I'm still trying to adjust to the thought of twins. We found out last thursday and while I'm officially excited I'm also so nervous. Nervous because of everything I've read so far about identical twins being more of a risk than fraternal and worried about what we will find out at our next appointment and if that's when we will find out if they are momo, modi or didi. I know there is only so much I can do right now but man I am a planner to the extreme and I didn't plan for this. Twins dont run in either of our families so I never thought of it as even a remote possibility but apparently these two little ones decided they needed a friend so were getting two and I need to let go of some of my planning personality. If you made it this far and you had identicals... Did you go on bedrest? When did you find out if they were momo,modi or didi? What about gender? Idk if because they're twins it's harder to tell early (with my last two kids we found out at 16 and 14 weeks) Did the feeling of anxiety subside? What should I expect? I have so many questions, it's such uncharted territory!