TTC and Beyond!

[Disneybaby26]

So what exactly did you mean by "could go wrong" at 9 weeks??

And don't for one second tell me about my emotions. I know what could go wrong at nine weeks. I've experienced every GUT wrenching minute of what could go wrong. Thank you for the reminder though.

Please stop bringing hostility and negatity to our happy place. If you have nothing nice or supportive to say than say nothing. Thank you in advance.

 

[mommyxofxone]

i'm apologizing for the way it came out and i'm still being told to get out?

 

[mommyxofxone]

ok ladies, i will leave you all.

please PLEASE know i didn't mean any harm in my words, i'm sorry, i was sticking up for a few other ladies in sharing how i felt, and i didn't mean it to be unsupportive.

i wish you all nothing but the very best, a happy and healthy nine months to you all. stay safe.

 

[Disneybaby26]

Morning Morgan + Amanda I seeee youuu!!

Rachel- I meant to ask you yesterday if your scan was transvaginal or in the tummy?

 

[morganwhite7]

LOL omg this is sad.

Ashlee- I totally had nothing negative to say to you either, I forgot you posted that stuff about ultrasounds. But you didn't say anything hurtful. I was also referring to the fetal death comments. I had a baby die.. I didn't need to hear about that. So PLZ DON'T GO.. you are one of the main Chatty Cathy's!! We gotta stay together girls!

Okay how's this for a positive note:
I POOPED this morning!!! Lmao, starting at 3 a.m. , it has been rough. But hey- it worked! Lol sorry for the TMI. I've got my constipation solution now that's for sure, won't need to ask that question again! Loved Rachel's icons though, freakin hilarious. DH was laughing too lol.

Bahaha Kara I love that thing, you can always see who's spying

 

[TTCaWee1]

And that's the 2 comment quota for me....so deuces.

 

[morganwhite7]

No wait, what?!?! COME BACK!

Waves, Kara, Julie? Don't go!

 

[morganwhite7]

(oops double post)

 

[jury3]

Personally I'm over this thread as well. I posted something I felt thinking I would maybe get a few "I agree" or "I see where you are coming from" but instead I was kind if made to feel like an idiot. Although Ashlee, mommy and myself all said we totally understand why people do it and especially if we'd had losses before or were high risk or our doc thought we needed them we would do them. No one was attacking anyone for their decisions. I didn't take mommy's comment as an attack saying people's babies would die. Obviously we are all scared but the reality is that anything can happen, she didn't mean anything. I'm disgusted at all this.

And quite frankly Rachel, the only people wanting a preggo thread was the preggos. All but one ttc person asked us to stay. So quit acting like they hated us.

Good luck with your pregnancies. Good luck with ttcing. I'm over this. I'm came here to support others and to be supported and that's hasn't been the feeling lately. So sorry, but I'm over the drama.

 

[asmcsm]

Ugh this bums me out I don't want to see the original ladies that I grew to know and care about go. I understand completely how they feel obviously since I've already posted about my feelings on where these threads have gone but its still sad because I care about them and I like to see that them and their little beans are doing well. I hate that this nice thing has been ruined for everyone

 

[morganwhite7]

Okay is there ANY way I can make a thread for strictly preggos (I will always follow the other thread, but may be less active after this) so that a few of us can stay together?

I just really liked having girls who tried so hard and really deserved it being able to accompany me on this journey. I hope no one is running from me.

I made this thread since I know TTCers don't want to hear us gloat all day about something they struggle for. So if it was an OKAY day, they could come here to see what's up with us, if they so chose to. No other reasons, all good intentions girls.

I just know in a few months there will be a bunch more BFPs from our old thread, and I'd love to have a place for all of us. Everyone is getting so close.

It really isn't what it used to be though, but I am willing to be more like Cass and be super positive! I apologize if I hurt anyone's feelings, I'll still be here every morning blabbing about nonsense if anyone cares to stay.



P.s. I am a bit broken-hearted over this!

