PrincessJJ
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What does your OH say about it?
He tries to talk to her but in all honesty we have that many problems/issues with her it's hard for him to get her to listen
(she always borrows money, guilt trips my OH, makes us feel bad for spoiling our kids or going on holidays, cries on the phone to him a lot, always asking for favours or money, drinks too much - whilst looking after her 5yr old, bosses me around, takes advantage, takes control of my daughter, sticks her nose in everywhere, interferes, tells my son off who is no blood relation to her, tells my son not to listen to me cus she knows best, undermines me and OH to the kids, causes drama..... The list goes on)
He does try his best to tell her she's wrong etc, but it's rare she listens. She either cries and makes him feel bad, says she won't do it again and backs off for a while and then does it again any way or has a strop and ignores him.
I'm lucky in the respect that he mostly puts my feelings first and sides with me. But iv really just had enough. She is way too close for comfort and I want to move. Far far away. X