I agree -- for them. It is your life. I got pregnant 6 months after I had my son. I definitely feel it more as far as aches and pains go, but otherwise, my doc just wanted me to wait long enough so the c-section would have been a year ago at delivery time. I think I would feel a bit better if I had more recovery time, but as long as I take my vitamins and eat well, doc wasn't too concerned about it.