ttc team pink with clomid

[aflight84]

Hey Girls,
I'm really not sure what to do right now - currently cd8 and finished clomid on Saturday. Me and Hubby really really want a baby girl although i'm sure neither of us would mind if our baby was a boy but it leaves me thinking do i ttc normally 5/6 days before O and 5/6 days after or just 5/6 days before and on O to catch a girl?!
I'm really confused

 

[DaisyDuke]

I would love a baby girl to, but a boy would be wonderful i just want bubs to be healthy. I did wander all that when we first started, but now i'm more desperate and i don't worry anymore, so basically i wouldn't worry to much. Good luck on ur 1st round of clomid. XXX

 

[DaisyDuke]

Plus i would't worry about BD so many days after O cos the egg only lives for like 12 hours. XXX

 

[Carlyanne15]

I'm not sure honey! They claim that female sperm swim slower!!! So i'd suggest TTC before ovulation so there are more female sperms @!!
I conceived on Clomid!! And we are having a Girl!
x

 

[aflight84]

thanks girls,
i think after speaking to a lot of my friends and you girls on here i'm not fussed either way but if i end up batting for team pink i'll be a very very happy mummy! hehe

 

[Stardancer]

The shettles method states that you stop BD'ing 2 days before OV for a girl. And start BD'ing the day before OV and the day of OV for a boy. The boy sperm get there fast, but don't live as long. The girl sperm take their time getting there, but live longer.

In theory. Good Luck!

 

[aflight84]

i think i'm just going to bd as much as i can when i can to stand the best chance of blue or pink and love whatever comes my way!

 

[DaisyDuke]

Godo plan that's what i do. XXX

 

[FJL]

I can't help as #1 I don't buy into believing that bd'ing a certain way will give you X sex. Secondly, i've never cared about the sex, all i've ever wanted was a healthy baby. I've never felt so strong about that as I do now, given our journey so far...

If I was allowed to choose the sex, I couldn't do it. I would feel so incredibly blessed just to be pregnant.

 

[aflight84]

I can't help as #1 I don't buy into believing that bd'ing a certain way will give you X sex. Secondly, i've never cared about the sex, all i've ever wanted was a healthy baby. I've never felt so strong about that as I do now, given our journey so far...

If I was allowed to choose the sex, I couldn't do it. I would feel so incredibly blessed just to be pregnant.

I'm starting to feel the same way - i think the reason i really wanted a girl is because the boys in my mums and my nan's life have both screwed them around and walked out of their lives and i was a little scared it run in the family but if it's gonna happen it's gonna happen i guess i just want to be a good mum and be happy.