 

[asmcsm]

Honestly Morgan I feel like things started getting bad when people started talking about preggos leaving to a new thread. The TTCers used to all be super supportive of the preggos because we were all so close but then I think maybe the group just got too big and more negative comments started to show up. I've never had a problem with the preggos posting in the ttc thread and I'm genuinely happy to see the girls with their BFPs and scan pics. Its the facebook ones i bitch about. But it feels like when talk started of a preggo thread it kinda just started splitting the group apart and there wasn't that connection that everyone had before

 

[Disneybaby26]

Morgan, I'd love to stay in contact with everyone but if everyone's gonna take off it is what it is. If you'd like to make another thread I'll be there with you. I like having people to talk to since its a secret IRL. And obviously those of us who are friends on Facebook will be able to follow each others happiness after the first trimester. This is all very sad to have such a happy positive thing with us all basically a week apart fall apart.

 

[asmcsm]

I mean for the short period of time I was preggo I still stayed on the ttc board and I never felt the tension that there is now. It was always still a safe place to talk to girls who were going through the same stuff. And they were all super supportive of my pregnancy and during my miscarriage

 

[Disneybaby26]

I'm sorry Ashlee- but I'm not going to post news about my pregnancy in that thread. It was nice and supportive when it was the original group but it's uncomfortable now. I feel like I post scans and stuff and very few even say anything. I know you care, and Cassidy and Sonia...we've been together for a long time. I just don't think a lot of the others like seeing it.

 

[morganwhite7]

I totally agree but here is our dilemma:

We want to talk alllll day about crazy preggo stuff (I mean you see the poop, heartburn, US debate, pics etc.) and I know that thread is strictly TTC. I don't mind mentioning stuff but I wanted a place where I could realllllyyyy talk you know?

And I think once TTCers are preggo they will want to do the same. And I like to still be in on all the TTC business, because I really care about those girls..

Like imagine when Sonia Amanda (after the SA) and Mirolee are here with us too.. Wouldn't that be great to stay together? Lol I guess I could find my own preggo thread, they just seemed so random. Like the girls don't really know/care about each other. And how could you when there's like 50 ppl ya know?! Lol

All I am saying is that I feel like if I were still TTC I would not really mind, but I'd prefer preggos kept it minimal, esp bc that is a TTC thread. But hey I'll still be posting over there plenty, I just can't let you all go!

Now I have eaten up good work time worrying over my internet friends lol.. How sad that I'm this emotionally invested in you all! This has really been great support for me through this all.

Guess all I can do is keep it positive!

 

[jury3]

Honestly Morgan it isn't you at all and it isn't the ttc girls who pop in here. I was so excited about this thread and having a place to post ideas. After the response to my post about u/s, I feel like people got really defensive instead of supporting each other. I love having all you girls to talk to but I'm really disappointed that comments were taken out of context and construed to have a different meaning. It's just sad. I just wanted a place to talk to others going through what I'm going through but even I felt a little attacked after that. I'm not here for drama and rude comments. I'd rather be back on the ttc thread at this point.

 

[Disneybaby26]

I mean for the short period of time I was preggo I still stayed on the ttc board and I never felt the tension that there is now. It was always still a safe place to talk to girls who were going through the same stuff. And they were all super supportive of my pregnancy and during my miscarriage

I totally agree about this. It's just not like that anymore. I want you to know though, that I'm truly thankful for those of you that have been there to be supportive. It means a lot considering we know what each of us has been through!

 

[Disneybaby26]

Honestly Morgan it isn't you at all and it isn't the ttc girls who pop in here. I was so excited about this thread and having a place to post ideas. After the response to my post about u/s, I feel like people got really defensive instead of supporting each other. I love having all you girls to talk to but I'm really disappointed that comments were taken out of context and construed to have a different meaning. It's just sad. I just wanted a place to talk to others going through what I'm going through but even I felt a little attacked after that. I'm not here for drama and rude comments. I'd rather be back on the ttc thread at this point.

I don't remember an US comment from you Julie. For me I think i just really felt judged by someone I don't "know". None of you original girls have ever made me feel hurt or wrong and I'm sorry you feel that way.

 

[asmcsm]

Morgan I was pregnant before so I know about wanting to talk about all the preggo stuff. I went on other boards and talked about it but the ttc board was still always my primary board. No one was as supportive as those girls. So what you're saying for me what I will want when I'm preggo isn't actually accurate. I still wanted to talk to the girls that I was close with. And I didn't rub it in anyone's faces. I still talked about my heartburn and nausea or lack of and no one got pissed off or offended.