SaraEmily
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This is gonna be long but I'm so upset..
I went for my second appointment this week (17 weeks) and my OB made the whole experience awful. At my first appointment he came off as pretty rude but I thought he must've just been having a bad day.
But anyway, I got my pap smear and blood results back. He walked in, said hi, and then he said, "You have some STD's." So of course I'm just devastated and start crying. He gives me the paper with my results, and it shows I have BV and something called Ureaplasma, both are bacterial infections. I knew what BV was and was super relieved that that was all it was, but didn't know anything about the second one. So i tried to ask about it, and he was like "well did you read the paper at all?" And I had but all it said was that they're both bacterial infections. I wanted to know a little bit more than that..
So since he wouldn't tell me anything else, I had to resort to google, which I hate doing cause it scares me. And from what I've read, both are common and you don't even have to have sex to get them!! >.< So now I'm furious because he made me cry and completely terrified me, and since WHEN is it okay to just say "you have some std's"? Even if I had something terrible, that's just insensitive. I've only had sex with my husband.. he made me feel so bad about myself.
But anyway, after reading about ureaplasma and bv, I'm terrified. Both are assoicated with preterm labor, and while I was given some topical cream for the BV, I don't think I can be treated for the ureaplasma while I'm pregnant. It requires a strong antibiotic (doxycillin) which I can't take while pregnant. And all I can find online are TONS of wmen who gave birth at 18-24 weeks and lost their babies.
And that it usually doesnt even go away with the antibiotics right away. I can't even feel excited about this baby anymore.. I feel like the bv and ureaplasma are a double whammy and I have no hope of fixing both
I haven't been able to stop crying. And no one seems to know much about the bacteria so I feel so alone. Has ANYONE else tested positive for this and came out okay?
I went for my second appointment this week (17 weeks) and my OB made the whole experience awful. At my first appointment he came off as pretty rude but I thought he must've just been having a bad day.
But anyway, I got my pap smear and blood results back. He walked in, said hi, and then he said, "You have some STD's." So of course I'm just devastated and start crying. He gives me the paper with my results, and it shows I have BV and something called Ureaplasma, both are bacterial infections. I knew what BV was and was super relieved that that was all it was, but didn't know anything about the second one. So i tried to ask about it, and he was like "well did you read the paper at all?" And I had but all it said was that they're both bacterial infections. I wanted to know a little bit more than that..
So since he wouldn't tell me anything else, I had to resort to google, which I hate doing cause it scares me. And from what I've read, both are common and you don't even have to have sex to get them!! >.< So now I'm furious because he made me cry and completely terrified me, and since WHEN is it okay to just say "you have some std's"? Even if I had something terrible, that's just insensitive. I've only had sex with my husband.. he made me feel so bad about myself.
But anyway, after reading about ureaplasma and bv, I'm terrified. Both are assoicated with preterm labor, and while I was given some topical cream for the BV, I don't think I can be treated for the ureaplasma while I'm pregnant. It requires a strong antibiotic (doxycillin) which I can't take while pregnant. And all I can find online are TONS of wmen who gave birth at 18-24 weeks and lost their babies.

