Unsure about my wedding dress =///

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This is the most ridiculous, spoilt-brattish, non-problem problem ever. I'm sorry if I test anyone's patience with how pathetic this sounds.

I am really starting to worry that my wedding dress was the wrong choice. I hated pretty much all wedding dresses before I started looking, and when I found this one I felt really lovely in it in the shop and decided I had to have it, and then had a massive private tantrum about not being able to afford it, and searched the internet for weeks and finally found it second hand and was delighted when I got it. Now though I am having second thoughts. I keep seeing other brides in the same dress online and then don't like it as much. I'm a bit worried that I look porky in it too, or that I just look stupid?! :dohh: I'm probably being a massive idiot and would likely do this with any dress. Did anyone else feel like this before they actually got married?

This is it =/ https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10152207874185541.922381.593935540&type=3
 
That is stunning!!

I think it suits your figure to a T and very few people would be able it off. It will be great to accessorize too. I think it would great with a set of pearls and a rectangular cut veil (short/mid-length) if you wanted a retro classic look or a great set of dangling earrings for the simplistic look!
 
I can't believe how many times I wrote great in one sentence there! It also looks incredible with your skin tone!
 
I have all my accessories and things and love them it's just... I don't even know. You know when you just feel weird about something? I was in love with it when I got it so I don't know what's changed :shrug: Don't know if I should sell it and buy another but then I might really really regret it. I'm so bloody indecisive!

Thank you for your lovely comments :flower:
 
I saw your dress in the brides to be forum a while back..i dont really comment in alot of threads these days but i just had to tell you in no way do you look porky! It looks gorgeous..it really is beautiful and in no way at all does it look "stupid" honestly..its stunning on you xxx
 
I think most brides have a wobble about their dress before the big day. Even I did and mine was custom made! :haha:

Honestly though, on the day when your hair and make-up is done, you'll slip on that dress and your shoes and you'll feel like a million dollars. You should too, because you look fantastic! You have the figure of a model you nutter, no wonder your fella wants to take you off the market for good! :)
 
I think it quite normal to suddenly have doubts about wedding choices i know i did. but that dress is stunning, and suits you beautifully.
 
I had a big tantrum about my dress once it was made and came back, I loved it the first time but when it was finished I hated it but that was because the stupid woman in the shop mucked my order up and I got my dress back about 4 days before my wedding and 2 sizes too small.
she argued that I had signed off the measurments and must have put weight on but the order clearly had my size crossed out and another size written in, I tried refusing to pay the remainder (dress cost £1800) but she wouldnt give me the dress and threatend legal action so I had to take ir even though it didnt fit and looked awfull and had to pay a further £500 to get an emeegancy alteration and have another panel fitted in the back.
Once the wedding day came and I put it on though I loved it again.
Think everyone has second guesses for a while.
 
It's beautiful, you look amazing in it!! Such a gorgeous dress hun you don't look stupid or porky!!
 
I think it really suits you and you look lovely. Not many people could carry that dress of, but you do perfectly because you are just the right shape for it
 
The dress is stunning and you will look fantastic in it... I had some serious melt downs about my wedding dress before the day but the look on my DHs face when he first saw me in it was beyond words.
 
It's beautiful and totally suits your shape and size (which to me looks very slim and petite) :flow:
 
Wow thank you so much :shy: I really hope those who said everyone gets a bit unsure about the dress are right. I really hope I will love it on the day when my hair is done and everything!
 
Wow it's beautiful! I had an unusual dress and about once a month would throw a complete wobbler and decide I hated my dress, but LOVED it on the day. Like trying on any dress if you have your hair done, make up, shoes etc... you will like it more.

Good luck with the wedding.x
 
If you are porky, I am ginormous lol. I think you look good in that. It has a throwback feel and looks very elegant to me!! :)
 
Its not what I would choose but you look lovely!
As for looking porky, your nuts!x
 

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