TTC and Beyond!

[TTCaWee1]

Ok I'm doing it. And Morgan I sure hope you don't blow your panties off at work tomorrow. 💩

 

[morganwhite7]

That poop man is hilarious!!!!!! Hahahahahaha stop this right now! Lol

 

[wavescrash]

I just had to kill 2 huge ass spiders in the shower when I went to go use the bathroom. It's a tall, glass door/enclosed shower so it's not likely that they could have gotten out but they were huge (one was much larger than the other) and I just couldn't sleep knowing they were crawling around downstairs. Then my Mom tried to justify them saying how they eat all these other bugs (that aren't in the shower so the spiders were not needed there) and that my spraying them with Clorox Bleach Clean-Up Spray is a slow/painful death for them. GOOD.

Ugh I hate spiders so much.

 

[TTCaWee1]

I kill spiders outside. They all should die. Ugh I hate spiders too. They are so gross.

DH just caught me eating a fudgsicle....lmao he just shook his head and laughed after naming off all the food I just ate...


bahaha this one's for you Morgan

 

[wavescrash]

I agree. VERY anti-spiders!

 

[asmcsm]

I'm just gonna say, I wasn't trying to push my opinions on anyone. I was simply responding to what Julie said about us and dopplers because I had seen and read some of the same things she had. If you want to get a bunch of scans then that's great! They're you're bodies and your babies and that's your decision. I was only saying what I PERSONALLY am going to do and why. It's ridiculous that all these discussions have been getting so heated. I don't get pissed off when everyone else says what they're planning to do, so I don't see why everyone gets bent out of shape if I mention something. I hate what this group is becoming. Everyone used to get along and support each other but now it just seems like you can cut the tension with a knife. If it keeps going on like this I don't know that I'm going to stay on this website. I used to think it was a great place to share opinions and idea and stories but now I jut feel like everyone tears each other apart. I've said my peace. Hopefully no one gets mad about that. I probably won't be posting as often in either thread for a while

 

[clynn11]

I am so scared of spiders but I TRY not to kill anything I don't have to. It just makes me feel bad. I get a little scared thinking about death/dying, so then i'll go to smush a spider and be like "Why am I so quick to take away something's life when i'm scared to lose my own?" So i'm getting better about it. But if they're in my room or my house... sorry but you gotta go buddies! Lmao. There was a giant spider outside my house just hanging out, DH went to kill it and I told him to let it be. I would come in when I wouldn't see it and say "WHERE'S OUR SPIDER?!?!" LMAO. Never thought that would come out of my mouth. But now he's gone. I think something ate or killed him.. who knows lol.

 

[pdxmom]

JEEEEZZZZ i cant believe what just happened...while i was readin all the spider comments my mil jumped screaming bcos there was a spider crawling towards me...obviously dh killed it...but man this is a freaky connection

 

[wavescrash]

EWWWW. Spiders make my skin crawl.

 

[clynn11]

Yeah... I flip my shit if a spider comes crawling towards me lol.

Last night we were out at one of my in-laws rentals doing some clean-up and Kevin goes "Babe what's that?!" So i go to look and he grabs my hand and acts like he's going to make me touch something and it's a FREAKING SPIDER. He got punched in the arm and yelled at lol. He KNOWS how much I hate them and think it's hilarious watching me freak. He's the same way with snakes lmao. I think snakes are cool!

 

[wavescrash]

I don't like anything that's creepy/crawly/slimy. falkdjf;lajdfla EWWWW.

 

[brunettebimbo]

What is a fudgsicle?

I hate spiders!!

 

[Disneybaby26]

Ashlee- just wanted you to know that neither of my posts personally, where in regard to anything you posted. Autism is a roll of the dice, they're now linking induced labor to autism in little boys, but if you don't induce in time you could cause other serious complications for the baby. You offered an opinion on how you would handle your pregnancy without any kind of low-blow to anyone here, we've talked to you for a long time now, we know how you roll.

I don't think any of the pregnant ladies in this thread appreciated the insinuation by Mommyofone, that if something turns out wrong with one of our babies that it will be our fault and we will have guilt because of it. That's no ones place to say to anyone here. I trust that each of us are already being the best mommy we can, taking care of ourselves and our growing babies.

Furthermore, Mommyofone's subsequent post about the possibility of fetal death "as soon as you leave the doctors office" is just heinous. No one and i mean NO ONE on any thread ive ever been on has said something so heartless and cold. Clearly, she has never experienced the indescribable pain of a loss, because she surely wouldnt have said something so aweful. HOW DARE someone say something here that sends one of us into tears or even gives one of us a second thought about miscarriage, as if the thought isnt there enough!

