Sweetie
DD, DS, and a Surprise!!!
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I really have no idea where to turn. I am feeling really upset with how Brooklynn's birth turned out. I keep thinking that I should just be happy that she is here and healthy but I just can't let go. I can't stop beating myself up about it all. I don't know where to start, I keep trying to sit down and write out what happened but I just can't! I feel like I lost such an important part of the birth and everything when I didn't get to see her for so long after she was born and then having to put her in the nursery overnight again so I could go back into surgery. I feel like we just didn't bond like we should have. I worry that it's going to have lasting effects. Then to top it all off I am so scared of something happening to her that I am starting to be scared of bonding with her. I just spend the days going in circles. She is crazy colicky too, all day. I actually looked at her the other day and couldn't pick her up. I just couldn't handle knowing that there was nothing that I could do. OH was home fortunately and took her for a bit but when he goes back to work full time I don't know what I am going to do.