer a word ? advice ? prayer ? encouragement?
Thank you for taking time to read.

 

[AnnieMac2]

I just wanted to say I'm so sorry. It sucks. Take good care of yourself this month. For whatever reason, I really feel like things will go well for you! You're still young. And you never know. My friend seems to be the most fertile woman ever, but her middle child took over a year to conceive (for no known reason). Her others were conceived on the 1st or 2nd try. So you never know! Also, your miscarriage doesn't indicate you'll have another.

My only advice is, if you have tons of concerns (and it doesn't sound like your doctor is really addressing them), why not get another opinion? I think the rule of thumb is that docs will seriously consider fertility treatment options with you if you're concerned and it's over a year with no luck. Keep your head up. Don't fall into the trap of thinking you're destined to not bring a pregnancy to term! Good luck.

 

[Mrs. Atole]

Annie
Thank you so much for your kind words, you made my night.

 

[wearsunlight]

I'm feeling like you, Mrs. Atole. I lost my baby at 11 weeks, had to have an emergency DNC because of all the bleeding. We were lucky and got pregnant on our first try for that one, but this time around we're still trying with no BFP. April will be our 6th month of trying. Just goes to show that sometimes you can get pregnant right away and sometimes, you can't. I've found myself feeling really lost and desperate--I wanted to be pregnant before my original due date (May 7), but that's looking like it probably won't happen.

I've heard that if you try for a year and aren't successful then it might be time to seek medical help.

I'm crossing all my fingers and toes for you that you get pregnant quickly the second time! xx

 

[KTJ006]

I am in the same boat as you all. And it just sucks (excuse my language). We have 2 kids and 2 angel babies. We got pregnant with my daughter on the first try. The 2nd time we tried to get pregnant ended in a MC at 6 weeks (but again, fell pregnant on the first try). We then had my son...again falling pregnant on the first try. Then we fell pregnant again (on the first try) in August but that ended in a D&C at 10 weeks in October. I haven't been able to get pregnant since. I've had my uterus and ovaries flushed out and it was "supposed" to make me more fertile, but it's not working. I still think something isn't right since the D&C, as I've had right sided ovary pain since then, but they can't find anything. It's so frustrating ladies!! There are so many people in the world popping out babies that don't want them. I don't understand why the ones that DO want them have such trouble. Maybe one day we will understand. Best of luck to everyone