Hi everyone
I'm new here and looking for a bit of advice about using a unofficial surname at school for my child.
Bit of background:
My child is 9 and me and her dad split up when she was a baby, she sees him (reluctantly) 4/5x a year. She currently has my maiden name, but I'm getting married in December, and I'd like to change it to my new surname...I know my ex would never agree, and he has PR so I cannot do it officially.
So I'd like to ask school and doctors to use a known by name. Does anyone else do this? Will the school/doctors agree to this or are they very strict regarding this sort of thing?
My child is really upset about being the odd one out(have two smaller children with hubby to be and would mean my child being the odd one out surname wise)
Any advice greatly appreciated
I'm new here and looking for a bit of advice about using a unofficial surname at school for my child.
Bit of background:
My child is 9 and me and her dad split up when she was a baby, she sees him (reluctantly) 4/5x a year. She currently has my maiden name, but I'm getting married in December, and I'd like to change it to my new surname...I know my ex would never agree, and he has PR so I cannot do it officially.
So I'd like to ask school and doctors to use a known by name. Does anyone else do this? Will the school/doctors agree to this or are they very strict regarding this sort of thing?
My child is really upset about being the odd one out(have two smaller children with hubby to be and would mean my child being the odd one out surname wise)
Any advice greatly appreciated