Jen, Welcome and good luck! I am 40 now. I was 35 when I had my TR done back in 2007. I have 3 grown children now DD 23, DD 21, DS 20. We also have 3.5 grandchildren. (The .5 is that our middle daughter is expecting!

) I had my tubes tied in March of 1999. When I had my reversal, my tube lengths are 2.5 on left and 3.0 on right. We hd 5 losses, March 08, July 08, Oct 08, Dec 09 and Dec 10. We stopped "trying" in July 2010 when our grandson was born. We got pregnant in Dec and sadly lost that one too and I told my husband (who is 35 now and had no children of his own, but raised and loved mine as if they were/are his!) that I was done! My heart had broken too many times before, that I just couldn't do it anymore. He understood, but asked if we could wait until I was 40, and if we weren't pregnant then we would throw in the towel 100%. I couldn't give up just yet on him! So I agreed. Then on March 3, 2011 our grand daughter was born! Then I had af on March 5th. I felt "weird" on the 29th of March and I tested and there it was! Another

I just wanted to throw up. I just knew this wasn't happening just like the others. So we didn't tell anyone at all. we had our first scan at 6 wks 2 days. The ultrasound tech asked if I wanted her to turn my screen off so I wouldn't get upset if there wasn't anything there. I told her to leave it on as it wasn't anything new to me. Once the scan started, we immediately saw our little girls heart flickering away!!!!!!!!!! It was amazing! LikeI had never seen it before! My husband and I both were smiling and crying at the same time! One of the best feelings ever! Then one of the other best feeling ever was when she was born November 29th 2011!
So, our journey was a long, painful one, but in the end, a GREAT one! I know everyone hates to hear this, but stop with all the fuss after all the testing has been done and everything is ok, relax and enjoy life. It will happen! I did all the testing imaginable and iui and fertility drugs. When we got our forever baby, it was 100% all natural. Not saying some don't need the "help" because some do, but if you don't, just try and not let the ttc control you. It is exhausting enough without the added heartbreak and stress. Enjoy your spouse and your life! I love you all and I know that all of you great ladies out there will have your babies very soon!

to you all!
