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Baby girl just kicked...gosh such a relief...the kind of worries we have at every stage :dohh: ...im sure shes fine...just a change in her play routine i guess...although the kicks rnt as hard like previous days but i know defely felt her...is tht gud enuf???
 
I woke up from a nap to a voicemail from my OB's nurse asking me to call back. I call back and talk to the receptionist who is communicating with the nurse. She said they wanted to know which doctor gave me the "ok" to stop working (they got the forms needed to complete for my LOA.) For the millionth time I told her that NONE of the doctor's did. I just physically couldn't keep working and hadn't seen my doctor in 3 months. She asked when I planned to return and I said not until after the baby because some days I can't even get out of bed and walk around. I reiterated that I haven't seen MY OB in 3 months and didn't realize my company would fax her paperwork or talk to her before my next appointment because I planned to discuss it with her then. I see her tomorrow so I'm not sure why the nurse called today.

But at one point during the conversation the receptionist said something like "with no doctor approving the work stoppage, we may not be able to complete the paperwork." So you know... that's awesome. If I'd been able to see MY OB or hadn't seen the world's WORST OB at my last appointment and instead had seen one that let me ask questions, then we probably wouldn't have this particular situation at hand.

Whether or not my OB signs off on my LOA tomorrow, I still can't go to work. I've literally spent the last two days just sitting on the couch unable to get up because every time I do, it feels like the baby is just going to fall out and my hip bones feel like they're about to shatter. So all she's going to be doing is screwing me out of pay and insurance and I have a feeling I'm going to flip shit. Is it too late to switch OBs? I know many won't take you at the end of a pregnancy. Ugh... so annoyed.
 
I would think so. Maybe she's moved, grown, tired, or all of the above?
 
Waves- Super annoying and frustrating.. I'm sorry life sucks so bad sometimes lol.. I hope they sign what you need them to, I'd be throwing a fit til they did..

Sonia- Sounds wonderful.. I bet you that she's just growing! In a week or so you'll feel stronger kicks than EVER before! Between 20-26 weeks some crazy things happen and it really gets intense. Kara also told me between 24-26w (I think?) baby has another huge growth spurt. So no worries mama.. she is exhausted from all the growing.. just like you! :)

Mirolee- You're hilarious lol. Ouch I can't imagine buttoning my jeans at 12 weeks.. I would just use the band with em all unzipped! I couldn't stand ANY pressure on my belly after like 9 weeks.. esp sitting in a chair all day.

Oh I forgot to say- Marley weighs 2.5 lbs! Isn't that crazy?! I was impressed. Aaron's little sister was born at 2 lb 2 oz and survived, so that was pretty reassuring to hear! :)
 
morganwhite7 said:
Waves- Super annoying and frustrating.. I'm sorry life sucks so bad sometimes lol.. I hope they sign what you need them to, I'd be throwing a fit til they did..
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Thanks lol.

I mean, I know it's not my OB's fault I haven't seen her. It's just the way scheduling worked out but at the same time, I know if I'd called because I couldn't work anymore, they'd just tell me to wait until my next appointment because the baby's not in any danger over SPD or sciatica. I started the LOA process because I thought they would mail me a form for my OB to fill out like they did last time and I assumed I would take it with me to my next appointment and talk to her about it then - I wanted to start the process so I didn't lose my insurance while not working but didn't realize because I qualify for paid leave this time, they do all the doctor-contacting for me.
 
Fx they sign what you need. How scary and frustrating for you.

I used the hair tie for quite some time on my jeans. I never had a belly band. Like? Hate?
 
I hated the belly band. It always rolled up or down and didn't cover my zipper enough.
 
Sonia- so glad you felt her! Sometimes the kicks/movement can feel move subdued when she is facing towards your back too! Or could be a growth spurt! Either way, I'm sure your very relieved!

I didn't love the Bella band. It was okay in my bump but the small was too loose on my rib cage so I had to like pull it up all the time. The hairband/Bella band combo just made me feel roly poly for some reason (like I was busting out of clothes I didn't fit in which was actually right on)! Plus, I hate the ridge it created under fitted shirts (I want my bump to look nice and svelte obvi!!) :) I love my under bump mat jeans an totally didnt mind spending the money to feel pretty an not bloated/like a fatty!
 
Sandy- I just realized you started this months TTC thread! That REALLY has been the good luck charm! I wonder how many of us got Preggo the month we started?!
 
Disneybaby26 said:
Sandy- I just realized you started this months TTC thread! That REALLY has been the good luck charm! I wonder how many of us got Preggo the month we started?!
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Oh ya thts true...lets c who all did...I for sure was one who got my bfp the mth and started the thread :flower:
 
Kara, you're right. I didn't even think about that. Crazy! I think Morgan did. And Mirolee?


How I know I'm pregnant for sure: I get off work at 6:30 after an 11 hour day, which is usually fine, and seriously consider going home, going to bed, and not making any dinner at all. Haha. The exhaustion has set in, following the same pattern as the last time. I've never been so thankful to be exhausted! Lol.
 
I got preg the month I started it! I had already been thinking that.... But I know that Nichols did not, so it's not 100% reliable... But I do think it's lucky!
I like the belly band. I'm still trying to hold out until Wednesday to go public, so the band is working well. My gf showed me how to use it better - pull it low over my zipper and button, and way up high. Then I fold the top portion over to meet the top of my pants. So I get a little extra support where the bump is sprouting, but still is useful for holding up pants. Plus, I havent actually accepted the fact I'm pregnant or growing; it sounds crazy but you girls will understand - it,s prett gradual until you put a certain pair of pants on and go, "oh! They don't fit. When did that happen!?" I mean, it's very obvious to me I am, but my mind hasn't connected belly growth with growing out of clothes. And to top it off, I have lots of flowy shirts I can wear, I swear, til I'm due, so I just keep thinking "my shirts fit, so my pants must also". But then I put a non flowy shirt on and oh yeah, it sticks out ;) I'm loving it.
And a side note: omg pregnancy sex is ridiculously the best. Da. Best!
 
Pregnancy sex was awesome last time! This time, I'm scared! Nothing bad happened last time. And we had sex the other night, but I am SO nervous. About everything. I hope this gets better or I'm going to need some Xanax before this is through. Lol. Hubby is pretty calm though and excited.. much more than I thought he would be. I'm the one that's a little leery I think. It'll be okay. :)

I was just reading that the definition of full term has changed from 37 weeks to 39 weeks. I did not know that. That really bums me out; I was going to beg, push, pull, and do whatever it took to have my C-section scheduled for 37 weeks.. I think my sanity is a legitimate health concern, but if 37 weeks isn't full term, she won't go for it, and I don't think I want her to. Dang it. I guess we will cross that bridge when we get there.. Anyway, here's the article if you are interested:

https://www.cnn.com/2013/10/25/health/term-pregnancy/
 
I believe there are two endpoints: early full term vs full term, 37 vs 39 weeks.
 
I read it again. It says 37 & 38 weeks is "early term" so I'm not totally sure what that means? On the early side of Ok but still okay? 39 is full term. I don't want to do anything to cause harm, but I need him or her born as soon as it's safe. I need to get past that horrible, awful experience giving birth..
 
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