That sucks Julie At the end of the day you'll all still be family regardless of genes. You make it what it is.
Awe, Julie, I'm sorry they decided that!! Like Bb said though, regardless of genes you guys will be a beautiful family!!
Julie that stinks, but it's not genes that make a family. Your family will be beautiful regardless.
Thanks ladies, I completely agree...I think it's just disappointing bc we discussed everything up front and they knew how many kids we wanted. I just don't like having my plans change, especially for something major like that. If we have to use a known donor registry or a sperm bank, it sucks that Liv and G will know who their donor is while the other children might not. That part of it makes me sad. But I completely agree that a family is about love, not genetics...Julie- I agree. Although that's a bummer they decided they don't want to be a donor anymore, in the end the genetics of the babes won't truly matter as you are an amazing family that will love the babies despite their genetics!
Lol I love it! That's great! I plan to be honest with my kids without going into too much detail...So yeh. That's not really how I thought that would go and not at the age of 3 but he thought it was hilarious plus I'd rather not lie to him!