greenbeans12
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My husband and I have been married for over a month. He is in the US Army and his rank is a Private E-3. He is stationed in another state (in the US) and the kids and I are making the move to our new home on base within the next 2 weeks. Originally our plan was to have my husband fly in on a Friday night and drive my vehicle over a thousand miles into the new state we will be living in so I wasn't driving by myself with 2 young children on a trip that is going to take 24+ hours. That way it would lighten my load, be much safer, and he would be able to return to work Monday. He wouldn't have to take off of work at all. The flight would take off 2 hours after he got off work, so plenty of time to get to the airport, and land 3 hours later. We would arrive in the state late Sunday evening. However, he had 2 commanders sign off on it and his sergeant refuse to do so because of personal conflict between them (which is an on going affair, the sergeant is also refusing my husband the right and permission to take care of matters needed such as housing paperwork, internet/cable install appointments/insurance/etc during work hours). This makes it impossible for my husband to do anything because he gots off of work around 5 PM and by then everything is closed and on the weekends they are closed.
We made other plans for someone else to travel with me but they fell through due to my vehicle situation and now I have to fly into the new state we're moving to. If I book my flight to land into another airport about 3 hours away from the base (instead of the one 5 minutes away from base) we can save a tremendous amount of money even after paying for gas. However, for NO reason, the same sergeant is refusing to sign off on the papers even though the commanders did for NO reason. My husband offered the flight number, receipt, etc as proof. He would only need to leave work 3 hours early to pick us up...so it's not as if he is missing a whole work day.
My questions is...what rights do we have?! I know there has to be some guideline...something...somewhere...that protects our rights for family matters to be able to be taken care of. This sergeant has been in the platoon for a short time and has done the same to other families/soldiers for NO reason. I am so over it and now that it is effecting our family as a whole I am ready to take matters into my own hands even if it's seeking a lawyer.
Any advice/tips? I am desperate for help!!
We made other plans for someone else to travel with me but they fell through due to my vehicle situation and now I have to fly into the new state we're moving to. If I book my flight to land into another airport about 3 hours away from the base (instead of the one 5 minutes away from base) we can save a tremendous amount of money even after paying for gas. However, for NO reason, the same sergeant is refusing to sign off on the papers even though the commanders did for NO reason. My husband offered the flight number, receipt, etc as proof. He would only need to leave work 3 hours early to pick us up...so it's not as if he is missing a whole work day.
My questions is...what rights do we have?! I know there has to be some guideline...something...somewhere...that protects our rights for family matters to be able to be taken care of. This sergeant has been in the platoon for a short time and has done the same to other families/soldiers for NO reason. I am so over it and now that it is effecting our family as a whole I am ready to take matters into my own hands even if it's seeking a lawyer.
Any advice/tips? I am desperate for help!!