Upset, had a horrible nightmare. It's upsetting...

[newmommy23]

I had this horrible nightmare. Don't want to upset anyone so I'm spoilering it.

Spoiler

I was in an accident, and something hit my belly hard, and Molly stopped moving.
i went to the doctor and they said she had died and there was nothing they could do, and that I would have to let her go and i just...couldnt. I even saw the horrible ultrasound in the dream, of her just...laying there. I don't know if I'll ever be able to unsee that.....I feel so traumatized

the whole thing seemed so real and now i just cant calm down, im afraid to go outside. it seemed so real I'm afraid it could come true....I'm so scared. I've been laying here just feeling Molly kick and crying. I don't know, I'm too emotional for this right now....

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

Aw, hon! I had the same thing happen to me. It was so scary.

Just try to relax and take your mind off it. I know it's hard, but I found that playing online games seemed to do the trick. I know it sounds silly, but bubble spinner is highly addictive! And it's just simple enough to take your mind off of things that are stressing you out.

 

[newmommy23]

Oh man I'm going to try that I suppose! This feeling is making me feel insane.

 

[divershona]

awwww no hun, that has to one of the worst kind of dreams an expectant mother or any mother can have

sorry, hope u feel better soon

 

[EmandBub]

i'm with ally
just try and take your mind off of it
maybe go and watch some TV
or read a book?
xxx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

I hate nightmares like that, that just seem so real!

 

[rainbows_x]

Aww hun! I'm sorry you had that nightmare.
I agree with everyone else, try and take your mind off of it.

xxx

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

What a horrible nightmare... I remember having a horrible one when I was pregnant with my little girl, they seem so real and I know, it's absolutely awful.

Try and take your mind off it as best you can.

xoxox

 

[PleaseBaby]

I've had some really horrible nightmares since being pregnant, it's worse because they are so vivid.

 

[newmommy23]

Thanks guys I'm feeling a little better now.

 

[Jadelm]

Aw I do this a lot with all kinds of things and then I overthink it and get myself so worked up! Everyone's right hun all you can do is try to take your mind off it and keep reminding yourself that it was just a dream and Molly is fine xxx

 

[aob1013]

I've had some utterly utterly revolting dreams about Leni being murdered, ran over, cut in half ... awful .. it's just your natural Mummy protectiveness instict kicking in. I know they are bloody awful, but they aren't an ides of what will happen. Promise xxx