TTCAR (Trying to conceive after a rainbow) anyone else?

[Oasis717]

Those ICS are terrible!!! So glad the other tests are good xxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Got my first positive opk tonight CD 14, yay xxx

 

[too_scared]

Sending you lots of hugs giy Sorry for the wobbles. Glad you feel a little better after the frer.

Yay for your positive opk oasis! Get busy!

I got my bfp yesterday! Yay! But today I'm spotting and cramping so I'm very worried. Trying really hard to keep a pma.

I hope you're all well

 

[girlinyork]

Get down and dirty Oasis
TS, I'm hoping the spotting is IB x

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies and ts yes it could very well be is! Really keeping my fingers crossed for you xxx

 

[too_scared]

Thank you ladies

 

[Oasis717]

Ts how are you doing hunni? Xxxxx

 

[too_scared]

I'm OK, thanks. Trying to keep positive. Went to the doctor and their test was a bfn so they sent me for blood work. Will find out tomorrow afternoon what it says.

Planning to keep positive unless they say otherwise.

 

[Oasis717]

Definitely, you have every reason to be positive lots and lots of luck hunni xxx

 

[too_scared]

Thank you

 

[girlinyork]

Dr's tests are rubbish and show up at like two weeks late sometimes. You're preggers xx

 

[too_scared]

Thank you giy

I'm starting to worry about an ectopic now since my numbers are low and I have pain in my back on the left hand side. Had pain there from ovulation on. Why do we have to worry so much after a loss?! It's so unfair!

 

[girlinyork]

My GP told me ectopic pain wont start til 5 weeks minimum. 7 on average

 

[too_scared]

Thank you again You always say the right thing. Haha!

 

[Oasis717]

You do always say the right thing girl! Its soooo hard not to worry after a loss isn't it but try to stay positive ts, docs tests are rubbish they're like 50 or 100miu! Xxx

 

[girlinyork]

I've been testing every two days to see progress. Today's FRER was lighter but the IC was much much darker. I'm going to have a nervous breakdown at this rate

 

[Oasis717]

My friend on another thread got a 1/2 weeks on a digi after getting a 2/3 but her little one is over a year old now! It happens girl and was prob just not as much dye on that test, its OK people saying stop testing once you get that positive but in our shoes you can't you need that progression! Xxx

 

[girlinyork]

My friend on another thread got a 1/2 weeks on a digi after getting a 2/3 but her little one is over a year old now! It happens girl and was prob just not as much dye on that test, its OK people saying stop testing once you get that positive but in our shoes you can't you need that progression! Xxx

I know. I've been told off for testing by people who've never had a loss Like they could even begin to understand what it's like to be on the wrong side of the odds

 

[Oasis717]

Exactly, losses change everything and while getting one positive is enough for some for us we really need the reassurance of progression even if it causes some anxiety along the way, I must of tested til I was 7 weeks with Brooklyn and temped til about 10 weeks! Xxx

 

[girlinyork]

I had the hook effect at five weeks with DD! That was sooo reassuring. Judgding my the intensity of my IC I'm hoping that's where I'm headed this time and why my frer is playing silly buggers