I wish I knew too so I could post some pics of Eli for you all.
JoJo- I know you are friends with Crystal on FB. Please tell her I was asking about her. i miss her but I know she is moving on with her life away from all this. Since I don't have a FB account would you let her know? Your little princess is so close to being here....how exciting! I'm not sure if I want another. I'm so obsessed with Eli right now, I couldn't imagine giving my attention and love to another baby right now, but he is only 3 months so maybe I will start to chnage my mind when he gets a bit more independent and not needing mommy as much. I'm only 36 so I have plenty of time.
Jonnanne- I hated that term "advanced maternal age" as well, Anne.( I'm assuming your name is Anne right? since your screen name is Jon n Anne....at least I hope it is.

) And you have some great points to your IVF case. Not every women is cut out for TR and even the ones that seem like they would be excellent candidates go on to never conceive.
Brandi- Most of the time I think it doesn't have anything to do with how you were able to conceive before. After your TR it's a whole new ballgame as many ladies will tell you here. Alot of us were fertile myrtles before but after TR had a hard time getting our sticky beans. And who is the doctor you are thinking of using?