teenmommy15
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hey girls
So as most of you know i've been really stressed through most of this pregnancy because i thought Marcus(OH) wasnt going to ever stand up to his mom and step up to the plate and prove to me he can be dad to our child, i was always doubting him in my head even though i still wanted to believe in him.
Well guess what? He proved me wrong!
He came over to my house the other day so we could hang out before we went to my appointment, it was really nice its been forever since he's been to my house He helped with the nursery, i took a video of him talking to the baby and we took some pictures i had a great time just being around him again, without just seeing him at an appointment
Well he went home after my appointment and posted the pictures we took on his moms facebook wall(his mother does not know we see eachother, she hates me for not getting an abortion so she said we could not see eachother and we've been sneaking around ever since, its kind of easy because my mom doesnt mind that we see eachother) well she came into his room and asked where he was today? and he said i went to bethanys then i went to her appointment so i could see my baby. She said what do you think your familys going to think when they see those pictures?(his family doesnt know im pregnant) He said i dont care im tired of hiding my baby from the world, I love Bethany and my baby very much and weather you say so or not im going to be a father to my baby
and She said How do you think your baby is going to feel about you being a part time dad? He said im not going to be a part time dad. She then said that all his family was going to hate him if he decided to raise this baby with me. He said then let them hate me, i have my own family now 
The next day they goto her friends kids birthday party and on their way home he says Im going to Bethanys house this weekend so we can go baby shopping and you can approve or not but im going to help shop and help with my babys nursery. She then said Fine and eventually said that he was allowed to goto the baby shower and then after the babyshower she'll take him shopping for anything else we need 
IM SO PROUD OF HIM !!! I DONT KNOW WHERE I'D BE WITHOUT MY OH I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND HE DOESNT GET ALL OF THE CREDIT THAT HE REALLY DESERVES
Now about my baby girl 
As most of you know she was underweight because of stress and im very asthmatic.
Well they put me on Advair and bedrest im off bedrest now, but they want me to stay out of stressful situations which is a lot easier now that OH finally stood up to his mom Advair is definitely helping so much and my little girl had a HUGE growth spurt and is right where she needs to be for 30 weeks I will be starting home instruction in a week or 2 which means i'll be doing out of school schooling
pictures from the other day, were really happy 
So as most of you know i've been really stressed through most of this pregnancy because i thought Marcus(OH) wasnt going to ever stand up to his mom and step up to the plate and prove to me he can be dad to our child, i was always doubting him in my head even though i still wanted to believe in him.
Well guess what? He proved me wrong!
He came over to my house the other day so we could hang out before we went to my appointment, it was really nice its been forever since he's been to my house
He helped with the nursery, i took a video of him talking to the baby and we took some pictures i had a great time just being around him again, without just seeing him at an appointmentWell he went home after my appointment and posted the pictures we took on his moms facebook wall(his mother does not know we see eachother, she hates me for not getting an abortion so she said we could not see eachother and we've been sneaking around ever since, its kind of easy because my mom doesnt mind that we see eachother) well she came into his room and asked where he was today? and he said i went to bethanys then i went to her appointment so i could see my baby. She said what do you think your familys going to think when they see those pictures?(his family doesnt know im pregnant) He said i dont care im tired of hiding my baby from the world, I love Bethany and my baby very much and weather you say so or not im going to be a father to my baby
and She said How do you think your baby is going to feel about you being a part time dad? He said im not going to be a part time dad. She then said that all his family was going to hate him if he decided to raise this baby with me. He said then let them hate me, i have my own family now The next day they goto her friends kids birthday party and on their way home he says Im going to Bethanys house this weekend so we can go baby shopping and you can approve or not but im going to help shop and help with my babys nursery. She then said Fine and eventually said that he was allowed to goto the baby shower and then after the babyshower she'll take him shopping for anything else we need
IM SO PROUD OF HIM !!! I DONT KNOW WHERE I'D BE WITHOUT MY OH I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND HE DOESNT GET ALL OF THE CREDIT THAT HE REALLY DESERVES
Now about my baby girl
As most of you know she was underweight because of stress and im very asthmatic.
Well they put me on Advair and bedrest
im off bedrest now, but they want me to stay out of stressful situations which is a lot easier now that OH finally stood up to his mom Advair is definitely helping so much and my little girl had a HUGE growth spurt and is right where she needs to be for 30 weeks I will be starting home instruction in a week or 2 which means i'll be doing out of school schoolingpictures from the other day, were really happy
tbh she probably respects him for it in the end 
