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FJL

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Oh boy, its been a LONG week.

Going to put this in point form so its easier to follow.

1. We decided that we're going to go all out and choose one of the best specialists in Australia, one who specialises in male factor infertility. I knew who I wanted to see straight away as he has always been my pick but being a 10hr drive I never thought it was feasible. So I sent him an email asking for his opinon on what my FS had said. He basically said that he didn't agree with putting me on clomid and being in our 20's and trying for 18months without a pregnancy meant that there is a big problem. He said he'd want to do a sperm wash/test testing for everything under the sun then we'd start treatment.

2. I got a referal to this guy.

3. Had a phone appt with this guy on Thursday. He was lovely and very helpful.

4. I've made an appointment with him which is the 9th May. We will be seeing him, getting a sperm test done, then seeing the IVF nurses for a talk, asking questions etc.

5. 1 week after we have a phone appt with him where he will discuss the results of the sperm test with us and what treatment we will need.

6. My original FS clinic is being VERY difficult with handing over our file so i'm going to have to put my bitch hat on to fight for what is rightfully MINE. I need the file for our appt next month.

7. Decided not to take the clomid. Thinking that my surgery has messed my cycle up a bit as i'm normally no later than 27 days and currently on CD 31, don't get excited though, we've not had any :sex: this cycle AT ALL!!!

So thats it...will have to wait until the 16th May till we find out what we will be doing and when.

I have every faith in this Dr so far...he has a lot of experience and I feel I will be getting the cadilac of IF treatment :cloud9:
 
That sounds brilliant lovely.

I wish you and your OH all the best with your journey x
 
That sounds fantastic. Good on you for fighting the point.

I think you've made the right decision with the Clomid though it must have been tempting to just think "I'll give anything a go". I know I would have.

The doc sounds great. I think it will be worth the extra effort. Didn't you have a huge journey anyway to the docs you were seeing?

Do you know what sort of wait you might have after the 16th May to get started on treatment?

Good luck on getting your file. They've been so reckless with you, the least they can do is pass it on.

So glad you have something to feel positive about again :hugs:
 
That all sounds very positive, it's great that you've found a really good doctor. I really hope you get the answers you want soon!! Good luck :hugs:

xx
 
Hi FJL.

Good luck with your appointment. It is good that you have got one of the specialists in this area working with you. I wish you the best of luck getting your BFP soon!

xxx
 
It is wonderful news that this awesome Dr. can see you so quickly, I am very excited for you guys!!!
 
:hugs: Good luck with your appointment.
 
great news you found a lovely doctor who listens to your every word and WANTS to help! I hope your appointment in May goes well, looks like you have everything organized and ready. Wishing you all the best of luck for a 2008 BFP!!
 
That's great hun. I hope everything goes well for your appointment. Best of luck both.
 
Oh hun thats so fantastic, this news for you has really cheered me up I'm so so happy for you guys:happydance::headspin: and defo think you have made the rite choice!! At this rate may well bn on track for starting this journey together!!

xx:hugs:
 
sound good!!! as regarding you medical files ( i had the same problem today...)but my husband uncle is a doctor and told me to tell my OBGYN office who did not want to send some of my records to some other doc...they are the guardian of you files not the owner ! and some times they can make you paid a fee to transfer to a new doc but it's against the law to keep them from you the owner ! i took is advice and call my OBGYN office saying the same thing and they fax me (for free ) my all file :)
just to let you know!
 
thats brilliant you definatley did the right thing and getting a doctor who is not only very good but understanding and nice is def worth it!! Good luck Fiona thing will get moving quickly for you soon!!:hugs:
 
Oh hun thats so fantastic, this news for you has really cheered me up I'm so so happy for you guys:happydance::headspin: and defo think you have made the rite choice!! At this rate may well bn on track for starting this journey together!!

xx:hugs:

It sure is looking like we might start around the same time, thats pretty exciting I reckon!!!

Our appt is on the 9th, the 16th we should find out what treatment we will need, its out of IUI, IVF or ICSI, I personally reckon it will be ICSI, but we will see.

I know that with this clinic, once they decide treatment I think you can start when you're ready. So HOPEFULLY it will be the end of June or sometime in July!!!

Thanks girls!
 
We could all be starting our treatments around the same time :D

weve got a 3 week wait to see if we get the go ahead then we can start when we want to
 
B great if we all do AG, and all get our long awaited BFP's!!!

xx
 
Great news you were so right to trust your instincts and get a second opinion. Best of luck for your appointment.
 

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