There's no room for someone with comments like that in this thread, so take it elsewhere.

Unless someone posts their off for a night of Xanax and martinis there's no reason to down any pregnant womens choices in this thread. We are all absolutely great mommies to be!!

 

[Disneybaby26]

Oh, and spiders...eeek!! I always get all psyched up to squash them and then miss and they crawl away and I freak out. I hate them so much!!

BB-if you've never had a fudgecicle, I highly suggest you fine on!! They're like frozen Chocloate Popsicles and they rock!!

 

[brunettebimbo]

I'm in the UK so will see if I can hunt some down!

 

[mommyxofxone]

ttc i'm very sorry you were personally offended. i'm sorry, i thought that since everyone was sharing their opinions i would be allowed to share mine? i was just defending my reasons why i wouldn't get a ton of u/s and things. I didn't know it was only allowed to be one sided comments here.

I definitely said that i dind't want to talk anyone out of doing it themselves, and if you already know what i said, how is it that what I said suddenly makes it real or a bad thing? I don't get it. I'll leave it you guys can't handle other comments though.

I also want to note that a few people have sent me messages saying they want to leave the thread because they support everyone else's opinions but can't state their own. so maybe if you can't handle someone else's side, maybe you shouldn't share yours either. stick to just talking about how you feel etc, and not controversial issues.


and again, i'm not attacking anyone, i just feel bad that other people can't share their opinions/personal preferences.

And just let me know if you rather i stay out of your thread, i'll leave you guys alone.

 

[Disneybaby26]

ttc i'm very sorry you were personally offended. i'm sorry, i thought that since everyone was sharing their opinions i would be allowed to share mine? i was just defending my reasons why i wouldn't get a ton of u/s and things. I didn't know it was only allowed to be one sided comments here.

I definitely said that i dind't want to talk anyone out of doing it themselves, and if you already know what i said, how is it that what I said suddenly makes it real or a bad thing? I don't get it. I'll leave it you guys can't handle other comments though.

I also want to note that a few people have sent me messages saying they want to leave the thread because they support everyone else's opinions but can't state their own. so maybe if you can't handle someone else's side, maybe you shouldn't share yours either. stick to just talking about how you feel etc, and not controversial issues.


and again, i'm not attacking anyone, i just feel bad that other people can't share their opinions/personal preferences.

And just let me know if you rather i stay out of your thread, i'll leave you guys alone.

Saying "you can have a scan and you baby can die as soon as you leave the office" is in no way, shape, or form supportive OR an opinion. It's a nasty horrible thing to say on a PREGNANCY thread. End of story.

 

[mommyxofxone]

and ttc, i just re-read what i wrote to make sure, and i NEVER said fetal death! i just said something could go wrong, and wow, i think you are making it out ot be much worse than what i meant!!!! holy cow, don't put words in my mouth. and i never downed your opinions. never. i just gave mine!

i never said anyone was a bad mommy, i never said anything of the sort. i think your hormones are a little high today hun. I never ever ever ever would say anyone was doing the wrong thing getting an ultrasound. i just gave my reasons for not getting them constantly for myself. i'm hurt that you took it so badly. it was never ever ever meant that way. i didn't make any low blow comments. i did the same as everyone else! just stated why i wouldn't get something


i'm very confused re reading my comment how it can be taken so out of context like that!!!

 

[mommyxofxone]

ttc i'm very sorry you were personally offended. i'm sorry, i thought that since everyone was sharing their opinions i would be allowed to share mine? i was just defending my reasons why i wouldn't get a ton of u/s and things. I didn't know it was only allowed to be one sided comments here.

I definitely said that i dind't want to talk anyone out of doing it themselves, and if you already know what i said, how is it that what I said suddenly makes it real or a bad thing? I don't get it. I'll leave it you guys can't handle other comments though.

I also want to note that a few people have sent me messages saying they want to leave the thread because they support everyone else's opinions but can't state their own. so maybe if you can't handle someone else's side, maybe you shouldn't share yours either. stick to just talking about how you feel etc, and not controversial issues.


and again, i'm not attacking anyone, i just feel bad that other people can't share their opinions/personal preferences.

And just let me know if you rather i stay out of your thread, i'll leave you guys alone.

Saying "you can have a scan and you baby can die as soon as you leave the office" is in no way, shape, or form supportive OR an opinion. It's a nasty horrible thing to say on a PREGNANCY thread. End of story.

OMG i didn't say it could die! i said something could go wrong. i never said those words, so don't quote me unless you do it right!!!

 

[mommyxofxone]

wow wow wow!!!

i never meant anything like that!!!! now i'm being personally attacked. i didn't mean it like that i swear to you all, i would never try to make you ladies feel unsupported!!!!!