Update on my sister, her baby is going to become an angel

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Club' started by Aidan's Mummy, Oct 22, 2008.

  1. Aidan's Mummy

    Aidan's Mummy Mummy to Aidan and Oliver

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    as you know my sister had some good news on sunday, she thought she was going to have a healthy baby this time
    heres the link to the post if you havnt read it
    https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-club/64882-amazing-news.html#post976216

    My sister had her scan today and they couldnt see anything they had a look at her fallopian tubes and they saw a mass inside one of the tubes, so they have now said they are pretty sure its eptopic. Sh was rushed into hospital and is now going to have a n operation to remove the baby :cry::cry:

    I feel so sorry for her. Why does this happen?? I dont understand why god (if he is real) lets people get pregnant and then kills the baby:hissy:. It is just so unfair and its now her second loss in nearly 4 months and i dont know how she is going to cope

    hugs to my sister

    and please pray for her safe recovery and that her little angel rests in peace :cry::cry:


    xx
     
  2. polo_princess

    polo_princess ♥ Brookes Mummy ♥

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    lorrilou Well-Known Member

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    :hug:for your sister.

    hope everything goes ok for her.
     
  4. lammy456

    lammy456 pregnant omg possibly 2

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    sending all my hugs there, i had ectopic too, how many weeks is she do they know if they can save her tube i lost one and i still went on to have twins in the first try to concieve. infact it increased my fertility, temporarily though xxx
     
  5. Aidan's Mummy

    Aidan's Mummy Mummy to Aidan and Oliver

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    She should be about 6 weeks hun.

    Wow you went on to have twins, i'll mention that to her and tell her not to give up hope :hugs:
    xx
     
  6. honey08

    honey08 mum2two boys/2mc

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    how awful :( give her :hugs:
     
  7. Faerie

    Faerie Proud Mummy

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    I also had an ectopic and had the tube removed - now I'm pregnant and it's the first pregnancy to get this far, before I always used to miscarry. Sometimes tube is blocked for a reason :(
    My thoughts are with your sister :hugs:
     
  8. FEDup1981

    FEDup1981 Mam of two & two angels

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    aw bless her, thats awful, :hugs:
     
  9. lammy456

    lammy456 pregnant omg possibly 2

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    really at 6 weeks she should be able to keep both her tubes easily. unless she is further along in the pregnancy that thought to be i was 10 weeks when thought i was only 8 i almost died my tube ruptured hospital knew of ectopic for a month yet they refused surgery and every 2 days called me in for blood tests for hcg levels and endless scans, it was horrible seeing my baby on the monitor all the time and at the tests thinking oh i hope baby is hiding in my womb and there is just a little lump and the scan made a mistake but now i have the twins it makes the loss seem like he came back only with another sister along side lol xxx
     
  10. Nikkinoonoo

    Nikkinoonoo Mummy to a gorgeous girl

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    So sorry to hear that hun :hugs::hug::hugs: to your sister xXx
     
  11. Aidan's Mummy

    Aidan's Mummy Mummy to Aidan and Oliver

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    God hunni that must have been a heartbreaking time for you :hug:.

    Im so glad you went on to have healthy twins though after that you really did diserve it
    xx
     
  12. princess_bump

    princess_bump Happy Wife & Mumma!

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    :hugs: thinking of your sister honey :hugs:
     
  13. Eoz

    Eoz Mummy of 5! Eeek!

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    Awww hun.Please tell her never to give up hope.I have never had an eptopic but lost 9 angels and I have 3 children now and 1 due soon.God works in mysterious ways.My way of looking at is that he is trying to give people the very best and sometimes he does not achieve it so he takes it away and replaces it with something even better in his own time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  14. Aidan's Mummy

    Aidan's Mummy Mummy to Aidan and Oliver

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    aww thats a good way of looking at it hunni :hug:. Good luck with the birth or your new addition to the family :hug:
    xx
     
  15. sam's mum

    sam's mum mum of two gorgeous boys

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    I'm so sorry :(

    :hugs: to you and your sister x
     
  16. Donna79x

    Donna79x Mummy to Rihanna Paige x

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    :hug: to your sis hun xxxxxxxx
     
  17. alice&bump

    alice&bump mummy to katie

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    am so sorry hun xx god moves in mysterious ways xx
     
  18. Waiting2bMommy

    Waiting2bMommy Levi and Jax's Mommy!

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    She and baby are both in my prayers.
     
  19. ellasmummy

    ellasmummy Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear that.

    :hugs: for you sister! x
     

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